Girls, how would you feel about your date asking if he can kiss you, instead of the usual "locking eyes & leaning in"?

[MarkosSPL]

soo, i got this anxiety about misreading situations and social cue's and thus embarrassing myself, furthermore I was raised in a rather old-fashioned household which implied heavy emphasies on being a gentleman and being very well mannered, which is why asking if I can kiss the girl seems like a better option to me considering the aforementioned points.

but I want to ask whether girls would like that in general, or would it kill the romantic mood or whatever hollywood has kinda put its dent in these kinds of situations by having one of those scenes where they lock eyes and they immediately know they wanna swallow each others tounge

I would like it

I wouldn't like it

[devilish-cutie]

I would suggest you try to first get physical in other ways, like hold her hand, or hug her at the end of the date, maybe kiss on the cheek, if she rejects those, you know how you stand, or if the hug is awkward etc. Thats easier than rejecting a kiss

when you get a close with a girl that she seems to like your touch, holding hands, huggig or even initiates touching you then you may lean for kiss in that type of moment if you feel like it or ask, a girl that already is into you won't mind you asking

Also, dont put too much preassure on ysf, its ok if you dont kiss a girl on a date, you gotta feel it too

[MarkosSPL]

will try

[MoniqueTLC]

I've experienced both situations and I don't recall being asked to kiss killed the vibe completely. However, it needs to be done in the right moment, and after rapport has been built. Don't overthink it, most of the time you'll feel how the energy is, and pick up whether she's interested in you or not. Just what @devilish-cutie stated, do subtle touches to gauge how she reacts.

Just relax, and enjoy the date, it will come naturally. And if you don't end up kissing, that's perfectly fine too!

[MarkosSPL]

thank you