How could you forget cheating if you want to forgive?

[Anonymous]

My fiancé has betrayed me while he is in another country We have been away from each other for a year and 8 months due to the Corona virus He admitted that to me and that he spent 6 months with her.. He was deeply regretful and wanted to return to me because he found me the right person He told me that he did not love her, but he only sympathized with her and was affected by her because she suffers from a chronic disease (I have confirmed her illness), but she is a different person than him and is not suitable for him he knew her from work and was feeling lonely.. I love him and want to forgive him But how do I stop thinking about whether he loves her or not They had a sexual relationship and she got a (forever) tattoo on her arm for him

[Guy13]

this takes time as you are partially grieving so there are those anger, how could he, satisfy him, and love her issues. When he gets here, he will be able to demonstrate his sorrowfulness.

There's going to be some outbursts when he arrives and I am sure that he expects this. Time heals all wombs and forgiveness can be granted and discipline helps carry it out. Forgetting... this is an individual to individual thing.

[Anonymous]

That’s disturbing
So in the future if you are in a long distance he can easily find another one just like that because why not he was lonely ohh wait no it was her lonely not him 🤦🏻‍♀️ What’s the point who was lonely lol or if she has a chronic disease. You might have one too who knows it’s chronic after all not a tumor. Haven’t your back hurt time to times that’s chronic then my boyfriend can date me too aw I’m so sick ( jeez..

[Opinion Owner]

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[Asker]

We broke up a years ago but now hw begged to me to get back

[petitedollbabee]

They were together for 6 months and she got a tattoo with him? LEAVE. If you forgive that or forget that and continue the relationship then you are a fool.

[Asker]

Why? He left her a year ago

[Asker]

What does a tattoo means?

[petitedollbabee]

He left her a year ago and you’re still with him, yikes. You’re only showing him that his horrible behaviour is acceptable. If he cheats again, that’s on you.

[Asker]

No i brokeup with him a year ago. but now he wants us to comeback

[petitedollbabee]

Ah okay, you didn’t say you’d broken up. Don’t get back together with him.

[Zandoval]

Honestly. Really consider if you want to be with a cheater. I would not recommend it.

[billmunch]

Every relaionship I've ever had, I've been cheated on and none of them ended because of it. The deal breaker in a relationship is bad attitude, not cheating.

I know I'm not like most guys, but I'm 100% fine if my partner has sex/dates outside the relationship so long as she doesn't fuck any of my friends or get pregnant.

In fact, it kinda turns me on.

[LazerBean]

If I wasn't married to the person yet, then definitely not. They'd be permanently out if my life.

[Ricky1966]

Oddly enough, I can forgive cheating very easily. I'm mot strict about it.

[Wise4myage]

Good question, I sure couldn't.