I had 5 guys before him, 4 bfs and 1 guy who played me, i crushed on this guy and he used this to have sex with me while making promises to be exclusive.
My boyfriend knows about all of this and he puts a lot of effort into making me feel special and happy.
As far as now he didn't showed any signs of being jealous and insecure about my past. But i think he might dislike it that he wasn't my first. He is pretty confident but he puts very much value on sex and thats why he didn't had sex with anyone even if he had the chance to. So cause i am far from being a virgin i guess it bothers him.
So because he makes me feel incredibly special i want him to feel this way too. I want him to feel as my one and only and that all the guys before him dont matter to me and are nothing against him (which is true, he is 10000% husband material and god dammit is he good at oral sex now)
What is the best way to make him feel special?
I want him to never think about my past badly, i want him to feel like the absolute winner.
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I don't know about how to make him feel special, but I don't think he worries about you having earlier experiences. Your past happened with boyfriends, people who you liked and trusted, and I think he tries to prove he won't use you or leave you.
Just act as you will do same, care about him, communicate with him, if something gets awkward, don't get mad but laugh at situation. I don't know does it make it feel any special, but at least positive, but I believe you already knew this.
And I'm virgin so I kind of used what I would want as reference on this, but I'm not him and you know your boyfriend better than I do.