My boy problem is actually ME tbh. I love boys-- no, men. But it just so happens that while 5 days a week literally work with hundreds of them, I can't find a plausible reason to walk up to them and make convo. Not something that will make them stick or them be interested and think "hey, she's cool even if she dresses like a nun."
And the times I am able to have LOTS of conversations with guys and we become work friends, they're married or got a girlfriend. And then besides work, the only other place I can meet them is online. Which really sucks because that is where ME being the problem comes in (again).
I am VERY slow for some reason. For example, it once took me a year to be okay with a guy, another to be good friends and trust, then by the 3rd year,, it was too late and he didn't like me anymore (even though he said he'd wait for me in that first year) and then y the 4th year, I was full blown in love (since the 3rd year). THen it took 2 years afterward to get over him completely.
Sooooooo yeah. I'm slow. And that's why I can't keep a guy. They always demand too much from me. They always (especially online) say the L word wayy too quickly (as in after 2 weeks of talking or something of that caliber). So because of my slowness, they don't understand, and then they feel like I'm playing them, and then we're screwed. And then I'm the bad guy because they never listened to how slow I told them I was.
When I move out, I will look for a best friend rather than a lover. Because I don't want anyone who can't be my best friend. Then I will hope things can grow from there since there will be no pressure from either side to date. Maybe that will solve my problems?
I've only dated long distance, both times I've dated so far.. I met them both online. Obviously at different times. But I'm starting to want someone close that I can casually hang out with rather than feeling rushed into having to do things because I've known him online for so long.. he is really clingy. also, he and my mom have issues, and family means the world to me, so it's difficult
Similar problem with you 😢 I get too shy and second guess myself, and I can never approach a guy and tell him I'm attracted to him.
And when a guy does like me, he's usually really scummy and mean (last guy: vape addict fboy who cursed more than he talked)
My problem is that I don't even have one. Hahaha no one ever is interested
My girl problem is I saw this one hunny at the gym; fucking gorgeous like you don't even understand. And I was trying to figure out how I could approach her, but I couldn't figure out anything that didn't come off as creepy or incongruent. Gym's a fucking nightmare to approach in. Ugh, but damn she was fine. I can only hope the universe will see it fit to throw her across my path again soon.
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I have too many to count... I’ve only ever had one guy interested in me, but he’s a satanist and I’m Catholic... not going to work, you know? I don't know... I have had a few really big crushes, but... they talked about other girls, so I know they didn’t like me... I’m in the “friendzone.” That is my biggest problem.
Well my guy problem is that we r friends but i like him so much and I don't know if he does like me but he gives mixed signals and he is driving me crazy lol but yeah i still love him i'll pray he likes me too
Now he asked me out? ↗
This kinda trouble :(
Story Of My Life. I'm Not Ugly And The Guys Love MeBut I Never Give Them. a Chance.. I'm Sacred To Be In A Relationship Because I Don't Wanna Get Fucked Over
Nah, left the boy bullshit in 2017. The mood of 2018 is drama free men.
My boy problems were that they at first never took me seriously when I would ask them out lol
I had my first kiss with this guy and I think I am starting to catch feelings for him but I don’t think he cares about me one bit
I'm in love with a boy who has a girlfriend. Cheers!
My current boy problem is that my sorta partner broke up with me.
I'm bit better now tho.
I don't socialize anymore and when guys do like me I don't trust them at all. So I don't date them
My problem is that I can’t find any boys. There are only girls in my circle.
So I'm a vulgar piece of shit and my crush is a timid Christian and his mom hates me and I always end up looking really bad in front of them like
Just hard to find tall guy here haha. I'm 5'10"
Boys want me for sex not a Realtionship :(
Problem is I don't have one
I don't date boys so no.
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