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Extremely afraid. I wait months until I'm certain it's better just to ask and get over it than continue to live like that.
Even after being rejected most of my life I still fear it. It doesn't get easier and still sucks to go through.
Yeah better be rejected than said nothing at all. I know I'm strong.
agreed!
@VIVANT ;)
I'm not the one who really ever made the first move, but if I was to ask him out, I would not be afraid of rejection.
That's probably because you never got rejected so you don't know how shity it feels
Have you ever asked anyone out before?
@Abbas1996 no. If I asked out the guy whose been mean to me and called me names, I would have been rejected by him probably also.
@LordIheanacho No, I've just been asked out first.
I don't mind it. It's perfectly normal and part of life. I don't expect everyone to be interested in me and that is perfectly okay.
Have you actually tried to ask a man out?
Yep, exactly. It's usually not personal, except in their personal preferences. As I said, better to ask and be rejected than to not ask and never know and beat yourself up for not trying.
Lol yes I have asked several guys out and have been rejected a couple of times. It's normal.
I have Asperger's, so I don't do well in social situations. Lately I've been getting rejected by people I just wanted to be friends with. So I've gone back into hiding.
It's not the rejection I'm afraid of. It's the aftermath. Because after she rejects you, she's probably gonna go tell people and deplete your dating pool by damaging your reputation.
Dude in your 30s if you're a guy in decent shape with your life together and a good job women will be lest brutal about rejection. Half of them will start rejecting you because they know you can do better (you'll learn to spot this)
I am more successful dating now that i am no longer afraid of rejection. Ironically, I'm no longer afraid because I've already been rejected so many times it no longer fazes me. I suppose i should thank women for that.
30% fear of rejection 70% fear of getting beaten up by her boyfriend
It prevents me from approaching at all a lot of the time.
I'm not afraid, but it is an unpleasant experience.
if I were to make a move and get rejected I wouldn’t care. It’s their loss lol
But I guess in reality it's very difficult to move on , getting rejection is worst thing. Sometimes u feel that u have lost ur honur and pride in hands of other man..
@alimusharfx111 expect less. Don’t expect highly. I don’t ask people out, I wait for them to confess so I can. It’s easy when you don’t care about people but urself
I am not afraid of rejection so much as HOW they’ve do it. I know more than a handful of girls who did me and my friends dirty in rejecting us.
I'm so terrified of it. That's why I always let the girl ask me out.. lol
no one likes being turnEd down. But I generally don’t let it bother me
I'm afraid of very few things. Fist fights? Bring it on. Snakes? Sign me up, I love snakes.
But girls, nope. I ain't tough enough to face rejection.
I don't really fear rejection, I just don't think about it that much. Besides, I typically only ask out women who I'm sure like me back, so rejection isn't really an issue.
If I think she is attractive then yeah I do. The only time I would have the balls to ask her out would be if I dressed nicely that day and did my hair. For some reason clothes give me more confidence.
I got rejected so much that I don't fear it, I expect it and thus don't try anymore. Would you keep pressing a button that shocks you for a miniscule chance at getting a piece of fruit?
I am not afraid of rejection. It is not like someone is dying. So they reject me so what.
Haven’t tried in years. I don’t know that I’m to afraid.
For me its very tough not to tell a person what feel. I know I may loose that person maybe but I always go ahead n tell the person
I sometimes get afraid of rejection. I love that picture. It's from my favorite trilogy (soon to be quadrilogy).
I think I have a good track record because I only ask out girls if I'm pretty sure they already like me
People are so insecure 🤔
When you apply for a job you apply for many jobs not only one and stand still like punk waiting them to accept you. Same thing goes in dating 😏
But I guess in reality it's very difficult to move on , getting rejection is worst thing. Sometimes u feel that u have lost ur honur and pride in hands… [+]
i like your second pic.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCkMs6pcs24Now, not so much but as I get older and lose my "cute" I'll probably be more sensitive to rejection.
Girls willing to approach have many, many more opportunities and options.
I was rejected very recently. I rarely ask. It has now become even rarer.
Then don't make it rare. Keeping asking men out. Make it common. There are men who respect that more than you believe.
Part of the reason women are quick to reject many men is because requests for relationships are increasingly common from males, we are essentially the beggars and you are the choosers and it's gotten so atrociously bad it's like you women practically play Goddess over it now, and it's finally backfiring. Men are just not playing the game as often anymore and they are quitting the dating lottery in droves (for damn good reason).
Now it's women's turn to enter our shoes and get a taste of what's like to be on receiving end, or become more lucky and get boyfriends by simply asking him out. Plus if you just rely on the male asking you out everytime, how can you find Mr. Right?
The problem I overhear from many women is how they can not find the right man, yet that problem could be resolved by simply searching for that man and asking him out instead.
When one understands Supply & Demand, it kind of makes sense. Women get too many dating requests, men almost never get any at all. Quick fix, is for women to break the trend.
At first its bad but when you are as experienced as me its ok😂
how often would you say you have gotten rejected by girls in life?
At least 15. But I am not scared to ask so I guess i ask way more often than other guys to go on a date !
Yeh because after being rejected a lot I guess it would be kinda easy to accept rejection
I usually fear rejection but in the long run i take it like a man.
I am really afraid of rejection so i let them know i like them and i flirt with them and hope they get the message that I like them..
I do not ask girls out
they ask me out I do not waste my time
I work on myself
and they approach on their own
I don't fear it as I just kind of expect it. When you know what is coming it is not so bad. It is more frustrating than anything else.
Yeah I just try to pick up all the girls when I go out, you got to increase your probability of getting a girlfriend.
I just don't ask anyone out so i don't have to deal with rejection
I don't fear rejection, but I never feel the need to actually ask someone out.
People say no all the time, just deal with it and move on.
i'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of what she'll do after the rejection
I don't fear rejection, I fear that the fear if making myself out an arse will be a self fulfilling prophecy.
Becase it takes more than a sit up in am to look this good 24/7 job been getting pretty for eid for at least week.
No, no fear. I'm a shy guy and I've known for a while that women don't like shy guys, so I just don't bother. So no fear of rejection.
the reason im not adraid of rejection is cuz i ask out girls who like my personality
It really depends. It's easier online asking someone out than in person.
I think its a matter of how much does that person matters to you
Not afraid at all. It is what it is. If she says no, then it's no. Time's money.
Just afraid of wasting my time. Rejection is actually a relief because then at least I asked.
exactly !!
I’m too shy to start conversations with new people of either gender.
I don’t like that type of rejection but nice George Mcfly meme 😊
I hate it, and I've never experienced the contrary of rejection.
For 1 girl that rejects me there will be millions waiting for me :D
Personally, I am at the point where I don't care to ask someone out and get rejected.
I just don't ask anyone out so i don't have to deal with rejection
I just don't ask anyone out so i don't have to deal with rejection.
I've only been rejected once and it hurt like hell. But I'm not super afraid, only if I'm going after a really attractive girl (like 8.5 or above).
When you get rejected it means she's not the right one for you
Drop it and look for your match
nope, they'll always be open if you take em for a nice meal.
That's not how I ask out hehe. I don't fear it that much. Be prepared.