My sister is hot?

[Anonymous]

I know a lot of people are gonna be like "Oh you just need to be confident". So my sister is older than me, and definitely so much more prettier. She's got my moms features, and is thin. She's a model, and is perfect. Gets all the attention from guys and women. Always gets told she's pretty. I get told I would be pretty if I lost weight. My dad even has one of her pictures as his background. She's taller, and I am short and overweight. Somehow I got a boyfriend. I honestly don't know what he see's in me. Like my older sister gets flirted with all the time by guys my age and gets flirted with on social media! I just hope my boyfriend doesn't think she's better than me and leaves me cause I am not pretty enough. Should I worry about this? My sis dresses revealing, and I dress more casual. I just see this ending in a disaster because of my self esteem, just seems like I have nothing to offer. I got unlucky with my genes... so I am ugly.. I am thinking about breaking it off.. my boyfriend tells me he loves me and such. He also says I am perfect the way I am, but I call bullshit.. every guy wants a hot girl..

[Logorithim]

Not every guy only thinks of looks. Your boyfriend is happy with you and will be very hurt if you break up with him just because you lack self-confidence. You must be doing something right if he is with you, and you do have something to offer that is really important- your love and companionship.

I'd also bet that you are actually pretty attractive but just don't think you are because your sister is so beautiful. That she is beautiful doesn't mean you aren't and that you aren't a good girlfriend.

[JDavid25]

Well, all you need is some self confidence, and to work on what you can instead of cryin abut what you think you don't have.. Yo life is not about gettin endless compliments like yo sister.. If yo guy likes you then except it cause you gon be miserable if you keep on like this.. You probably not even ugly... You'll be fine..

[Asker]

She's breath taking
https://imgur.com/a/7tMMmVH

[JDavid25]

She's pretty enough.. But like I said you ain't ugly either.. If you wanna get more compliments then change what you can about yoself.. Feelin sorry for yoself will not help you, and bein envious of yo sis won't help either.. You can be the best you can in this life.. It's all about attitude.. Maybe stop comparin yoself to yo sister first.. Also, don't let nobody else compare..

[Asker]

She's pretty, but I am not ugly? So I am not pretty then? Exactly what I mean. I have bad genes.

[JDavid25]

You are pretty but that's not somethin you should be mostly worryin about.. If you don't get the attention you want, then work on the inside, or work on what you don't like about yoself.. The stuff you can change.. But, yo sister is coo, from what I see I personally wouldn't call her gorgeous... She has a nice body, but I can say much for her face.. I haven't seen it up close..

[Asker]

Not really looking for attention, I get it enough from my boyfriend I don't need it from any other person.

[JDavid25]

Well, then what are you lookin for wit this? What's yo goal? I mean you make this question, and then say that.. I guess you worried about losin yo boy but he wit you, and I'm sure yo sis loves you enough not to take yo boyfriend.. You ain't givin ya boy enough credit..

[Asker]

I am not worried about her taking him away from me. I am just wondering if he will want her instead of me. Or will not find me desirable after he see's her.

[JDavid25]

You'll be fine geez.. LOL.. Don't worry about it.. Not every guy is like you think..

[Asker]

Okay okay, lol. Sorry. I don't know why I am like this. I will just be happy with me, he seems to like me a lot. Which is adorable.

[JDavid25]

Yeah, you are good.. And I'm sure he's been around other girls, or seen them, and he likes you.. So yeah.. And it's fine.. I wasn't annoyed wit you or anything.. LOL..

[Theprinceofdarkness7]

First, you just have to be yourself, it has a lot to do with the aura sourrounding you. And not every guy wants a hot girl. Guys like me just want a girl who loves us for who we are and understand us. Sounds like ur boyfriend loves you for who u are. But in your sister's case she will not know who really loves her. by the way your sis and you basically have the same genes

[Asker]

https://imgur.com/a/7tMMmVH

Still think we have the same genes? My boyfriend is gonna like her soo much better

[Theprinceofdarkness7]

How old are you? Start working out. I used be a fat black guy when i was 12 (everyone ignored me) and now i'm one of the hottest guys in school. Miracles can happen if you belive in yourself.

[Asker]

I am 20, almost 21. Working out doesn't work for me, I give up easily.

[Theprinceofdarkness7]

Do you want to look better than your sister and riddence abouy the fear of losing your boyfriend?

[Theprinceofdarkness7]

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[Asker]

Is that what it should be? Alrighty..

[Theprinceofdarkness7]

Yes, and gain yourself some confidence. The best way to gain confience is to stop thinking you're not good looking and start thinking you look good (there are people who looks pretty bad around you)

[Anonymous]

Yup! You are correct! Now do you want to change it or not? Your sister is an ally, not an enemy, so dont treat her like one. "Keep an enemy closer than a friend"

[askme_irfan]

Indeed you are perfect the way you are... believe it if he say so... Rest doesn't matter