Why haven't I had a boyfriend yet?

[Anonymous]

Hey my names Abby and I'm 15, I'm going into my sophomore year in highschool this fall and I have never had a boyfriend and sometimes I feel like nobody is ever gonna love me or want to date me, but other than that I'm a very confident person, I sometimes feel like I'm never going to get married I know it's stupid because I'm young but I can't help it

[ShortCircuit]

This is going to be blunt, so don't say I didn't warn you:

I know it's hard to believe, but high school isn't all there is to life. It's 4 fucking years. Humans live for an average of 79 years (that figure is skewed by third world countries, and I take it you don't live in one). So realistically, you can expect to live an extra 5-10 years.

You aren't going to keel over and die if someone doesn't hold your hand in the next few years. You need to widen your perspective.

[kaiii3]

I had my first relationship with 21, you have your whole live still. So no need to rush

[RJGraveyTrain]

Because you're 15. I didn't have my first real boyfriend until I was damn near 17. You have other things to worry about: I promise you that 15 year old boys have little to offer at this age, hell all 15 year olds have little to offer at this age. Serious, life long love and dating really doesn't come until much later for most folks.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Thanks for MHGirl.

[Asker]

No problem

[15562]

Its probably a good thing you havnt had a boyfriend. chances re relationships dont last and itll affect schooling because most kids can't handle the emotional stress. Dont worry about it, its normal.

[InDetail]

Gurl, most haven't even held hands with a girl by 30 , maybe sex but never held hands lol, but if you are scared of that take things into your own hands , ask them out in the adult world there's nothing more attractive than a woman going after what she wants relationship wise , even buisness wise as well, if they turn you down you probably caught them off guard and that is a very good thing

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Because you're 15. Worry about your school and not getting a boyfriend. You have literally many years for that.

[nbbn5]

i never had a girlfriend and high school relationships are not mature enough and i feel the same that nobody will love me but i try to think positive and after high school better many thing changes you will find someone who will like you :) :)

[Joti_Harrison]

Christ, you're just 15. Stick to your books. Many here in Uni atm don't even know what a relationship is.

[Spartanluke217]

It all depend how you look like (most of the time) at first. How you look can attract a guy then you got to a a personality they are looking for. Some times it not you it them.

[Atreyu]

I think everyone feels that way when they haven't started dating and they want to.

but everyone starts eventually and that feeling goes away forever :)
I assure you, you will wish you weren't dating soon enough lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You will find someone who will love you and sweep you off your feet
just give it time and keep close to Jesus he will see you through.

[Bezbozhnikustanka]

Really? Do you want to get pregnant, flunk out of school and end up working in Walmart for minimum wage? You can start dating when you graduate from university.

[Justinaveragedude]

Just give yourself time. you are young, but you will get there. I had my first relationship at 23. You have plenty of time.

[Anonymous]

your still pretty young and a lot of girls your age haven't really started to date yet

[lord_chilled]

You need to make a move a bit more often. at your age, most guys aren't confident enough to approach u yet

[emerald77]

It's normal not to have one at your age.

[the3ghzpc]

just wait, its not worth it till ur older anyway

[blondfrog]

Pay a male hooker or buy one at a shop.

[Thevampire]

You're still young, enjoy your life

[Surgence]

I'm 18 and still don't have a girlfriend :(

[Whatthefluff]

You're still young.

[Deusmortis]

maybe because you are a fatty

[Asker]

I'm 5'4 and weigh 126 lbs

[Declan_R]

that's a dick thing to say

[Deusmortis]

I'm trying to be true declan

[Deusmortis]

well you're okay, I hope you will find someone

[Declan_R]

then you're also saying that there aren't people who are interested in larger people

[Deusmortis]

absolutely I haven't seen any

[Declan_R]

wow, I know a lot of people who are interested in them

[Asker]

@Deusmortis and I'm just gonna say this for your own good and you're lucky I'm not the type that would get offended by what you said but I'm gonna tell you right there are girls who would actually take offense to that and you could very well destroy a girls self esteem and make her depressed so next time I would think twice about what you said

[Deusmortis]

dude which fantasy world you are living in. it only exist in fiction and thoughts. the world we live in is far too different

[Asker]

You don't fucking call a girl fatty, that's disrespectful

[Declan_R]

I agree with the askers point and like I said I know many people that are interested in larger people

[Asker]

@Declan_R So do I

[Declan_R]

exactly and to answer your question, it's not worth it having a boyfriend in highschool unless it's true love which is extremely unlikely

[Deusmortis]

dear asker I just can't stop myself from saying true things. I just can't please people by lying

[Joti_Harrison]

FAT is an adjective word in the English dictionary. I might very well use it to describe what I see. Don't wanna rule out a words purpose just cos of people's feelings.

[Deusmortis]

thanks

[Declan_R]

so you ignore all morality and humanity to try to say something

[Deusmortis]

what's wrong with you mate lol morality and humanity.

[Joti_Harrison]

Nah, what is immoral is not being a kind fellow human to tall your fellow human that they are getting fat, letting themselves go and could become obese leading to several heart diseases, diabetes and other health conditions just because of their feelings. What is more important, feelings or your fellow humans health, you be the judge.

[Asker]

@Declan_R it's sad we're the younger ones and we're more mature, and know what to say and what not to say, @Deusmortis @Joti_Harrison if you guys can't see that calling someone a fatty is wrong even if they are a little bigger, that's insanely sad

[Joti_Harrison]

If you can't see that banning a word due to people's feelings is leading to an obesity epidemic here in the US, then you're the sad one.

More percentages of our healthcare go towards patients of o esity here in the US almost same funds as those who have cancer. OUR taxes. All because some liberal nutsack decided that telling people they had a problem was insensitive and inhumane. Kinda like telling someone he has HIV and should seek help is inhumane. So much pus*** nowadays.

[Deusmortis]

exactly @Joti_Harrison
@asker you are immature. you will understand things more clearly as you grow old

[Declan_R]

Completely agree

[Declan_R]

the asker knows enough about the world around her to know that a persons feelings and self confidence are important, it's idiots like you who can lead people to depression or other mental health issues

[Declan_R]

my point exactly, if you were mature enough you wouldn't be arguing about this and would let it go

[Joti_Harrison]

"the asker knows enough about the world around her to know that a persons feelings and self confidence are important, it's idiots like you who can lead people to depression or other mental health issues"

I have no more hope for humanity.

@Deusmortis Don't insult them man, when they grow older and they start paying bills, get rejected a couple times, get queried by their boss for stuff that's not their fault, they will see that life is not always about feelings, neither is it a fairy tale land.
The world is far more objective and unforgiving than you think. You need to be tough and resilient in it to succeed. The truth could hurt at times, but it has to be said for the better good of society.

[Joti_Harrison]

They probably don't even know what taxes and how painful it is to pay taxes from the sweat of the labour of your salary, only for that money to be funded and given to someone who decided to eat all day long and get Fat. They'll learn when they grow older.

[eagle1951]

it'll happen. don't rush it

[NeroLord]

Do you have instagram?

[desireee512]

it's not a bad thing