No one wants a person who moves too fast by definition. People generally don't want to have to break someones heart hard or get stuck into a commitment that they have significant involvement in.
Cos if they think you are a cling on its easier to get rid of you now rather than wait til your feelings are stronger.. then its much harder to get rid
Well, if a girl gets on too quickly and too tight.. its suffocating. At the beginning its tolerable but its kinda unbearable later on. Some may just not be looking for a relationship most of the time and just want some fun.
Well, speaking for myself, all I want is a friend, not a romantic relationship, so if a woman were to try to seduce me (I've not had to worry about that so far) I would be flustered. Struck dumb, even.
if boys are scared then they aren't grown up or they are just playing the field. it's ok if both are in agreement but actually all people can fall for each other at any time. can you control your love , ? if you can then it's not love.
Damn. Maybe you were with the wrong guys. You are so pretty maybe you were with guys who only wanted your beauty/sex. It's okay, it happens to many girls. You will find the right guy one day! :)
Not all men are Chandler but most of them are.. if u knw what i mean. You are right those are actually boys bc Committment is something only men can give..
I wonder the same thing with girls. my mom says she's always kinda quick to fall head over heels. I don't know why others aren't. It's an exciting feeling liking someone and knowing they like you too.
mostly its the man who should provide for family, some guys even take it offensive if their woman wants to work so they are probably afraid that what if they couldn't do what's necessary to support the family
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He's not in love with you. Or you haven't caused him to want to chase you. Men love the chase, in fact, most people love the chase.
Actually, we don't love to chase anymore than women do.
depends on the kind of fast you're talking about.. I mean you're dating for a week and already talking about marriage.. that would send me running.
I'm not gonna lie. You seem like a stage 3 clinger. Guys hate clingy girls. It's the number 1 most unattractive thing in a girl.
Never noticed that with a guy tbh. With me and my boyfriend it was exactly the other way around haha.
i guess it is related to relationship , and you might be more attracted towards guys who prefer sex (teenager) ..
No one wants a person who moves too fast by definition. People generally don't want to have to break someones heart hard or get stuck into a commitment that they have significant involvement in.
Cos if they think you are a cling on its easier to get rid of you now rather than wait til your feelings are stronger.. then its much harder to get rid
Well, if a girl gets on too quickly and too tight.. its suffocating. At the beginning its tolerable but its kinda unbearable later on. Some may just not be looking for a relationship most of the time and just want some fun.
Well, speaking for myself, all I want is a friend, not a romantic relationship, so if a woman were to try to seduce me (I've not had to worry about that so far) I would be flustered. Struck dumb, even.
It is not that they get scared, most of them are his looking for a sex buddy and not a long term relationship...
I can't speak with anyone else but the last two ladies I gave my heart to completely they destroyed my heart
If a girl moves too fast yes a guy will get scared and he will run and same thing will happen if a guy moves too fast on a girl.
if boys are scared then they aren't grown up or they are just playing the field. it's ok if both are in agreement but actually all people can fall for each other at any time. can you control your love , ? if you can then it's not love.
what if a guy is afraid of that love.
cuz it seems too "easy", guys are in it for the chase
Because they are boys. Boys are pussy. It's time to look for men!
Well, it has happen with mens too...
Damn. Maybe you were with the wrong guys. You are so pretty maybe you were with guys who only wanted your beauty/sex. It's okay, it happens to many girls. You will find the right guy one day! :)
Aww, thanku darling 😍yes, I hope I find a boy who wants more than sex. Have been single in 3 years now, and I'm so sick of it...
You are welcome! You are still very young xx Don't worry <3
I know. Thanks❤️
You are most welcome! <3
Why doesn't this post have downvotes? This is true..
I don't want sex like most I just want a smart funny girl who also loves me for me
It's sad but true... I hope it's not true tho, cuz he is older than me and I don't feel like he is a boy anymore
Not all men are Chandler but most of them are.. if u knw what i mean. You are right those are actually boys bc Committment is something only men can give..
We just don't want a shallow relationship and if it starts in sex were worried it won't mean anything.
Why could not mean anything if it starts with sex? Could you please elaborate?
@Melina1982 it's not that it won't mean anything, we're just afraid it won't.
Wow... Thanks for the info.
hahah who Said anything about sex? we girl are just The same, or I think we are worse actually!! its just bullshit what you're saying
I wonder the same thing with girls. my mom says she's always kinda quick to fall head over heels. I don't know why others aren't. It's an exciting feeling liking someone and knowing they like you too.
Commitment is easy in a relationship and dating. Find better guys.
mostly its the man who should provide for family, some guys even take it offensive if their woman wants to work so they are probably afraid that what if they couldn't do what's necessary to support the family