So, what would be your reaction if at the end of a first date, instead of a kiss, the guy gives you a fist bump? What do you expect him to do at the end of the first date?
Do you know how to end a date the right way without feeling awkward?
So, what would be your reaction if at the end of a first date, instead of a kiss, the guy gives you a fist bump? What do you expect him to do at the end of the first date?
Do you know how to end a date the right way without feeling awkward?
I would nevet kiss in a first date. But i would probably hug him and smell his shoulder a little. If i like a persons smell it means im attracted to them. I figured this out when my brother came home this summer and he went to the gym and he was sweaty but i hated his sweat smell but normally but i like my dads sweat smell which is very weird. So i tried to find a theory as to why this was and i did a lot of research online cause it freaked me out and it turns out i like my dads smell because naturally girls see their father as a protector and a secure place. Which is the same for the man they love cause they feel safe but its a different kind of love. However me and my brother share the same same blood and make up from both parents so it explained why i hate his sweat smell. Then i was relaxed. Anyway. Lol. Long story i know. Bottom line a hug is ok a fist pump raises questions for me which i would ask cause im really direct.
Yes you're right.
That too.
Did you have a lot to drink tonight?
@Toad-1 yes please 👊 no kisses on the first date 😶
Yeah you're late. I went out with the other guy instead.
Probably @lzumiblu
You could totally pull that off, if you made it funny, like making fun of the pressure to kiss and say goodbye and instead make it funny. Most girls would like that, it’s all about how you make them feel, that’s what they will remember
I also think it could be misinterpreted , as girls can be so quick to assume “he ordered water” or “he smiled at the waitress” or “he didn’t kiss me goodbye and fistbump me” so, you really have to know who this girl is, and her comfort/security level and if she is needy or not, if the girl grew up with brothers, do it. If she is a bit nervous and cautious, I would ask her ahead of time, if it’s ok to kiss you goodbye on the 2nd date if we feel like it? And that way it puts everything on her, she may even say the 1st date has exceptions too
You gotta make it explode or it ain't worth the effort.
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Just so you ladied know.. if I fist bump there are only 2 possibilities.
1. You are friendzoned (most likely)
2. The guy got shy and nervous and panicked
OMG, what an insecure and spineless specimen of Man. He is scared of that then there is no hope for him in real life affairs as related to good judgment and decision making.
I don't do the fist bump, call me weird but I think it's stupid so I'd definitely be turned completely off by that BUT I'd rather have the fist bump than him try to kiss me as I don't kiss on the first date...
.. either way I doubt I'd date him again
My ex will do that (he still does). He always ends every conversation with me with a high five. I think it's his feminne version of that fist-grab thing guys do with each other before parting ways. But obviously he can't do that with a girl. I guess it's a way for him to touch without being grabby? Something like that. In your case, if it were a first date, I'd be turned off by that as it shows lack of confidence and treating me properly
Make it an explosion afterwards and that would be awesome.
But if a guy did that I would laugh, that will honestly make my night. Because it was cool and unexpected.
I would be like..."Ohhh he just wants to be friends."
I would likely hug at some point after for this reason. Maybe wait for suspense!
@spinfire86 good!
I would probably laugh. I usually tell a guy I don't kiss on the first date. So if that's after telling him, I would see it as cute and respectful. If it's before I tell him I'd be like woah man this guy can either read my mind or he also doesn't kiss on the first date. Which is rare and I'd think man I met a respectable guy here, that's amazing and I'm very lucky.
I would be ok with a hug at the end of a first date, that's not awkward to me.
If i fist bump 5 top options:
5) we had sushi (worried about breathe big fobia)
4) you called me bro more than 2 times and i am headed back to the bar cause im pretty sure that you friendzoned me
3) made too may jokes at my expense and made me feel bad about myself
2) described past intement experiences (just don't wanna hear about someone a woman used to be with)
1) telling me im friendzoned
A bit weirded out because I only do that with my mates. If there's no kiss, I'd rather a hug over a fist bump
Probably think that was the coolest thing ever. I’d first bump him back
👊🏻✊🏻💥✋🏻 Balalalala
Ok I am stealing this line. Lol 😂
@alinakhanx0x my husband and I are total children and use fist bumps as greetings, awkward situation breakers and instead of a kiss goodnight
https://youtu.be/e1EOjaEmQpA
Always have to throw in a few awkward too slow shenanigans just to keep him on his toes
Lmao😂
Truthfully that'd be awesome but I'd probably be confused for a minute.
Thats cute XD i would fist bump back, dude knows boundaries.
That would be funny and endearing. I'd be intrigued and like to go out with him more after that!
Fist bump back.
If the date went smoothly, see if we would go on a second date.
And then if no chemistry...
No more dates.
If it was a good date I’d want to fist bump him in the face... Just saying
😂 depends on how good the date went.. if the chemistry was intense, I would want a kiss. If it wasn't, first bump would be cool lol
Lol, I’d giggle and ask if he wanted to come in and watch TV or something—friendly not more!!!
I’d feel like I did something wrong and that he probably sees us being friends not a future relationship
Best. Question. Ever.
Fist bumps, followed by hump bumps. Then breakfast. Night complete.
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