Why don’t I have a boyfriend yet but all my friends do?

[Odappy]

Right so I’m 18 nearly turning 19, I’ve never had a first kiss, never been in a relationship and never having a boyfriend. I tend to fall in love easily as I love showing my love to others. I’ve had many crushes but everytime it’s been a disappointment. Anytime I go out with my friends they talk about their boyfriends and their plans with them. I feel so alone, as I’ve got everything going well so far in my life: passed my driving test, doing an internship over the summer and I’m in uni but I’m missing romantic love. I’ve been out to clubs but no boys hit on me or flirt with me but with my uni friends. I’m a nice girl, I wear my heart on my sleeve. Seriously what am I doing wrong? I just want a nice man in my life. I’ve even tried hinge and yubo nothing.

[ohsheeT]

How about friends that are boys do you have those we are all special people and I mean that in so many different ways but you have to know who you really are and what you really want in order for things and all good things to happen we need to experience things in life to understand them the more times that we experience things the deeper we understand them it's just like love we all know what love feels like from our parents but until we find that person that we are in love with and experience that we only knew it to that level like they say we only know what we know how many things have you experienced about love or about boys I always say to people you have the whole internet here there are so many different ways to experience things that are beautiful and once you start experience in those things you will totally start melting and understanding what it's all about a little bit more it's like having a teacher that will teach you everything just so you can experience it to understand it I think your time is coming but you need to understand things a little bit more I think I would use the internet if I was you too explore and experience things or even gag you know meet somebody and start talking with somebody ask questions become it fill it express it enjoy it love it hate it but do it you need every type of experience in this world to become the best that you can become no matter what you're doing

[Anonymous]

Maybe there's something in store for you in the near future. Do not worry about romance. Mr Right will be there. Worry about getting through your University years. You're quite Young. You like to play for keeps. Press forward and look at other avenues still go out and have fun with your friends. I saw this going on in my younger years. I too wanted to have a relationship. I'm glad I didn't get married until about 27. I had the opportunity to teach at some great universities. I also met my future bride while I was guess professorship at a University. Not everything works the way minded.

[Emerald55346]

Lol clubs are the worst place to meet guys if you do find one they won’t be quality most likely, you need to focus on yourself and filling your day and time with what makes you feel happy and someone good will see you shine from that and be attracted to you, it’s hard to find love when you are searching for it. Try to find more single friends and expand your network it will also open you up to more options.

[sheikalana]

Don't be so in a rush. Someone will eventually come. Just because is doing the same thing doesn't mean you also have to do it.

[db684]

Probably just meet as many people as possible. Say yes to social events you're invited to and join societies at uni. That'll increase your chances. Going to clubs isn't really the best place to look for boyfriends tbh. Mostly just one night things. But I'm sure you'll be fine. Sounds like you're hard working and do stuff so you'll meet someone soon. But dating isn't the only thing in life there's other things to enjoy as well in the meantime.

[Chill_Thoughts]

You'll find someone don't let it get to you! You sound lovely so I'm sure that if a guy gets the chance to get to know you properly you'll have a great relationship. You just have to keep looking and he'll show up!

[Guy13]

Things happen in God’s Time. Do not fret over it. It is not that important in the scheme of Life. It will come.

[Odappy]

Amen🙏🏾

[Sonalsharma25]

There is not rush. I've been like this before and ended up with a wrong guy. So better to find someone who's really worth your time.

[driven159]

Don't worry you are way too young to worry about that you have your life in order you will find a man not a boy but a man that will take good care of your heart and never break it don't be in a big rush it will happen on its own

[D_Bone_Steak]

Would I be able to tell you why if I saw a picture of you?

[jahaims]

If you haven't dated you haven't been in love. You have lust and infatuation. Getting a boyfriend doesn't just happen. You can take the initiative and ask someone out on a date.

[Staximus]

Stay out of the clubs unless you like being treated like a piece of meat. Don't fall for a guy until you know he cares as much about you as you do about him.

[OddBeMe]

Knowing you “fall in love easily” is really good self awareness. Keep that in mind when dating in college…where most of us get all the action.

I didn't start til 20…

[Luopio27]

Have you tried tinder or other dating apps and sites?

[JohnK123]

Ur still young haha don’t worry

[RuthlessAggression]

Why's it say you're 19, then

[In_Trance]

It's something you're saying or doing (or not)

[Anonymous]

You don't really want one.

[Anonymous]

probably ugly.

[Odappy]

Thank u love for your beautiful message.