Most Helpful Guy
I get REALLY turned on by a girl who can take charge. Like if she can do all the stuff to me that I'd do to her, that would be so hot.
But so far as the overall relationship goes, I need to be the dominant one. You can call me insecure or a woman hater or whatever you want. Your guess is probably as good as mine. I just really trust my judgement and don't feel comfortable at all not being in control. Which is why temporarily giving it up turns me on so much.
Most Helpful Girl
There is something comfortable about being his more delicate little flower and cuddling under his stronger more authoritive nature. Men tend to see things from an analytical point and their upbringing puts more pressure on them to be in spots of leadership and critical management. Not that us ladies can't do it, but society and nature rear us in a way to handle different aspects of life traditionally. Women keep order, men hold s*** down.
You know, she gets the kids out of the way of danger and calls for backup (if necessary) while he knocks the f*** out of the burglar.
The women maintained rationing and took up extra work during WW2 to assist the men as they fought.
Hubby is buried to his nose in work and honey keeps him well fed, relaxed and life in balance so he doesn't have to worry, likewise he picks up all slack and takes any hard blows life throws at the family.
I prefer men who take that role dominantly