Do you think you’re clingy? Do you like clinginess in a partner?

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Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

I think I like just a little clinginess but not too much. There needs to be a nice balance. I just want her to want to be around me and to know that spending time with me is important to her.

There is a balance. I wouldn't like it if she seemed like she couldn't care less if she ever saw me and was fine with seeing me two hours per week and I wouldn't like someone to smother me but I do like feeling that interest from her that she is wanting to be with me and she speaks up if she isn't seeing me enough as if I'm important to her.

disgustingweebtrash · Accepted Answer

I'm not clingy at all pfft

Samathoo · Accepted Answer

I feel like I am clingy but not to the point where it’s creepy I guess? Like I wanna see my person a lot but I also really like alone time and not talking to someone 24/7 because that just drains me and gets old to me. I just like some space, I like to be able to breath on my own. But I definitely can be clingy at times. And I definitely would want my person to be the same, if not maybe a little more because I’d like the feeling of feeling wanted.

Julia420 · Accepted Answer

This is me during a relationship This is me during a relationship  And I get annoyed when pun doesn’t have time for me I will never let him leave 😈

PrincessPie · Answer

No, I’m not clingy, but I like my partner to be clingy ONLY a little clingy though, nothing to extreme, but i prefer to feel wanted and cared for.

Some_Goof · Answer

No, I’m not clingy, and I don’t like my partner to be clingy.

ChronicThinker · Answer

I'm not clingy and I hate clinginess. Being a little needy sometimes is fine.

PinkChampagne · Answer

Nothing is wrong in being clingy

Kaazsz · Answer

I’m not clingy. I like to be alone. Sometimes it’s OK if she is clingy, it’s cute and if she’s really special I don’t mind spending time with her.

The thing that kills me is when she starts thinking I’m getting hit on by girls, or I’m like out there flirting and shit. Clingy girls get like this, they always start going crazy. Seems like I only have dated girls like this. It really sucks! How do you find someone who won’t accuse you of being a ladies man, man slut? I mean hell, I was a shy loser in all of my past relationships. Now I actually know how to flirt and talk to women. The next girl I date, if she thought that shit it would be true for the first time!

Poohbear2002 · Answer

I can get clingy sometimes, like there is this guy I like and we have each other's phone number and we met at the church we both go to but anyways, so I haven't been able to go to church for a while for a lot of reasons but i'd text him. And for some reason I like talking to him so much, and the conversations don't even be that good rofl I just like talking to him. So even when ik i shouldn't text him, I end up doing it anyways and he is so nice about it lol But i try to not text him for a while because the boy needs some space... but i can get that way... if i like you then we gonna talk at least like...4 times a week rofl
This was not a good question for me to answer because I don't really wanna like him and i wanna get over him and now I'm back to square one :'( anyways, I hope my answer was good or whatever. Have a great day! :)

DarkPhoenix86 · Answer

I actually cannot STAND clingy people. It triggers me SO much. Don't ask me why, I'm not sure myself, but clingy people are literally the worst. If my partner was clingy they wouldn't be my partner. I'm getting triggered just talking about it rn. Don't know why but anyways that's how I feel about it.

9teen · Answer

I'm not really clingy but I care and I show that I like his presence. I love a healthy connection (not too much space but also not non-stop talking) and if I don't get it (with no legit reason), it might annoy me and I might confront or act the same way if I'm fed up. I just wouldn't spam the soul out of him or make him feel forced to talk to me (I also would never want that).

Jesslin412 · Answer

I hope I’m not. I try not to be. I can’t it though when he’s being all cute and sweet! And he tells me to “text away” or keeps texting me even though we just saw each other. He doesn’t love cuddling but he’ll tease me so I’m like a magnet to him. I try to sit away from him but then something always makes me scoot closer 🤦🏻‍♀️😊 he’s just too sweet!

Anonymous · Answer

I value whatever amount of time my partner chooses to dedicate to me, as long as they don't demand me to spend more time with them than I already do.
Likewise, I would dedicate as much time to my partner as I can, but I would not expect or want them to spare me more time than they already do.

Demanding attention, that's what crosses the line of "clingy", in my opinion.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Every man likes to see close fitting underwear on a girl. It's sexy. But if the undies are more than two sizes too small, it's not sexy, it doesn't look good, and it's unhealthy.
Same for the level of clinginess in a relationship.

UltimateGohan · Answer

Im clingy only if i love someone otherwise im more cold than liquid nitrogen

oftheHowl · Answer

I used to be clingy but I think that came from being insecure, so I don't like it in a partner. I think you can show you care without being clingy

Decentguy · Answer

Not really, but yeah i do like a clingy partner

shan_shan · Answer

Yes am clingy and I want my partner to be clingyer... I believe it's allll part of love

QueenofCups · Answer

I can be a little clingy... As long as you're both clingy, it's all good lol.

bbbridgett · Answer

Clingy is cute within reason; I have to be able to get some space sometimes. I like feeling needed, though.

potatoismee · Answer

I'm clingy and I know it. He's less clingy than me tho

RachelleDraws · Answer

Yes, actually. My girlfriend is clingy too. We're always together, hugging and stuff.

Chaoseverywhere · Answer

I and my partner are soooooooo not clingy. We haven't called each other for 6 years.

felix_the_cat316 · Answer

I hate clinginess in a partner. And I'm not clingy, no.

Nobodyx · Answer

No I don't like it, I need my space. I'm also not clingy myself.

Syrian_survivor · Answer

I'm clingy if my partner likes it N yes i'd love my partner to be clingy too! Then we could cling to each other n that sounds adorable lmao

chefbarker94 · Answer

there's different levels of clinginess, because clinginess shows they care, but too a point its gets to be too much. Also manipulative and clinginess are two terms that seems are confused often.

Dinnye · Answer

Clingyness can be cute... For a week. After that it just pisses people off.

Anonymous · Answer

I hate clingy. Don't want it, won't be it. Kicked a number of women to the curb for that shit.

GayHowellMeme · Answer

No, I’m not clingy, and I don’t like my partner to be clingy

Pamina · Answer

Yeah, that's not creepy at all...

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I'm definitely not clingy but I like my partner to be

rahul_24 · Answer

I'm a bit clingy but in really don't mind. It doesn't annoy me at all

Minnie97 · Answer

I'm clingy for sure, he isn't and he doesn't mind me being clingy what so ever.

bbygirlx · Answer

I just neeedddddd attention what can I say😫

lomimore · Answer

Not clingy and i absolutely hate clingy

whiteangel1 · Answer

I can be clingy and needy sometimes

Anonymous · Answer

I am clingy to the point that I hate myself when I am into someone

beebella · Answer

I can be a little clingy sometimes.

Yakasmashi · Answer

Yes I am clingy and yes my partner loves it

N23SA · Answer

I'm not clingy because i'm always flying off

Kandy-Kane · Answer

Lmfao that's hilarious. I'm clingy AF

Myrdices · Answer

I got stuck to the floor once

AlexEfron · Answer

😂😂  I'm somewhat clingy 😅

LegateLanius · Answer

Can't find out if you've never been with anyone

BronzedAdonis · Answer

I used to be terribly clingy but I have changed

NovissimumVirorum · Answer

I’m the least clingiest person in the world

2opaz · Answer

That's creepy

RabbitCeazon · Answer

I'm sometimes Clingy i. e. movies. but not always

CT_CD · Answer

No, I’m not clingy

Slim57 · Answer

I used to think I was but now I know I'm not

ghostqueen · Answer

Nope

cupidkisses · Answer

I am not and I don't like it

Merely · Answer

I don't know maybe

Revolver_ · Answer

I'm asexual

Demised · Answer

Sometimes. Yeah 😊

Shigellosis · Answer

We're all insane XD

Tohhru · Answer

I like it sometimes

MisterSir · Answer

No, I’m not clingy

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