I just realised with a guy I went on a date with there was no flirty banter despite my using various double entendres, saying I was going in the shower, in bed etc. which guys always seem to jump on.
We had a good date with chatting etc. but again no flirty banter really.
I had just presumed him not interested and texted him a day after to say thanks and that I had a good time. He replied saying it was good and asked a few questions - sent a longish text.
Now he hasn't been in contact for two days but has been on the dating site. My male friends think he's a player keeping his options open but they thought it odd there was no sexual innuendos or him even try to have sex or push things that way. I can understand him not being attracted to me in person perhaps but we were talking constantly for a week and he found my photos attractive.
Anyone else had anything like this happen?
Is flirty banter and a bit of sexual tension important for you in the pre-dating and dating stages?
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Maybe he didn't want to take it there, thought you may think it to soon to talk like that , some women make it like that these day, it's hard to know which ones will be receptive to it
Thank you! I just find that most guys automatically do this. Lesson learned haha
Yeah I wish I could read women's minds, then I would have no problem taking it there 😊 We just have to be careful since we don't know
I guess men have to be so careful that they don't come off as creeps. From where I'm from in the UK (Wales) banter is a part of the culture. Ribbing people and making it flirting is almost second nature. Perhaps that's why I found it so weird!
Maybe I need to visit England again since I'm from the states women are a lot different here and we would come off as creeps like you said if we did that , lol