Hey sis, I read your post and I have to say that you've gotta stop hating on yourself! I can't tell you how destructive that is for your self worth and self esteem. Stop worrying about what other people 'may' be saying. You dont even know whether or not theyre talking about you. You need to stop and think about who you are, not what you look like. Think hard about who you are and how you affect the lives of others. Because id wager, thats what your boyfriend like about you so much. He probably likes how you care for others, the way you laugh, your ears. Id say that your boyfriend also sees you trying to better yourself physically and knowing what he already loves about you, id say he sees who you will be one day. Stop hating on yourself, stop comparing yourself to anyone else because there's only ONE of you! You are THE ORIGINAL. Be proud of that and be the best you that you can be and learn to LOVE that!
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Stretch marks literally don't matter at all. If he loves you and chose you, losing weight won't matter much to him, he won't love you any less. Why did he choose you? I don't know enough about you to say but he did so I'd just recommend embracing it and being happy about that xD
Maybe he's bulimic and tries to find creative ways to trigger his gag reflex
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If he has already proved to love you, than he has his reasons. Fat does not always mean ugly.
You got him now, do not let him go.
Find out what he wants in the relationship and find a way to grant his wish and he will never leave you.Stop berating yourself!!! That is what makes you gross. He chose you because he likes you, go with it. Start becoming what you think he really wants and if you do it right, you will be.
If he is with you and love you the way you're don't stress out it's a good thing you wanna change yourself, but don't change bc of him change bc you want to.
Do it for yourself not people.He loves you the way you are.
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