Why do men push for, encourage or even ‘demand’ early or casual sex only to later demonize or punish women for giving in? (Page 2)

LoloWaye · 2017-04-25T16:56:28Z

Just about everywhere we see guys talking about the ‘easiness’ of most modern women. The most honest will openly state their hate for women who “give it up” too easily and admit they will (or would) discount women who agree to have first date OR casual sex with them. Many are under the impression that any woman who “throws sex” at a man she barely knows to be “deserving” of the consequences. People thought “only” players and Chad-tier ‘fuckboys’ tried to goad or coerce women into having early or casual sex. They were handsome men that had people thought had obvious red flags. The women who fell for it were just stupid. But it's not just hot ‘assholes’ and out-of-your-league ‘ players. It’s the so-called nice guys and “average” men. They’re quick to call women “sluts” for having sex with them and even say she “should’ve known better”, but how? These men no longer make it clear they’re only looking for a fling from the get-go anymore. They try to woo women, beg to be given a chance and swear they’re “different” and “not that kind of guy” and pretend to be genuinely interested in a girl, going out of their way to signal their trust-worthiness and stability. Even after sex they'll use sly terms and ambiguous phrasing to keep a girl on the hook; "I think this could be something real", "we'll see where things go", "I'm usually pretty guarded", "I've been burned before", etc. Why? Most men want sex above all things, it seems ridiculous to me that once sex has been had, it diminishes the woman in their eyes and she becomes relegated to the position of fuckbuddy or fling. Why is it that getting what you want from a woman somehow makes her “less than” in the eyes of many men? It's definitely the biggest shit test of all time. How could you not think someone would fall for what they thought was honest?

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Because sometimes men like to test women too. Women are not the only ones with a right to be test givers.

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I've been in three long-term relationships and they all started out with sex on the first date it's something that's a norm now for people in their twenties it's really a shame

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its funny... i honestly thought after equality and feminism that the genders would be so much more respectful to each other, but one has to only look at the online bashing to discover how bad things really have gotten... so sad

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you must be dating some real ass holes. because a real man would not do that to any woman

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Just wait at least 3 months into a relationship before having sex.

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