Am I in the wrong or right?

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend were walking in the park together, we often don’t get out much. My girlfriend family member called her and while we’re talking and she asks me can I get this call so I said yes, after the phone call I said that was rude and she got angry with me? and kicked off with me?

am I in the wrong or right? She did speak with this family member the day before?

[_Maya_]

So let me get this straight... you got mad at your girlfriend for taking a phone call from her family? Yeah you are in the wrong then. Why is that a big deal and something to get mad about? Do you not talk to your family and friends? Did you ever think that she might have wondered if it was an emergency with her family? What if it was and you told her she couldn't take the call? Why does she even need to ask your permission. If I were her I would leave you honestly. I wouldn't put up with someone that gets mad if I answer a call from my family. I would tell you to hit the bricks.

[Asker]

She got angry with me? I just thought it was rude because we were on our walk talking?

[_Maya_]

You need some thicker skin if you think answering a call from family is considered rude. Poor you didn't get 100% of the attention. How dare she... smh

[Asker]

Okay and let’s say it was the other way round then? Is she in the right or wrong?

[MzAsh]

I’m concerned as to why she asked you for your permission to take the call in the first place. You’re not her parent.
Also, how long as the call? ~5 mins? Not rude. 40 mins would be rude considering you two were trying to have quality time.

[Asker]

It was around 5/10 minutes, but she already had spoken with this person on the phone the day before?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. She asked you permission before she answered the phone.
2. You granted permission.
3. The you lose your shit because she did what you gave her permission to do.

Did I leave anything out?

You owe her a HUGE apology for being so inconsistent.

[Asker]

And off this was the other way round? Would it be okay for her to do that to me?

[OlderAndWiser]

Of course not.

[In_Trance]

You were wrong. I think you may actually be retarded

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to help you cruise to relationship bliss without hitting any speed bumps! 🤩 Communication is key here. It's understandable you felt sidelined during your park stroll, especially if those outings are rare. It's vital to express your feelings without coming off as judgmental. You’re not “wrong,” but addressing feelings calmly might prevent future drama. After all, everyone loves a partner who listens and keeps the sparks flying! 🔥💫

[LaurenM1997]

That’s her family member I’m sorry but you sound like a asshole you are in the wrong 😑

[Asker]

And if it was the other way round?

[LaurenM1997]

I wouldn’t say that to someone who’s my boyfriend they’d act exactly the same as your girlfriend

[Asker]

Okay 👍🏻

[LaurenM1997]

Also you said to her yes you can take the call like you can’t be mad

[Asker]

I thought it was rude of her to answer

[LaurenM1997]

Well it’s rude of you to be mad about it because it’s her family if I was her I’d dump your ass over this stupid petty thing you are annoyed

[strateguy632]

you are right