Boyfriend changed his profile picture to a shirtless selfie?

[Calixx]

On his kik, I saw he changed his profile to a shirtless selfie (this is a selfie he sent me over Snapchat too). I thought it was something he sent only to me, but now the whole world is seeing it. On his kik, that's where he talks to all his friends from his home country (s). He also had exes on there and past girls he's hooked up with.

This makes me feel really jealous. Why isn't my attention enough?

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I am just imaging all the girls commenting on his photo to him, and who knows what he's replying :/ I just feel disrespected in a sense. I don't post sexual/provocative photos of myself online. I respect him and our relationship. The male attention I get online is unwarranted. I'm not asking for it like him.

This makes me not want to be receptive at all to the shirtless pictures he sends me now. He's probably sending them over Snapchat to everyone.

[LovelyFlower]

The reason he posted a shirtless picture as his profile is because many guys, particularly immature ones are insecure. Making a girl jealous is a way to artificially inflate his ego by re-enforcing that You actually care. A girl who doesn't care won't get jealous.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Just ask him why is posting a shirtless profile pic. In my experience guys do that cause they are either looking for attention or they want to show off.

[Calixx]

I'm not sure why he needs attention from other girls. I don't post photos like that because I find it disrespectful.

Also (I feel he didn't think I'd ever see the photo).

[XRabbitHeartX]

Well there you have it. He wants attention from other girls which is a red flag. He should be feeling like he has enough from you unless he is a very insecure guy.

[Calixx]

He tries to act like he's very confident and self-secure, but I don't buy it.

I hype him up fairly often, more so than he does me. I'm just more upset that he sent that photo to me... but then makes it his profile picture. Why these girls need to see his body? I don't know.

I'm thinking of posting a bikini photo (which is something I'd never done) lol

[XRabbitHeartX]

No. Please dont do the whole lets get even thing. It is really immature behavior but I understand why you feel tempted. But never stoop down to. someones level. That is not the right attitude to try to get back with someone especially a SO. Just talk to. him about it instead of being passive aggressive. x

[yash1234]

you should talk to him about your concerns and closely observe his reaction

[BallsySquirrel]

Change your picture to a topless selfie! That'll show him!

[torixpetrol]

Best solution so far!

[max_spy]

you're over thinking

[Calixx]

How so?

[brainpower]

maybe he just liked the way he looked

[Calixx]

I suppose. But, I don't post photos like that (me in revealing clothes) :/

[Anonymous]

tell him to change it something else