Most Helpful Guy
If I met several of the same fans on a regular basis, and we got to know each other outside of work, and they saw me outside of that work / far dynamic, then yes. I think she would have to have those great qualities anyway, and should not want me to always be “on” in front of her or friends...
I think she would have to be decent with things that should be kept secret (details of romantic escapades, how I kiss, etc)
I would have to also trust that she wasn’t using me just to further her career. Though I’d probably want to help her out anyway.
I think she would sort of still have to be in the business: actor vs director, actor vs PR person, actor vs actor, actor vs singer, painter or other “creative.” I don’t think it would work to be, say, actor vs tabloid reporter or gossip columnist, or actor vs accountant, or actor vs engineer (for me, anyway.)
Most Helpful Girl
Probably not as the differing lifestyles would most likely put a strain on the relationship. However if it was a fan whom I had known before becoming famous that was a dear friend who had supported me throughout my success, I'd consider it.