Girls, how would react if at the end of a first date, instead of a kiss, the guy gives you a fist bump?


Girls, how would react if at the end of a first date, instead of a kiss, the guy gives you a fist bump?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I would nevet kiss in a first date. But i would probably hug him and smell his shoulder a little. If i like a persons smell it means im attracted to them. I figured this out when my brother came home this summer and he went to the gym and he was sweaty but i hated his sweat smell but normally but i like my dads sweat smell which is very weird. So i tried to find a theory as to why this was and i did a lot of research online cause it freaked me out and it turns out i like my dads smell because naturally girls see their father as a protector and a secure place. Which is the same for the man they love cause they feel safe but its a different kind of love. However me and my brother share the same same blood and make up from both parents so it explained why i hate his sweat smell. Then i was relaxed. Anyway. Lol. Long story i know. Bottom line a hug is ok a fist pump raises questions for me which i would ask cause im really direct.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • You could totally pull that off, if you made it funny, like making fun of the pressure to kiss and say goodbye and instead make it funny. Most girls would like that, it’s all about how you make them feel, that’s what they will remember

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    • I also think it could be misinterpreted , as girls can be so quick to assume “he ordered water” or “he smiled at the waitress” or “he didn’t kiss me goodbye and fistbump me” so, you really have to know who this girl is, and her comfort/security level and if she is needy or not, if the girl grew up with brothers, do it. If she is a bit nervous and cautious, I would ask her ahead of time, if it’s ok to kiss you goodbye on the 2nd date if we feel like it? And that way it puts everything on her, she may even say the 1st date has exceptions too

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What Girls Said 49

  • @Toad-1 yes please 👊 no kisses on the first date 😶

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  • Make it an explosion afterwards and that would be awesome.
    But if a guy did that I would laugh, that will honestly make my night. Because it was cool and unexpected.

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  • 👊🏻✊🏻💥✋🏻 Balalalala
    https://youtu.be/zVLA8fvBczg

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  • I don't do the fist bump, call me weird but I think it's stupid so I'd definitely be turned completely off by that BUT I'd rather have the fist bump than him try to kiss me as I don't kiss on the first date...
    .. either way I doubt I'd date him again

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  • I would be like..."Ohhh he just wants to be friends."

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  • Probably think that was the coolest thing ever. I’d first bump him back

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  • My ex will do that (he still does). He always ends every conversation with me with a high five. I think it's his feminne version of that fist-grab thing guys do with each other before parting ways. But obviously he can't do that with a girl. I guess it's a way for him to touch without being grabby? Something like that. In your case, if it were a first date, I'd be turned off by that as it shows lack of confidence and treating me properly

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  • That would be funny and endearing. I'd be intrigued and like to go out with him more after that!

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  • A bit weirded out because I only do that with my mates. If there's no kiss, I'd rather a hug over a fist bump

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  • Truthfully that'd be awesome but I'd probably be confused for a minute.

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  • Thats cute XD i would fist bump back, dude knows boundaries.

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  • I’d feel like I did something wrong and that he probably sees us being friends not a future relationship

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  • Depends on if I like him or not. If I'm into him, I might feel like he doesn't like me. If I don't like him, then I would fist bump him back.

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  • If it was a good date I’d want to fist bump him in the face... Just saying

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    • That's if it was good? Then what would you do if it was bad?

    • Well, I'd only date someone i have somewhat of a relationship already and they'd have to be able to understand humour so that's why. If it was bad id honestly be perfectly fine leaving it at that...

  • Fist bump back.
    If the date went smoothly, see if we would go on a second date.
    And then if no chemistry...
    No more dates.

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  • Lol, I’d giggle and ask if he wanted to come in and watch TV or something—friendly not more!!!

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  • Give one back to the face. Im kiddiing, I'd actually love it😂

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  • That happened once. I was so upset. Later found out he had a girlfriend...

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  • on a first date if he gave a fist bump?
    i would fist bump back!!!
    this is my type o guy

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  • he thinks im cute and knows i might get nervous if he kisses me. i would like it tbh.

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  • 😂 depends on how good the date went.. if the chemistry was intense, I would want a kiss. If it wasn't, first bump would be cool lol

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  • If I thought the date went well, I would instantly be wondering what I had done wrong, and if I would ever see him again.

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  • Gods that would be weird. I don't know if I'd go on another date after that.

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  • I think it is kind of odd, but i don't think it is such a problem

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  • Heck no that means im friendzoned

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  • fist bump bro

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  • I'd fist bump him in return

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  • "Uhh.. okay? 👊"

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  • Fist bump back and burp. Welcome to the bro zone.

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  • he would be 100x cooler

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What Guys Said 11

  • You gotta make it explode or it ain't worth the effort.

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zVLA8fvBczg

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  • If i fist bump 5 top options:
    5) we had sushi (worried about breathe big fobia)
    4) you called me bro more than 2 times and i am headed back to the bar cause im pretty sure that you friendzoned me
    3) made too may jokes at my expense and made me feel bad about myself
    2) described past intement experiences (just don't wanna hear about someone a woman used to be with)
    1) telling me im friendzoned

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  • Just so you ladied know.. if I fist bump there are only 2 possibilities.

    1. You are friendzoned (most likely)
    2. The guy got shy and nervous and panicked

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  • I worse initiate kiss, no? I mean like it's just the first date. It could send a wrong signal like looking for sex. Wasn't fist bump unless it's in her personality like

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  • yeah if i ever got a girlfriend dont think id ever kiss on the first date

    probably high five or fist pump insead

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  • Best. Question. Ever.

    Fist bumps, followed by hump bumps. Then breakfast. Night complete.

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  • Lmao she should marry cuz that a friend right there xD

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  • I am guessing she would feel friendzoned.

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  • Awesome question

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  • Fist bump sounds like a good time for her

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  • Looooooool

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