Lol I imagine they're dudes that aren't getting matched. I gave tinder a shot for like 2 weeks and regretted it. My one rule was only right swiping new girls that I found attractive. If I wasn't interested or knew the girl personally I left swiped. I got hit up by text like a week later of girls I knew angrily saying, "YOU LEFT SWIPE ME!!". Hahaha that was so awkward lol. Had a couple matches, but a lot of girls that were looking for more and I didn't want that. So meh.
I find it much the same as any other dating site or dating app - It is what you make of it - I wouldn't do anything without getting to really know someone first as for the pickiness that for me seems to translate across the board - I am neutral on it neither loving or hating it
men need vagina women know this so women play around with its value to control men. even the men who win temporarily lose because women goals today is to be better then men in general. thats the agenda their pushing. Thats why you have to be more man for lesser of a women these days. they want to play around with their net value. Men want trust and women could carless some men even are scared of settling down later because they realize this.
It's a want, not a need. You aren't going to drop dead without pussy. Hell your dick won't even fall off if you stay a virgin for life like some guys think.
@IEat70sBush experience is everything with women its a need not a want. For some men the only way they learn about women is through experience. And knowing how to deal with women evens out the playing field, since most women get cock bombed to them they are a step ahead of men.
eh I've done without pussy for 19 years before, and even 6 years after I lost my virginity. I just found other hobbies while I took a break. I didn't die from it so it's just a want.
It's essentially completely worthless and a massive waste of time for guys who aren't 9/10 or 10/10 looking. I wouldn't say I hate it but I feel bad for guys who aren't getting anything out of it and just wasting their time.
I have never used Tinder, but the rest of dating sites I tried sucked so hard. And I have 75 H of training on online marketing, all my profiles outside that had been very appealing to people, and I had plenty of luck dating offline.
Simply those sites are a bad place for dating, just because girls cannot see how the guy really is. Girls needs to know personality to get engaged, and that cannot be told by text or by photos.
I dont hate it, its brilliant if you ask me, connect people based on zipcode who wants to hookup is simple yet very effective and profitable. I never will have it because i ain't about that life, I can still respect it's capabilities. And thats the other thing, it gives you everything you need to meet people who want the same thing, it's up to the user to get it to work. The world is full of loosers. I guess with social media we just seem to see it more and more.
110% agree. I joined tinder to get dates or sex. Not for girls to play games or give me some random taxi drivers number etc etc It's not funny playing with a mans heart after all we are the ones who girls need I mean it's not easy working while being pregnant and we probably earn more and yet this is how we get treated. Fact is if you girls keep this up your going to one day beg us to take you out. And from now on you'll be the ones having to ask us out.
Women will hold out for eternity for a ten, wheras men (even 10's) will fuck just about anything... So all your <10 women get used and thrown away adnauseum, all the while developing shittier and shittier attitudes about how superficial men are... too... while your <10 men sit around twiddling their thumbs
The moral of the story is don't go to a hook-up site expecting to be "the one" who can change a man who's only looking for easy, and don't go to a hook-up site looking for women unless you're specifically looking for a girl who's just going through a promiscuous phase, or else be prepared to be used or overlooked.
I don't hate it. I just never use it really. When I did use it I didn't find a single girl who found me attractive enough (both looks and personality/profile wise) to want to communicate so I didn't bother using it anymore. But it's never made me hate it. I just found it to become a waste of time.
@JohnDoe3000 Surely for every girl that does, there is a guy that has success?
Let's ignore for the moment the fabled casanova who sleeps with 100 women a night, because for the most part on these apps he doesn't exist. I know a couple girls who use Tinder and struggle.
I think all the women there are technically trolls themselves. they're just there for the attention and hype. the ones that do use it for what it was intentionally for always want free dinner and more than just your dick
A bunch of butthurt dudes that have no game. Tinder was seriously the easiest shit when I was single. I agree with the entitlement from snobby chicks but you just look past that and break past that by flirting. Then you fuck them. At that point, their attitude is irrelevant.
I think having "logic" is a lot more important than having "game" and to be honest not that I'm trying to defame your success or anything but I really don't see any reasons to feel a sense of accomplishment in banging any of those bird brains on tinder who do nothing but exchange their cunts for free dates and easier access to status or any other bullshit that they feel like they can brag about
Okay, well you asked about tinder. Tinder by default is known to be a hook-up. So having said that, I articulated my experience on tinder in reference to sex. I was simply replying to your question. Sex is sex. The girl you're fucking has a warm hole and a pretty face. Her personality is irrelevant if you're fucking her. I never once paid for a date on tinder. All I literally would do is meetup and fuck. We were sending nudes prior to even meeting. We talked dirty prior to meeting. Their IQ is irrelevant if my dick feels good. Logic has no place in trying to score women on tinder. The only logic that could be successfully applicable is the logic of numbers. Meaning, the more people you message, the better chances. The logic of probability.
oh you'll be surprised how many of them write "I don't do hookups" as their headlines. yea sex is obviously sex but the majority of the women there don't just want sex, they want sex along with free desserts. if its not a free date they want then its status that they want which is probably what you provided them with if you never paid them. they probably said...
"hey this guy has ______ , I bet if I let him in my pussy I can
1- make the chicks at my job jealous
2- piss off my ex-boyfriend
3- have something to gossip about
4- call him whenever I need a favor"
and the list goes on. so yea that is what I was trying to get at, sex is sex alright but I sure as hell don't want to become mascot or a slave for drama after the sex which is will no doubt be lame and boring sex anyways since it been proven numerous of times already that the type of women who use these types of apps are the worst ones in bed anyways
The ones that write I don't do hookups are lying their ass off half of the time. I've fucked a couple of those girls that had that on their bios.
Again, I looked at tinder as a platform for easy sex just as almost everyone does. They can go ahead and use me for X, Y, and Z all she wants. All that matters to me is I'm getting my dick in. I can confirm that the majority of girls on tinder want sex. I've fucked a lot of girls using that app. I wrote a whole mytake on tips that made me successful with it.
I'm not sure whether you are joke or what. I guess Tinder or all dating apps works well in USA. In Europe we go to clubs and fuck a chick of same night.
Because they think they're going to get laid and then they don't so they throw they throw a bitch fit because they didn't get the hook up they thought they were entitled to.
true. I never had a problem matching as I did matched with 100s of women a week but what it was the hypocrisy that drove me insane. out of those 100s of women 97 of them use to ignore me and the other 3 did nothing but play mind games
I'm more of an in person type of person. I play off whomever I'm talking to, can't do that over the phone and as such I tend to suck at texting until I get to know the other person better. So It's just not for me.
Also, it's full of bots and other random fake profiles.
You could say the same for much of the men on Tinder using that app with your friend's explanation. Sometimes you find a diamond in the rough who is exactly what you're looking for.
No, you really can't. It would be nice if it was all gender neutral, but it isn't. The only "legitimate" complaint I can see women on Tinder having is continuously getting unmatched by men who swipe right on everyone, but even that only happens when the woman swiped way out of her league. It's part normal "nightclub dynamics" and aprt the fact that there are more men than women on the app.
I you don't believe me go ask your boyfriend or brother, or a friend (the point is he has to be a regular guy, maybe a bit handsome, but no movie star/male model looks) if you can use their facebook to run a male Tinder account.
@JohnDoe3000 yeah it's also nice when you receive a plethora of messages from guys asking if I want pictures of their dick, explicit sexual messages, etc. Most guys I know use it just to get laid, and they can. It's what Tinder is essentially for - fun. friends with benefits. That's the culture of Tinder, so it makes me question how many "disease ridden" men are on there and they're usually self-narcisstic selfie, gym bros. As I said, you can on the rare occasion find someone normal to talk too and have it go from there.
I hear about dick pics and such a lot from women, but none of my friends have ever sent one so I tend to take that with a grain of salt. Some idiots do it, but you can smell that from a mile away, so how the hell do you end up matching with them? If I can easily filter out vapid party girls with 17 layers of makeup then how hard can it be to filter the douchebros?
And with the gender ratio on the app being what it is it shouldn't be a problem if a smaller percentage of men than women on the app was open to something serious.
They either hate it because they are looking for a genuine relationship but tinder is a hookup app, or they get zero matches and it crushes their self esteem.
I know I certainly don't respond who say things like "I'm looking to go on adventures" or just simply give a vibe that they're not looking for a genuine relationship.
It's not a minority (and even if it was that wouldn't necessarily matter because there are more guys than girls on it anyway), they do get a minority of right swipes and messages though.
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Lol I imagine they're dudes that aren't getting matched. I gave tinder a shot for like 2 weeks and regretted it. My one rule was only right swiping new girls that I found attractive. If I wasn't interested or knew the girl personally I left swiped. I got hit up by text like a week later of girls I knew angrily saying, "YOU LEFT SWIPE ME!!". Hahaha that was so awkward lol.
Had a couple matches, but a lot of girls that were looking for more and I didn't want that. So meh.
I find it much the same as any other dating site or dating app - It is what you make of it - I wouldn't do anything without getting to really know someone first as for the pickiness that for me seems to translate across the board - I am neutral on it neither loving or hating it
men need vagina women know this so women play around with its value to control men. even the men who win temporarily lose because women goals today is to be better then men in general. thats the agenda their pushing. Thats why you have to be more man for lesser of a women these days. they want to play around with their net value. Men want trust and women could carless some men even are scared of settling down later because they realize this.
It's a want, not a need. You aren't going to drop dead without pussy. Hell your dick won't even fall off if you stay a virgin for life like some guys think.
@IEat70sBush experience is everything with women its a need not a want. For some men the only way they learn about women is through experience. And knowing how to deal with women evens out the playing field, since most women get cock bombed to them they are a step ahead of men.
eh I've done without pussy for 19 years before, and even 6 years after I lost my virginity. I just found other hobbies while I took a break. I didn't die from it so it's just a want.
It's essentially completely worthless and a massive waste of time for guys who aren't 9/10 or 10/10 looking. I wouldn't say I hate it but I feel bad for guys who aren't getting anything out of it and just wasting their time.
I have never used Tinder, but the rest of dating sites I tried sucked so hard. And I have 75 H of training on online marketing, all my profiles outside that had been very appealing to people, and I had plenty of luck dating offline.
Simply those sites are a bad place for dating, just because girls cannot see how the guy really is. Girls needs to know personality to get engaged, and that cannot be told by text or by photos.
It's good outside the United States, but I think American women are mostly trash that's why.
as a person who was raised in America I agree with you 110% as well
I dont hate it, its brilliant if you ask me, connect people based on zipcode who wants to hookup is simple yet very effective and profitable. I never will have it because i ain't about that life, I can still respect it's capabilities. And thats the other thing, it gives you everything you need to meet people who want the same thing, it's up to the user to get it to work.
The world is full of loosers. I guess with social media we just seem to see it more and more.
110% agree. I joined tinder to get dates or sex. Not for girls to play games or give me some random taxi drivers number etc etc
It's not funny playing with a mans heart after all we are the ones who girls need I mean it's not easy working while being pregnant and we probably earn more and yet this is how we get treated. Fact is if you girls keep this up your going to one day beg us to take you out. And from now on you'll be the ones having to ask us out.
HAHAHAHA you tell her @TheUsername27
Women will hold out for eternity for a ten, wheras men (even 10's) will fuck just about anything... So all your <10 women get used and thrown away adnauseum, all the while developing shittier and shittier attitudes about how superficial men are... too... while your <10 men sit around twiddling their thumbs
The moral of the story is don't go to a hook-up site expecting to be "the one" who can change a man who's only looking for easy, and don't go to a hook-up site looking for women unless you're specifically looking for a girl who's just going through a promiscuous phase, or else be prepared to be used or overlooked.
I don't hate it. I just never use it really. When I did use it I didn't find a single girl who found me attractive enough (both looks and personality/profile wise) to want to communicate so I didn't bother using it anymore. But it's never made me hate it. I just found it to become a waste of time.
I'm going to presume... and I might be wrong... but guys here probably don't have much success on Tinder, hence the dislike.
Most guys, on or off this site, don't have much success with it.
@JohnDoe3000 Surely for every girl that does, there is a guy that has success?
Let's ignore for the moment the fabled casanova who sleeps with 100 women a night, because for the most part on these apps he doesn't exist. I know a couple girls who use Tinder and struggle.
1) there are definitely plenty of guys on there who are occupying multiple girls, and notice that this could happen sequentially too.
2) there are more guys than girls on Tinder, especially once you discount the ones who are just there for attention/validation.
3) I never claimed ALL girls were having "success", just that few guys were having success.
That app is hilarious. I used it just to troll girls before, not anymore haha
I think all the women there are technically trolls themselves. they're just there for the attention and hype. the ones that do use it for what it was intentionally for always want free dinner and more than just your dick
A bunch of butthurt dudes that have no game. Tinder was seriously the easiest shit when I was single. I agree with the entitlement from snobby chicks but you just look past that and break past that by flirting. Then you fuck them. At that point, their attitude is irrelevant.
I think having "logic" is a lot more important than having "game" and to be honest not that I'm trying to defame your success or anything but I really don't see any reasons to feel a sense of accomplishment in banging any of those bird brains on tinder who do nothing but exchange their cunts for free dates and easier access to status or any other bullshit that they feel like they can brag about
Okay, well you asked about tinder. Tinder by default is known to be a hook-up. So having said that, I articulated my experience on tinder in reference to sex. I was simply replying to your question. Sex is sex. The girl you're fucking has a warm hole and a pretty face. Her personality is irrelevant if you're fucking her. I never once paid for a date on tinder. All I literally would do is meetup and fuck. We were sending nudes prior to even meeting. We talked dirty prior to meeting. Their IQ is irrelevant if my dick feels good. Logic has no place in trying to score women on tinder. The only logic that could be successfully applicable is the logic of numbers. Meaning, the more people you message, the better chances. The logic of probability.
oh you'll be surprised how many of them write "I don't do hookups" as their headlines. yea sex is obviously sex but the majority of the women there don't just want sex, they want sex along with free desserts. if its not a free date they want then its status that they want which is probably what you provided them with if you never paid them. they probably said...
"hey this guy has ______ , I bet if I let him in my pussy I can
1- make the chicks at my job jealous
2- piss off my ex-boyfriend
3- have something to gossip about
4- call him whenever I need a favor"
and the list goes on. so yea that is what I was trying to get at, sex is sex alright but I sure as hell don't want to become mascot or a slave for drama after the sex which is will no doubt be lame and boring sex anyways since it been proven numerous of times already that the type of women who use these types of apps are the worst ones in bed anyways
The ones that write I don't do hookups are lying their ass off half of the time. I've fucked a couple of those girls that had that on their bios.
Again, I looked at tinder as a platform for easy sex just as almost everyone does. They can go ahead and use me for X, Y, and Z all she wants. All that matters to me is I'm getting my dick in. I can confirm that the majority of girls on tinder want sex. I've fucked a lot of girls using that app. I wrote a whole mytake on tips that made me successful with it.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a27884-the-definitive-tinder-guide-for-the-sexually-inclined
I'm not sure whether you are joke or what. I guess Tinder or all dating apps works well in USA. In Europe we go to clubs and fuck a chick of same night.
@fermatote BUT... STD's and STI's i mean condom obviously but what are the rules?
dude I read your mytake and I'm not saying I disagree but I'm pretty sure that if you would of look like this guy for example...
https://i.imgur.com/Iob4Gw7.jpg
and spoke to those women the way you did then they sure as hell would of sang different tunes.
Because they think they're going to get laid and then they don't so they throw they throw a bitch fit because they didn't get the hook up they thought they were entitled to.
hmm, why does this story seem so familiar!!
The lack of matching that occurs for most men, combined with the overloading of female spam bots, can make a guy go insane!
I never took Tinder seriously.
true. I never had a problem matching as I did matched with 100s of women a week but what it was the hypocrisy that drove me insane. out of those 100s of women 97 of them use to ignore me and the other 3 did nothing but play mind games
I'm more of an in person type of person. I play off whomever I'm talking to, can't do that over the phone and as such I tend to suck at texting until I get to know the other person better. So It's just not for me.
Also, it's full of bots and other random fake profiles.
You could say the same for much of the men on Tinder using that app with your friend's explanation. Sometimes you find a diamond in the rough who is exactly what you're looking for.
No, you really can't. It would be nice if it was all gender neutral, but it isn't. The only "legitimate" complaint I can see women on Tinder having is continuously getting unmatched by men who swipe right on everyone, but even that only happens when the woman swiped way out of her league. It's part normal "nightclub dynamics" and aprt the fact that there are more men than women on the app.
I you don't believe me go ask your boyfriend or brother, or a friend (the point is he has to be a regular guy, maybe a bit handsome, but no movie star/male model looks) if you can use their facebook to run a male Tinder account.
@JohnDoe3000 yeah it's also nice when you receive a plethora of messages from guys asking if I want pictures of their dick, explicit sexual messages, etc. Most guys I know use it just to get laid, and they can. It's what Tinder is essentially for - fun. friends with benefits. That's the culture of Tinder, so it makes me question how many "disease ridden" men are on there and they're usually self-narcisstic selfie, gym bros. As I said, you can on the rare occasion find someone normal to talk too and have it go from there.
I hear about dick pics and such a lot from women, but none of my friends have ever sent one so I tend to take that with a grain of salt. Some idiots do it, but you can smell that from a mile away, so how the hell do you end up matching with them? If I can easily filter out vapid party girls with 17 layers of makeup then how hard can it be to filter the douchebros?
And with the gender ratio on the app being what it is it shouldn't be a problem if a smaller percentage of men than women on the app was open to something serious.
They either hate it because they are looking for a genuine relationship but tinder is a hookup app, or they get zero matches and it crushes their self esteem.
Tinder is what you make of it. I've actually met people who are looking for something serious. I'm certainly not looking to just fuck.
I know I certainly don't respond who say things like "I'm looking to go on adventures" or just simply give a vibe that they're not looking for a genuine relationship.
@babylips14 well that's the minority
@Pomegranate139
It's not a minority (and even if it was that wouldn't necessarily matter because there are more guys than girls on it anyway), they do get a minority of right swipes and messages though.
Don't hate it, because I never used it. I was gonna at one point, but I've been hearing it's basically a hookup or one night stand kinda app.
No thank you.
It's an online brothel for girls. I don't hate it though. People can do what they want.