Ah, this has come up a few times. Once even between my (former) best friends. He said he was in a relationship, she had she was single yet they've been together for almost 4 years.
Now here's my opinion or take on this. Not everyone is big on social media. He may be one of those guys who doesn't post all of his information on Facebook . Which is totally understandable. Social media can be overrated.
Now, as for me, I like social media or at least I like letting people know how my life is going. I have friends, coworkers, family, old teammates, who live all over the world, not just country. So I share as much as I can, including the job that I have, what city I live in, what city I'm from, what major and school I go to, etc. Yes, this can be a good way for people to track me down but I like to think that I don't overdo it.
Now, if I were in a relationship with a girl, we would have to agree that we're exclusive. If we're just dating, I'm not going to change my relationship status until we've come to an agreement that we're monogamous and not seeing other people. It could be one week or it could be 6 months, etc.
Now, do I think you should worry about this? Not really. If you two haven't agreed to exclusivity, then you shouldn't worry about it. But if he's using it to look like he's unattached and to pick up other girls, then yes, you can be worried. And he's cheated on you so that can be a red flag.
In terms of your guy's relationship, I will say this. If he's cheated on you and you've already taken breaks in the 4 months you've been together, it's not going to last. And when you've taken breaks, it could be a contributing factor as to why he hasn't changed his status. Do you really see yourself being with this guy for a long time when you've had all this happen already?
Get him to change his relationship status from "single" to " in a relationship with...
If he doesn't you should dump him cheating on you should have been enough.
I'd say fuck all that Facebook bs! Those things should not matter. I would never put "in a relationship with" on there myself. It's a fun website but you shouldn't put to much personal info on there.
When I read he cheated on you, I suddenly saw what the problem was and why you want his status changed. I have been "the other girl" twice without knowing about those guys' relationships. It's not fun knowing they just wanted you so they could put their thing in someone else or someone hotter for a change. And then you know some girl you never met hates your guts. So I always see the negative side of what cheating guys do. My advise: dump his ass and tell people he can't fuck. That would reduce his chances of getting laid and hurting more girls.
how old are you? i mean i'm out of college and don't go on Facebook much anymore. i've been with my guy for over a year and we still aren't " Facebook official." it's just one more awkward thing to do if you ever break up.
that said, his Facebook shouldn't say "single." you can just hide relationship status all together.
but the fact that he's cheated on you is WAY WAY WAY more important than any of the other info. he's probably using Facebook to find girls. dump the douche
Ummm... yes. You should be concerned. Its obvious and a red flag if he has CHEATED on you in a FOUR month spand of time. Sorry, but your relationship is sort of doomed. You guys didn't even get through the honeymoon phase of the relationship and he's already cheating and you guys are having breaks. Find someone else. The relationship issues go far beyond Facebook . Good luck.
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It's only been four months and you guys are already having problems? And he's cheated on you? That's an unhealthy relationship. If a relationship is already suffering within a few months span of time then that is a huge red flag that this relationship is not for you. Don't ignore red flags.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Dump the sorry ass man whore. You deserve better than a dick head. Take it from me._.
You just said he's cheated on you.
Is this question really necessary?
Are you dim?
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