Sometimes we just need second opinions, to be sure we are not over thinking things like you guys hate so much. I can see why she's asking about the obvious. 😋
Yes. If he didn't get the memo that you two are still together, then yes. You should be worried. There's no reason for a guy to change his status to single if you two are still together. There should have been a clear conversation about it. It's rather clear that you should move on from this fool. He said it wasn't a big deal? Bullshit. Whether he was "just kidding" or not, you should move on. Relationships shouldn't be a joke, but lots of people treat them as such (for whatever reason) anyway.
He is an immature guy that is open to other options. He is clearly manipulating you. He probably wants to continue being with you and others. He is not ready for commitment and wants to make it clear that this is not a serious relationship. He might tell you otherwise to avoid losing your relationship with him, but I would trust actions more than words in this case.
Yes you should break up with him, he wants to break up but he doesn't have the balls to say it out right or he is messaging some thot on FB so if drop his ass before you get anymore in enthralled into his lies
Uh Yes I would be worried because why not just put NO status, thats what I did he's making it a point to make it seem that he is single. If he went from being in a relationship to single he's making a statement, he could've literally just hid it from his profile and it wouldn't have been questionable.
It sounds like he is leading you on but doesn’t want a relationship. He can’t even be man enough to tell you, or to even man up when you ask him directly.
Do you really want a guy who has no balls and just wants to be a slimy mother fudger? You deserve better.
If he did it out of anger after a fight then he was just being immature. So there's that but if if he did it for seemingly no reason than he's looking for other people already
Sounds like he wants his cake and to eat it too. He clearly has ulterior motives so the ball is in your court on whether you allow his disrespect or dont... i would choose the latter? Ladder? im tired
If he doesn't care, which it's clear he doesn't by his actions, just kick him to the curb. There's plenty of other guys out there who'd love to change their status from "single" to "in a relationship" to be with you. No need to waste time.
Sounds like a fuckboi. Dump him, sounds like he's looking to cheat honestly. Like it's not really a big deal if he had initially wanted to keep it single, but it's clear he's looking for other girls by changing it if you ask me.
You shouldn't worry, if he changes his facebook status to single just break up with him. He obviously does not have any kind of compassion for his partner, it also shows you what kind of person he really is.
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In my opinion, he is probably talking to someone on there and might have told the person that he is single, so he changed his status.
OR he spotted a new person and decided to change his relationship status to 'single' before making a move.
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He's manipulating you and deliberately not caring about your feelings. My bet is he wants to break up but is trying to get you to do it so he doesn't have to be the 'bad guy'
if he never wrote in a relationship from the first place then i wouldn't care but since he changed it back, no one would do that for no reason, i would break up with him bc he's probably cheating or gonna break up with you or something anyways
Sorry girl, but he's either cheating or planning to cheat :/ Please leave him and tell him "It's not a big deal". Maybe don't say that, I would because I'm petty lol But do leave him. You're worth more
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It's very likely he is talking to someone new and has told that person that you guys have broken up and just doesn't have the backbone to tell you.
Should you be worried...
hell to the ya lol
how isn't that obvious
then girls wonder why they have shitty relationships... it kinda makes sense now when they act this stupid and clueless
Sometimes we just need second opinions, to be sure we are not over thinking things like you guys hate so much. I can see why she's asking about the obvious. 😋
Yes. If he didn't get the memo that you two are still together, then yes. You should be worried. There's no reason for a guy to change his status to single if you two are still together. There should have been a clear conversation about it. It's rather clear that you should move on from this fool. He said it wasn't a big deal? Bullshit. Whether he was "just kidding" or not, you should move on. Relationships shouldn't be a joke, but lots of people treat them as such (for whatever reason) anyway.
He is an immature guy that is open to other options. He is clearly manipulating you. He probably wants to continue being with you and others. He is not ready for commitment and wants to make it clear that this is not a serious relationship. He might tell you otherwise to avoid losing your relationship with him, but I would trust actions more than words in this case.
Likely he doesn't want someone else to know he has a girlfriend.
Yes you should break up with him, he wants to break up but he doesn't have the balls to say it out right or he is messaging some thot on FB so if drop his ass before you get anymore in enthralled into his lies
Uh Yes I would be worried because why not just put NO status, thats what I did he's making it a point to make it seem that he is single. If he went from being in a relationship to single he's making a statement, he could've literally just hid it from his profile and it wouldn't have been questionable.
It sounds like he is leading you on but doesn’t want a relationship. He can’t even be man enough to tell you, or to even man up when you ask him directly.
Do you really want a guy who has no balls and just wants to be a slimy mother fudger? You deserve better.
If he did it out of anger after a fight then he was just being immature. So there's that but if if he did it for seemingly no reason than he's looking for other people already
Sounds like he wants his cake and to eat it too. He clearly has ulterior motives so the ball is in your court on whether you allow his disrespect or dont... i would choose the latter? Ladder? im tired
If he doesn't care, which it's clear he doesn't by his actions, just kick him to the curb. There's plenty of other guys out there who'd love to change their status from "single" to "in a relationship" to be with you. No need to waste time.
Sounds like a fuckboi. Dump him, sounds like he's looking to cheat honestly.
Like it's not really a big deal if he had initially wanted to keep it single, but it's clear he's looking for other girls by changing it if you ask me.
I'd change mine to single and say ciao to him on a public post... but... I'm vengeful sometimes.
You shouldn't worry, if he changes his facebook status to single just break up with him. He obviously does not have any kind of compassion for his partner, it also shows you what kind of person he really is.
In my opinion, he is probably talking to someone on there and might have told the person that he is single, so he changed his status.
OR he spotted a new person and decided to change his relationship status to 'single' before making a move.
He's manipulating you and deliberately not caring about your feelings. My bet is he wants to break up but is trying to get you to do it so he doesn't have to be the 'bad guy'
Very possibly interested in someone else too
Definitely should be worried. This could be a sign of he was caught trying to cheat by a girl who he tried to hit on, or he's planning to do it.
if he never wrote in a relationship from the first place then i wouldn't care but since he changed it back, no one would do that for no reason, i would break up with him bc he's probably cheating or gonna break up with you or something anyways
It's because he's wanting to be seen as single. Its the only reason he'd change it. More than likely to talk to other girls. Dump his ass.
Sorry girl, but he's either cheating or planning to cheat :/
Please leave him and tell him "It's not a big deal". Maybe don't say that, I would because I'm petty lol
But do leave him. You're worth more
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