Girls, how would react if at the end of a first date, instead of a kiss, the guy gives you a fist bump?

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So, what would be your reaction if at the end of a first date, instead of a kiss, the guy gives you a fist bump? What do you expect him to do at the end of the first date?

Do you know how to end a date the right way without feeling awkward?

dandiecandie · Accepted Answer

I would nevet kiss in a first date. But i would probably hug him and smell his shoulder a little. If i like a persons smell it means im attracted to them. I figured this out when my brother came home this summer and he went to the gym and he was sweaty but i hated his sweat smell but normally but i like my dads sweat smell which is very weird. So i tried to find a theory as to why this was and i did a lot of research online cause it freaked me out and it turns out i like my dads smell because naturally girls see their father as a protector and a secure place. Which is the same for the man they love cause they feel safe but its a different kind of love. However me and my brother share the same same blood and make up from both parents so it explained why i hate his sweat smell. Then i was relaxed. Anyway. Lol. Long story i know. Bottom line a hug is ok a fist pump raises questions for me which i would ask cause im really direct.

AwesomeCookie · Accepted Answer

@Toad-1 yes please 👊 no kisses on the first date 😶

Bjorn526 · Accepted Answer

You could totally pull that off, if you made it funny, like making fun of the pressure to kiss and say goodbye and instead make it funny. Most girls would like that, it’s all about how you make them feel, that’s what they will remember

LesterJester · Accepted Answer

You gotta make it explode or it ain't worth the effort.

Apope16 · Answer

Just so you ladied know.. if I fist bump there are only 2 possibilities.  1. You are friendzoned (most likely) 2. The guy got shy and nervous and panicked

Guy13 · Answer

OMG, what an insecure and spineless specimen of Man. He is scared of that then there is no hope for him in real life affairs as related to good judgment and decision making.

Jaye234 · Answer

I don't do the fist bump, call me weird but I think it's stupid so I'd definitely be turned completely off by that BUT I'd rather have the fist bump than him try to kiss me as I don't kiss on the first date...
.. either way I doubt I'd date him again

pooper89 · Answer

My ex will do that (he still does). He always ends every conversation with me with a high five. I think it's his feminne version of that fist-grab thing guys do with each other before parting ways. But obviously he can't do that with a girl. I guess it's a way for him to touch without being grabby? Something like that. In your case, if it were a first date, I'd be turned off by that as it shows lack of confidence and treating me properly

lostgirl_searching · Answer

Make it an explosion afterwards and that would be awesome.  But if a guy did that I would laugh, that will honestly make my night. Because it was cool and unexpected.

DocilexElle · Answer

I would be like..."Ohhh he just wants to be friends."

Mewzinc · Answer

I would probably laugh. I usually tell a guy I don't kiss on the first date. So if that's after telling him, I would see it as cute and respectful. If it's before I tell him I'd be like woah man this guy can either read my mind or he also doesn't kiss on the first date. Which is rare and I'd think man I met a respectable guy here, that's amazing and I'm very lucky.

I would be ok with a hug at the end of a first date, that's not awkward to me.

smith_this · Answer

If i fist bump 5 top options:
5) we had sushi (worried about breathe big fobia)
4) you called me bro more than 2 times and i am headed back to the bar cause im pretty sure that you friendzoned me
3) made too may jokes at my expense and made me feel bad about myself
2) described past intement experiences (just don't wanna hear about someone a woman used to be with)
1) telling me im friendzoned

g_peresilva · Answer

A bit weirded out because I only do that with my mates. If there's no kiss, I'd rather a hug over a fist bump

mooky06 · Answer

Probably think that was the coolest thing ever. I’d first bump him back

Wonderer89 · Answer

👊🏻✊🏻💥✋🏻 Balalalala

Cuteusernamehere · Answer

Truthfully that'd be awesome but I'd probably be confused for a minute.

Nicolio · Answer

Thats cute XD i would fist bump back, dude knows boundaries.

Kolibri · Answer

That would be funny and endearing. I'd be intrigued and like to go out with him more after that!

sashapaul · Answer

Fist bump back. If the date went smoothly, see if we would go on a second date. And then if no chemistry... No more dates.

staffvron · Answer

If it was a good date I’d want to fist bump him in the face... Just saying

southernhoneybee · Answer

😂 depends on how good the date went.. if the chemistry was intense, I would want a kiss. If it wasn't, first bump would be cool lol

GeekyGirl16 · Answer

Lol, I’d giggle and ask if he wanted to come in and watch TV or something—friendly not more!!!

Queen_gamer · Answer

I’d feel like I did something wrong and that he probably sees us being friends not a future relationship

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Best. Question. Ever. Fist bumps, followed by hump bumps. Then breakfast. Night complete.

JackieInAbox · Answer

That happened once. I was so upset. Later found out he had a girlfriend...

Cheetah23 · Answer

Give one back to the face. Im kiddiing, I'd actually love it😂

aaaae2e · Answer

he thinks im cute and knows i might get nervous if he kisses me. i would like it tbh.

rahul_24 · Answer

I worse initiate kiss, no? I mean like it's just the first date. It could send a wrong signal like looking for sex. Wasn't fist bump unless it's in her personality like

Safa_Malfoy · Answer

on a first date if he gave a fist bump? i would fist bump back!!! this is my type o guy

HornetsFanAllDay · Answer

yeah if i ever got a girlfriend dont think id ever kiss on the first date probably high five or fist pump insead

Kathytaffy · Answer

Depends on if I like him or not. If I'm into him, I might feel like he doesn't like me. If I don't like him, then I would fist bump him back.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Heck no that means im friendzoned

iamshan · Answer

Lmao she should marry cuz that a friend right there xD

Pinay_ako · Answer

fist bump bro

JadeRavenheart · Answer

If I thought the date went well, I would instantly be wondering what I had done wrong, and if I would ever see him again.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Oh my god I did that, I didn't notice anything specific but the body language was kinda lazy after it 🤭

Faerie36 · Answer

Gods that would be weird. I don't know if I'd go on another date after that.

danielle19 · Answer

I think it is kind of odd, but i don't think it is such a problem

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Fist bump back and burp. Welcome to the bro zone.

Rubified94 · Answer

I'd fist bump him in return

Adfectus · Answer

Personally its prefered

britpop · Answer

That's happened to me before I found it amusing

boulshyte · Answer

he would be 100x cooler

pink1980 · Answer

That would be awesome.

vishna · Answer

lol ok, guess I'm officially friend zoned.

Mustachekitteh · Answer

Probably be laugh and a curious expression.

Angelina25 · Answer

Wow! That's interesting... Lmao

yucychan · Answer

Yeah. Fist bumps all the way.

Glass_Cat · Answer

If fist bump back ofcoarse :D

beebella · Answer

"Uhh.. okay? 👊"

blondfrog · Answer

I am guessing she would feel friendzoned.

Jason40 · Answer

Fist bump sounds like a good time for her

katchap · Answer

I'd joke and ask him to Marry me right after lols

Bluuu7 · Answer

I don't mind lol it's cool

wobbufett7 · Answer

My kinda man.

bubble_tea · Answer

Swoon~ 😍

Papavera · Answer

Fist bump his face.

kaskas19 · Answer

I'd marry him

Kassie32003 · Answer

I would lose it

spinfire86 · Answer

Awesome question

Flower-petal · Answer

I'd laugh

EarthFairy7 · Answer

I'd like that.

moonpie89 · Answer

Turn off.

Mapleshark · Answer

Coolest guy ever 😍

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