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How far do you go on a first date? (Page 3)

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  • Kabluie
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    Guru Age: 43
    +1 y
    312 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    As far as it can go. If there are fireworks, there is no reason it can't have a happy ending in-bed.

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  • Drew2
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    Xper 4 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Whatever happens happens
    If it's the sticky icky so be it

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  • yungsturg
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    Xper 4 Age: 33
    +1 y

    If there's a connection, and you both feel comfortable together... Then i say go all the way. Lol

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  • Amanduh24
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    Xper 7 Age: 26
    +1 y

    I would say touching, like hands, maybe not even that

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    I don't expect sex at all, but I wouldn't rule it out if the chemistry was good and I could trust her

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  • Firefighter007
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    Xper 4 Age: 44
    +1 y

    Usually dinner and a movie. If all goes well a good night kiss. I'm not keen on going all the way the first date. You have to get to know the person.

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  • Azule
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    Xper 4 Age: 25
    +1 y

    Completely dependent on your relationship. Were you friends now trying out being in a relationship, or is this a new thing?

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  • Gedaria
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    Master Age: 60
    +1 y

    Some guys not bothered of a second date they want everything then go on to the next lass.. But normally kiss and a cuddle at the end of the night !!!

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  • JaySmi
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    Xper 5 Age: 27
    +1 y

    If there was mutual fun and everything went well, a big hug and maybe a kiss on the cheek would be okay.

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  • USA1960
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    Xper 6 Age: 65
    +1 y

    I play it by ear. While I don't " expect " to go to secound base, or certainly not " all the way ", I generally go with the flow.

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  • Pamina
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    +1 y

    As far as feels right for both of us.

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  • j-squiggz
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    Xper 5 Age: 32
    +1 y

    Depends on where it goes. If she invites me in for another drink or something, then probably 2nd or further, if not then it's just a goodnight kiss so 1st

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  • BronzedAdonis
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  • JACL2121
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    Xper 5 Age: 33
    +1 y

    All the way if the girl is down! Sometimes i make it a game to get the girl to go all the way.

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    • HULKMASTER
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      +1 y

      I mean if the date goes well then we are Gunna F*** 😂

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    • JACL2121
      JACL2121
      +1 y

      My thought exactly!

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  • tlgannon
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    Xper 5 Age: 49
    +1 y

    Does going home with someone you met at the bar count as a date?

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  • ThinkAgain
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    Xper 4 Age: 37
    +1 y

    All depends on what vibes you are receiving and how well you know him/her

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  • Joelski440
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    Xper 5 Age: 46
    +1 y

    when I have one I'll let you know. Haha! man, I hate my life.

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  • peacelove2069
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    Xper 4 Age: 31
    +1 y

    I kiss on my first date. It depends on the person and how it goes.

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  • TrajanJJ
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    Xper 5 Age: 37
    +1 y

    First date? I haven't been on a date for like 6 years.

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  • the_lee1982
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    Xper 5 Age: 44
    +1 y

    It all honestly depends on the girl and how things feel.

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  • bellybuttonlint
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    Yoda Age: 42
    +1 y

    Just a kiss, I personally wouldn't take it further than that.

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  • chrisv
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    Xper 6 Age: 36
    +1 y

    As far as “I” feel comfortable going.. and of course, if it’s consensual

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  • COCOCHANEL
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    romance♡

    How far do you go on a first date?
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  • DarkKiki
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    Xper 4 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Well the boyfriend I have currently is my second and is lasting a long time. And we went the full way our first date.

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    • Dreamweaver671
      Dreamweaver671
      +1 y

      You mean your 2nd boyfriend is the longest relationship you've had and you had sex on the first date?

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    • DarkKiki
      DarkKiki
      +1 y

      Yes. That's what I said. Why?

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    • Dreamweaver671
      Dreamweaver671
      +1 y

      Just need to clarify. Believe me, you will have many more first dates. Nothing wrong wit that.

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    • DarkKiki
      DarkKiki
      +1 y

      Maybe.

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  • Flaguy
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    Xper 6 Age: 60
    +1 y

    Any girl that will have sex on the first date and does not stop me when I enter her bareback is a keeper in my book!

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  • Highlander984
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    Xper 5 Age: 64
    +1 y

    30 minutes. Plan to leave but if it goes over because well a bit longer. A lady should never feel stuck. Yep, no hanky panky ;-)

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  • FrankJaeger1985
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    Xper 4 Age: 40
    +1 y

    I'd go for sex. But usually that doesn't happen. I don't even initiate a kiss on the first date. But whatever happens happens, and usually i'm down

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  • soleil2666
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    Xper 7 Age: 48
    +1 y

    Not that it is compulsory, but as far as the feeling goes.
    I really see no point in getting mathematical about it and timing things.

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  • Likes2drive
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    As far as I’m comfortable and how she is towards the end of it, usually just a hug or kiss on the cheek when the date is over

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  • Random_Guy_Online
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    Xper 7 Age: 27
    +1 y

    I'll kiss her if I'm into her. I'd be down to go all the way with her, but I can't really bring that up without getting slapped, soooo.

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  • jaydtre
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    Xper 7 Age: 32
    +1 y

    As far as she’s willing to go. I’ve slept with girls on the first date and I’ve also not kissed them.

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  • outside_Toronto
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    Master Age: 24
    +1 y

    Depends on the circumstances. If the energy flow is good, why would you limit your experience with a preconceived notion?

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  • rollabowl
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    Xper 4 Age: 58
    +1 y

    I move pretty slow I guess am old fashion. Dinner weather we go out or I cook for her. After dinner we just get to know each other we could talk till the sun comes up the next morning

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    • AndyGillard
      AndyGillard
      +1 y

      I won't go any further than a hug and kiss goodbye/night. No matter the circumstance. From my experiences it has always worked well in terms of transitioning threw the next stages into a realationships.

      I think most woman appreciate that, even ones I've been with who both wouldn't have an issue doing more/ and enjoy doing so.

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  • IdleWithoutYou
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    Xper 4 Age: 31
    +1 y

    That depends on the date... chick wanted to kiss me once, I was not into her at all after we got to know one another, but if I enjoyed our time a ton I would be game.

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  • Dimi123
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    Xper 4 Age: 34
    +1 y

    Just normal date. I like activités for dates in general. When you get to k ow the person, than I go further. Both people should want to go forward. It becomes very apparent.

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  • sonfking
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    Xper 4 Age: 31
    +1 y

    As far as I can go cause first impression last forever

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  • Bennoir
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    Xper 4 Age: 33
    +1 y

    Stay in the same city. I'm not prepared to travel far for a first date.

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    • boe1115
      boe1115
      +1 y

      All the way

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  • HereIbe
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    Guru Age: 53
    +1 y

    Well, with my wife, we were doing babymaking things on our first date.

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  • charie
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    Xper 5 Age: 34
    +1 y

    i prefer to have date at my house to meet my parents and elder siblings :)

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    • 784456
      784456
      +1 y

      Then when can I drop by, future mother of our 12 children? 😜

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    • charie
      charie
      +1 y

      @784456 haha lol i can have three kids in the future :P

      Reply
    • 784456
      784456
      +1 y

      Hope you have 3 close (girl) friends that think the same to help you reach my number, then. 😂

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    • 784456
      784456
      +1 y

      🤗🤗

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  • triplejed94
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    Xper 4 Age: 32
    +1 y

    I would say a hug possibly a kiss on at least the cheek. Take it as slow as possible

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  • Glifik
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    Xper 4 Age: 37
    +1 y

    It depends on the chemistry... Sometimes as far as a hug, a kiss or even spending the night

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  • Anonymous
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    (25-29)
    +1 y

    I usually do a base a date, but for me I'm pretty traditional like first base is holding hands, second base is hugging, third base is closed-mouth kiss, and then home run is anal.

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  • J4Zzi3
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    Xper 6 Age: 43
    +1 y

    as far as she let me?
    not gonna push for more, that's her rights not guys.

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  • Zenurus
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    Xper 6 Age: 44
    +1 y

    Entirely depends on how I feel (about the person I'm with and at that time) and what she's into.

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  • jeremythedrummer
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    Xper 7 Age: 25
    +1 y

    Probably a hug and cuddling? (a kiss if she wants). I am not the type to have intercourse that soon.

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  • Ash_0091
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    Xper 5 Age: 34
    +1 y

    Well from passionate kiss to full on sex after the first date.. as we knew each other from college..

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  • datgirl
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    Guru Age: 30
    +1 y

    I've gone out with a few guys and the farthest I've been was shaking hands with them. That's it.

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    • datgirl
      datgirl
      +1 y

      Wouldn't accept kiss (unless it was on the hamd or cheek) and deffs no sex.

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    • datgirl
      datgirl
      +1 y

      Hand*

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  • SaintRaghu
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    Xper 6 Age: 26
    +1 y

    Nowhere near having sex off course cuz it’s meaningless!

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  • Eridan
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    Yoda Age: 32
    +1 y

    Depends on the girl. I'm open to anything, should the occasion arise.

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  • Venusmars94
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    Xper 4 Age: 31
    +1 y

    Depends on how long you knew the person before the date etc, but if it's a stranger definitely take it slow if possible (:

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    First date I walked her into her house, we were sitting on the couch and it was getting heated... then her mother called and it kinda just stopped

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  • jcvitagliano5785
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    Xper 4 Age: 41
    +1 y

    Try to get into her pants. Then let your boys try. If she gives it up she's probably going to be a mutt. If she fucks your boy, she is and your boy will be there to tell you.

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  • mexfliprican
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    Xper 4 Age: 42
    +1 y

    It's obvious what us men will answer. It really depends on how I vibed before we went on a date. But ultimately there's is the end goal of what all men want. Not the answer ladies want, but true.

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  • uhhwhatsthisabout
    uhhwhatsthisabout Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 38
    +1 y

    I have to say it all depends on the other person, how the date itself is going, the vibe and all.. But I do usually like. To chase more soo it just depends 😁

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    I’ll go as far as she will let me, or not go anywhere if she is ugly. lol

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    If we don't really know each-other well, then I go nowhere. Maybe kissing

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    If it was a nice that that I really enjoyed then it’ll be a kiss goodbye. No more.

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    0 Reply
  • warsevf
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    Xper 6 Age: 32
    +1 y

    Never had a date but whatever happens must be natural.

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  • ThatWeirdDude
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    Xper 6 Age: 25
    +1 y

    As far as I can get using cheat codes

    *up up down down left right left right a b start*

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    • Dynamotinit
      Dynamotinit
      +1 y

      Correction, it is up up down down left right left right *b a select* start

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    • ThatWeirdDude
      ThatWeirdDude
      +1 y

      Damn, that's why it never worked

      Reply
  • Philyouup
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    Guru Age: 63
    +1 y
    1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    @mexfliprican said it perfectly.. I just might add, basically as far as you will lets us.

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