Do you as a white man, find black women attractive?

[Anonymous]

I always find a mixture of responses when it comes to black women. By far black women have it the roughest because the media paints black women so negatively. People also feed of stereotypes, which is not true. Many black women would like to go interracial as well.

Yes, I find them attractive

No, I don't find them attractive

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+1 y

OK so basically 65% of white men find black women attractive. So the average white guy in the street if there are two guys 1 may be attracted to black women, good to know.

[Anonymous]

Said this before around here.
Winter, 10 PM, just got out of the grocery store. Cold as fuck. I cross the street and I notice a girl waiting for something/someone on the right. Realized it is a girl just by the shape, I couldn't see anything else as she had the hood of the parka on. I keep looking at where I was going, but as I got close to her, I noticed with the corner of my eye she was looking at me. So I look at her, I see her face (like taking a glance like you do on the street when walking), I look away, then instantly look back at her as my brain gave me a notch "hey mate, you might wanna look again". Beautiful thing, pitch black skin, but everything was towards the perfect side for me. the face features, the nose, those lips, the eyes.
We kept looking at each other, but I did not stop to say anything and I remember those few days afterwards, I was thinking "why haven't I stopped? but what could I have said to her? maybe I'll see her around again" . Did not happen.
But she was something and I just got to see her face and a few strands of hair coming out from under her hoodie which was tighten up around her face :)


But black women do tend to be louder, more "manly" and aggressive in their speech.
And I personally do not like that. Sure that not all are like this and you can tell if a person might fit your initial "personality" requirements in a few moments without having to resort to stereotypes. Like me and this girl I've seen on the street.

When I was in France, I open the door of my apartment and notice that the maid was walking down the hotel corridor going through rooms to clean, approaching my door. Black girl with her hair braided on the side. we looked at each other for 2 secs, then she looks away in a strange way.

I get back in to get the car keys, then get out, close door, walked down the corridor to the elevator, pushed the button to call it and as the doors were opening I noticed she was coming towards the elevator. Though pretty far, I waited for her, she got in and kept looking down.

I was pretty horny that day, so even if something happened, it would have been just physical, I wasn't looking for love or relationship.
*I was single in both situations above.

[Opinion Owner]

so for me, I kind of know by previous experience that it is more likely to find girls to fit the personality type I want among white women by a huge proportion.
On the other hand, if it happens for a black girl to stand out and she also fits my "requirements", then her colour wouldn't be a problem to me. if watching her behave before I make contact with her tells me she has a nice personality and isn't loud and aggressive, then ok.

But I have one thing to ask. remember the black girl in the hotel. Though I was horny and she was pretty and sending a good overall vibe, I did not say anything because something someone said to me "never hit on girl that is working and who by nature of her job is supposed to be nice to you".
So I was thinking: if I say something to her, she will only be nice to me because she has to. So, instead, I walked away and let it go :/
But should have said something or was this friend of mine right with what she said?

[Asker]

Wow, you wrote a little book lol. Ummm I think you should have said something. If you want something in life you have to take it.

[Opinion Owner]

hope it wasn't a boring read. :)
I just like to use every day life examples as it gives out way more than a few lines. perspective, context, likes, dislikes :)

Anyhow in regards to your update, since there are so many variables of liking a girl or not and finding them attractive (that are applied to white girls as well), the best conclusion would be
"1 in 2 white guys, wouldn't consider black skin as being a turn off when meeting/seeing a girl on the street"

[hayzlenut420libra]

Omg i wish most black women in sc looked at white men differently then they do... Bc i would love an interracial relationship with a black woman... Unfortunately the stigma is we all have small dicks... Well to lay this out for all... Its the same between black and white men.. Showers and growers and some men are just average packing 7in.. Im average and honestly big dong king kong can fuck u all he wants but that dont mean he's doing it right... But experiencing a man even if he's average... Knowing how to please is way better than trying to beat the brakes off da pussy with out finess or sexual swag if you must label it.. I know how to please... Vs he's just jamming it in and hoping for the best but mainly his nut... Females orgasm at least twice before my dick penetrates

[Anonymous]

Who cares what anyone else thinks? We come in a variety of shades. Black is beautiful; I am talking about both black men and women.

[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

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I can't help myself. I am thinking about wearing my hair out like this :)

[Danielson1987]

Beautiful 😍

[Maddiisnotintresting]

I, as a gay white girl, don't take skin tone into account. if she's pretty she's pretty, regardless of how dark her skin is.

[Shane_B]

I like what I like. Skin colour don't bother me. I would just love them for them. Even if they had a bit of extra weight or etc. Their insecurities won't bother me one bit because I'd love them the way they are.
Simple as that.
But I doubt I get the same in return from females. I'm not really anyones type.
I'm 19 and never had a relationship.
Starting to feel hopeless more and more as each day goes by.

[Asker]

Don't give up, honestly just because of your skin color women will go crazy over you. There is somebody for you, trust me.

[Fiddleus]

There is a socio-cultural aspect to the inferior temporal lobe where we become better at identifying faces of our own ethnicity. So science would say yes there is a bias.
Solution spend time around the culture of people you wish to be more attracted to.

[Asker]

Good point, but you didn't really answer my question.

[Fiddleus]

Oh sorry, then not particularly as a general blanket statement. Probably as pointed out due to my socio-cultural environment being predominantly white-asian. I recently read a study that showed humans view traits seen commonly as as attractive. For example if the majority of people I have seen have slanted eyes, I will find slanted eyes more attractive. It could be said that the most attractive people in the world are an amalgamation of average traits.

[Hotchpotchsoup]

Honestly, when I were little I wished I were black xD just as with other ethnicities there are exceptionally beautiful examples and less impressive ones, but the most beautiful black woman in the world is probably more beautiful than the world's most beautiful white woman. In my opinion xD

[Ash_96]

I find a third answer to be needed of not minding.

As much as I don't have a problem with black people because I think everyone is equal I just myself am not attracted to a black person. It's not a form of racism it's just what I prefer.

If there was a nice black person with a great personality and pretty then I would never say no its just not what I personally look for

[TripleAce]

The black women that asks about how black women are segregated cause she's black yet the question revolves strickly around how caucasian men feel about black
Women

The irony here hahah
If you're isolating a race then what makes you think others won't exclude your race out of the dating pool

🙄

[Nabla]

To be honest, due to where I live, I don't know so many black people. If it's just about skin color, I really don't care. On the other hand, I observe that my OkCupid match percentage with black women is usually rather low; maybe they were socialized in a way such that we are incompatible.

[Danielson1987]

I love black woman, they have a way they compose themselves which really turns me on

[Asker]

Ok, what turns on the most?

[Danielson1987]

Most black woman I've encountered in my life have been super confident and smart which is a turn on for me right there. And I just love their bodies, big or small. I'm a chubby guy and other than one girlfriend all my girls have been thick. The way a thick black woman strut around flaunting what they got just drives me up a wall

[Danielson1987]

Lol sorry went off on a little rant there

[Asker]

That made me smile, :)...

[Danielson1987]

Yay glad I could do that for you 😊❤

[Listening5]

Some are attractive, I find all types of women attractive. Except feminists.

[Juxtapose]

Of course, black women are just as good as white women in every regard. And if they have a nice butt then I will worship a woman lol.

[ASEXY]

I can only find some of them aesthetically attractive.

[DesiBeautyLover]

The ones from the Caribbean, yes. But I would never date one.

[Asker]

Why not date?

[DesiBeautyLover]

They got anger issues

[Asker]

You're feeding off of stereotypes that the media is throwing at you. Not every black woman has anger issues and not every Asian is docile as a lamb

[DesiBeautyLover]

Not all of them but a lot of them. Not feeding off media but my own personal experiences.
That comment about Asians is 100% true.

[Asker]

Lol OK. I've met loud and ghetto Asian women.

[DesiBeautyLover]

Me too. I traveled to East Asia and a lot of them are not as polite as you hear. It's mainly the Chinese. They are the worst. There was an old Chinese guy on my bus and he just pushed his way through a group of passengers to get off.
I think Chinese are the rudest most inconsiderate people on earth.

[Asker]

My point exactly, don't let stereotypes rule your life.

[TripleAce]

Sterotypes are just that. And they are based on a prominent aspects of something. They aren't necessarily false either

And he never meant all. No one ever means all. And it has nothing to do with the media. Thats just insulting his intelligence

There is black women everywhere. You don't need to the media to feed you assumptions. You can see them for yourself

[Anonymous]

There are certain black women I find attractive yes, but not all

[Anonymous]

Yes, but she has to have very specific qualities. If you want my honest answer a good percentage have personalities that are not compatible with mine.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

I've dated a couple of black girls.

[Smegskull]

Mika Burton is so damn beautiful it hurts.

[dogfish]

i find some of them attractive <3

[Rjsurya846]

Not all white or black women are attractive

[bondobilly]

Some of them, overall no.

[Anonymous]

they are attractive