People do stupid things when drunk and this is because alcohol unlocks in a sense a separate carefree personality that can almost be described as a different person. This doesn't mean your not responsible for your actions when drunk but it does mean you can't be too harsh on yourself when you make mistakes, the important thing to remember is that you didn't persue anything more than a flirty chat and tbh flirty chats happen outside most happy relationships. It doesn't matter where you look, so long as you eat at home! If you are really having troubles, talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you are feeling and get him to tell you how cheating made him feel, it may help get you both on the same page, the point is you both want to be together, anything outside of that shouldn't really matter
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You are one of the good ones.
In my experience, few people would have the courage to admit a mistake like this, let alone demonstrate the introspection and self-growth necessary to realize it. The world needs more people like you.
The only part that is missing is you should realize you earned his forgiveness by being honest, and he gave it to you because he loves you. It's over now, and you've suffered enough.
Accept that you are a dirty slut and move on
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Whether anyone wants to admit it, we all flirt all the time. You put yourself in a situation which you regret. You did an incredibly open and honest thing in maturely discussing this with a person who also received and responded maturely. Hats off to you and your boyfriend. Forgive yourself and return in kind the love your boyfriend is seeking from you.
I ve been in the exact same situation... It's cause u have this idea of being a perfectionist... U ha e to change that... What u did is wrong.. Absolutely but u can't do anything bout it now... Other than hurting ur boyfriend further by being so miserable.. so forgive urself and move on for his sake... I mean think of it this way... Worse things could ve happened... But u din.. so move on
He forgave you, and clearly you're sorry. Ask for forgiveness from God (He will forgive you just as quickly) and dwell on the fact that everyone has forgiven you, and you could soon come to the conclusion that you can too.
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Use it as a framework to detour yourself from ever doing it again
Okay. I hate cheaters.
I never cindone cheating.
But this is a bit over the top. If he let it go, then you let it go too. It was 'only' a kiss for fucks sake. You have taken your punishment from your own self. Now just try and enjoy what you have.You're a sloot so you should be ashamed of yourself. Take responsibility for your actions instead of trying to rationalize your shit behavior. That would make you a shit quality human being.
Tell your boyfriend that you're feeling very guilty for not being loyal. Tell him to kiss another girl so that you're even.
well you're still lying to yourself. until you can be fully honest it will not go away
If all you did was kiss then that's not really that terrible considering it's a ldr
If you can't forgive yourself, then you'll always live with that pain.
we make mistakes we own them and we move on
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