EVERYONE, listen to what I’m gonna say. Specially Women.
Can you forgive and forget cheating?
You should never forgive and forget cheating. Cheating on you, puts you at risk of diseases. Many sexually transmitted diseases can literally END you. Syphilis can make you INFERTILE for life, if gone unchecked and untreated. Chlamydia can make you INFERTILE for life, if gone unchecked and untreated. HPV, can literally give you cancer, and END you 🫵 if gone unchecked and untreated. Ladies.
My Father literally gave my Mother HPV, it was gone unchecked until my Mom started feeling pains. Luckily there was no cancer development.
Ladies, you could also potentially catch AIDS from a cheating partner. And HIV, is a non-curable virus that will stay with you for life. Literally a virus that’ll affect your immune system FOR LIFE. 🫵
Men, you are less likely to catch an infection from a cheating partner because you have a D, but if you catch AIDS, you are just as harmed as a woman with AIDS. Some male Porn-Actors have died from complications with AIDS.
Listen if you love your partner and you want to “forgive and forget”. Start using condoms with them, and you also start having fun on the side. If he or she is gonna treat you like they are single. You also should treat them like you are single.
Cheating people, see sex as a drug. They see sex and the chase of someone new like a drug, difficult to stop.
If you wish to tolerate their addiction. I suggest what I told you. Use condoms, and you cheat as well. Because the monogamous part of that relationship is COMPLETELY GONE. And you are now 10x more likely to catch a disease.
Some men, like #redpill #manosphere men will tell you that a man can cheat on you, sleep with many other women, and love you. BUT DOES A MAN THATLL BRING STDS and DISEASES to you, actually love you?
If you believe that he’ll still love you. Do what I suggest. Use condoms and you also cheat on the side.
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These are apparently EXTREMELY HIGH VALUE, EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE CHADS. Saying that they should be allowed to cheat due to having money or being hot. So you ladies decide what you actually want to do. Stay or leave the cheater.
@adelaidehits
no i dont cheat my ex cheated on me with 2 girls and one of them are his girlfriend and i still visit i just forgot about it and pit it in the past because it would just put to much preasure on my mind and we are just basically friends wuth benifits because i can't trust him anymore there was to much arguing everytime i use to visit because i was finding out he was cheating and that just means especially if there's no trust for him that would put more preasure on my head if i was in a relashionship with him he done it with 2 girls and others do getting back with i hate him for doing that but we are just friends with benifits plus still a wee argument now and then even not in a relashionship plus he's the biggest liar ever and shit at it anyway
You can. But you should never take them back. If a woman is cheating on her man she's looking for a new man. Doesn't matter how good her man is in bed she doesn't want to sleep with him and if she has a new man her emotional attachment to him means that when she feels she's cheating on her new man when it comes to sex with her current man. The fact that you are willing to take her back after you know she was cheating means she thinks you are weak and can never see you in a sexual way again more like her father telling her not to be out too late.
You can forgive that's good for you but never forget. You can take a cheating ex back, I have in the past but with the knowledge that long term she wasn't for me as she couldn't be trusted and I just stayed with her in the short term for rent and easy sex.
My brother caught his ex wife cheating and took her back so he could plan his divorce. He reduced his hours at work telling her it was his company doing that so that he was working 30 hours per week to her 45, he ten started taking the kids to and from school and feeding and looking after them, he encouraged her to take a promotion so she made more money. He then "sold" a lot of stuff to my father and me. He cashed in all his saving, shares and bonds into cash and stored it at my father's place, put his car in my dad's name. He also took out bank and credit card loans. So when it came divorce time because he was the primary care giver he got full child custody, because she earned more he got alimony, because he had full child custody he got child support. Because he had full custody he got to keep the family home. She went looking for half his money and processions but he technically had no money and no pocessions, he got half of everything she owned. She was in shock after. Turned out she was still cheating on him thinking he was a big soft idiot. It got worse when he met a younger hotter woman. She's very bitter about it all.
Not if it is constantly happens by more than one person leading you to believe that there are no loyal faithful women out there in the world. Then you’re told that it’s your own fault for choosing such women in the first place. So you stay single for almost 9 years now and somehow my loneliness is a bad thing and makes me an incel
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I can forgive but won’t forget. But it is over.
Forgive. Yes. But the relationship is done
Why though?
Because. Being angry at someone doesn't do any good. They’re not worth that kind of control. I choose to move on with my life.
Not me.
Cheating isn't something that happens by accident. It's a deliberate choice and a conscious betrayal.
That isn't forgive and forget material.
Besides, they cheated. How much would they even value forgiveness or forgetting? They'd just cheat more, because it's clear there's no consequences to them.
Cheaters don't prosper with me. Period.
Exactly!!! A premeditated and controlled process
"In your opinion," it's more often than not. 1001% correct.
Good, don't. Cause it's fucking evil and destructive. I don't think so. At all. Forgive, no. You don't get to even be worthy of forgiveness, when you do something so awful. No one even bothers to consider the after effects on the people involved in cheating (my first boyfriend for me). Significant others, kids. Think Try Guys. Like Ned even cared about his kids.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Cheetah’s don’t ever change their spots.
Can I forgive? Sure (for my sake). Can I forget? Nope, that would be foolish.
I cannot forgive and forget cheating, it is done with malice and forethought, and any one who does it doesn’t deserve any forgiveness or any lasting relationship. and when cheater are caught they are only sorry for being caught, not for the cheating.
I can forgive almost anything, once.
Twice though? That's not just shitting on me, that's shitting over my forgiveness too. You clearly don't give a fuck about my forgiving you that first time. So no, I won't forgive a second time.
I said my guy that I would never forgive him if he cheated on me but he said me that I love you a lot so if I cheated on you, I would still love you the same so I don't know I’m kind of confused and he said I love you so much if I would cheat - I would still love you and never leave you
Nope; I can neither forgive, nor forget.
Cheating is a "one and done" for me. You cheat on me, and you are instantly out of my life, forever, never to return.
No and no. I once did that mistake (forgive) when I was a student. It didn't turn well. Just Dont waste your time.
Did it teach you a valuable lesson?
Of course
If you don’t mind me asking, what was it?
Never forgive cheating. Once it's done, there is no way back.
No because it's not just the cheating, it says so much more about where the relationship is, and will be. And of course as a guy who cheated, it says a lot about us too, and why not to continue with us.
I knownpeople married whom did survive it. Yes its long standing issues and have to addrrss the u underlying root causses else repeats.
Up to you if you can endure the pain.
Trust isn't broken during the act of cheating. The lying and covering it up after is what kills the trust.
You might as well end it if there isn't any trust!
Don't be like talking big but i I dont forgive because who cheated once, cheats again and if someone cheated on me that person doesn't love me
I could "forgive" a cheater I guess, but I'd still dump him.
I can forgive then forget them as I move on to the next
Nope. There is no going back from there. It’s done.
I may forgive. Not immediately tho. But I can never forget such thing.
But would thee relationship continue?
If we were just dating and had no kids, No. If we were married and especially if we had kids I would have to re-think my decision, if my partner showed genuine regret and showed signs that he’s willing to improve himself and his behavior I would probably forgive given the circumstances but I would surely be very upset for a long time.
In no way, shape or form, would I be able to either forget or forgive cheating.
If he cheats, I'm out.
Forgive? No. Never. Cheaters are the definition of monsters. They are creatures, without empathy, without a soul. They stop being human when they choose to hurt their partner like that.
If she wants to fuck other dudes or whatever she can talk to me about it and we can work something out. I am not totally against poly stuff but you better make me number one and you better not fucking lie to me about it.
I could not. At least I don’t think I could. And I definitely didn’t the one time it happened to me.
Based on the old Westerns my Dad watches, the proper response to cheating is to throw your cards on the table, pull out your six-gun and plug the sucker.
I would never stay with a cheater or take them back.
I have not been able to.
Maybe others can, but I have not been able to.
Nope. The one hard thing a man wants in a woman is faithfulness. If a woman can't be faithful she has no value whatsoever.
Men ask very little from women but faithfulness is essential.
I can forgive depending on what happened, but I will not forget
No. That one of the only I don't forget. And there is no second chance. The moment I know you've cheated, you're dead to me.
I cannot. I've never been cheated on, or at least none of my partners ever admitted to it. Good thing since I doubt I could make it to Canada before being arrested for a double homicide.
No. I was cheated on and the second I found out she was dead to me.
I will end the relationship, and then forgive her.
It is not always premeditated. I know from experience.
Nope. I wouldn't want to even try. Because a cheater does not change if she cheated on you once she will fldo it again. It's only a matter of time.
To forgive is easy, but you can never forget.
Some may say they forgive but they can never fully trust again no matter what changes are made. It's something that is never ever forgotten.
You can forgive but probably not forget but if someone cheats on me I’m gonna leave and forget them 😂.
Yes
there are so many hot women in world why would care?
I can and will forgive but I wouldn't be with her anymore.
Never forgive and you can forget after you break up with that person and forget that person too
I cannot. If you cheat, you’re out.
cheaters belong to the streets
Lol no, I don't hate myself that much.
So it would break the relationship?
Of course. She cheated you once and of course you trusted her enough that she wouldn't do it again.
Ask yourself, my friend, would you be okay if she cheats on you again? How many times will she cheat on you? Or how can you be sure that she will never cheat you again?
I probably could.
Forgive and forget but cut them out and conveniently remember when you see them again
No. It's relationship treason.
I agree with you and say no
Firguve, maybe forget, never
No and you shouldn't.
I can forgive but I can't or couldn't forget.
If I was cheated on I’d probably die so no lol
Nope, nope, and... Nope.
I cannot and would not.
forgive yes. forget no.
Completely unforgivable forever.
Forgive yes
Forget likely not
Nah i ain't a cuck
Nope I hate it and I will just end it on the spot.
Forgive but never forget
I could probably forgive it for the right person
Nope
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