How much do you fear getting rejected by someone you ask out? (Page 2)

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How much do you fear getting rejected by someone you ask out?

bubble_tea · Answer

Extremely afraid. I wait months until I'm certain it's better just to ask and get over it than continue to live like that.

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Even after being rejected most of my life I still fear it. It doesn't get easier and still sucks to go through.

Mikey_Ramone · Answer

Yeah better be rejected than said nothing at all. I know I'm strong.

Salmon4056 · Answer

I'm not the one who really ever made the first move, but if I was to ask him out, I would not be afraid of rejection.

LittleRedKat · Answer

I don't mind it. It's perfectly normal and part of life. I don't expect everyone to be interested in me and that is perfectly okay.

Defboy69 · Answer

I have Asperger's, so I don't do well in social situations. Lately I've been getting rejected by people I just wanted to be friends with. So I've gone back into hiding.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

It's not the rejection I'm afraid of. It's the aftermath. Because after she rejects you, she's probably gonna go tell people and deplete your dating pool by damaging your reputation.

ronaldo75 · Answer

Dude in your 30s if you're a guy in decent shape with your life together and a good job women will be lest brutal about rejection. Half of them will start rejecting you because they know you can do better (you'll learn to spot this)

striker_eureka · Answer

I am more successful dating now that i am no longer afraid of rejection. Ironically, I'm no longer afraid because I've already been rejected so many times it no longer fazes me. I suppose i should thank women for that.

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

30% fear of rejection 70% fear of getting beaten up by her boyfriend

GingerGuy · Answer

It prevents me from approaching at all a lot of the time.

ShikiNatsume · Answer

I'm not afraid, but it is an unpleasant experience.

ShesAmerican · Answer

if I were to make a move and get rejected I wouldn’t care. It’s their loss lol

Thatoneguy5526 · Answer

I am not afraid of rejection so much as HOW they’ve do it. I know more than a handful of girls who did me and my friends dirty in rejecting us.

deanlarouche · Answer

I'm so terrified of it. That's why I always let the girl ask me out.. lol

Izumiblu · Answer

no one likes being turnEd down. But I generally don’t let it bother me

SirRexington · Answer

I'm afraid of very few things. Fist fights? Bring it on. Snakes? Sign me up, I love snakes.  But girls, nope. I ain't tough enough to face rejection.

ryancg · Answer

I don't really fear rejection, I just don't think about it that much. Besides, I typically only ask out women who I'm sure like me back, so rejection isn't really an issue.

blondfrog · Answer

If I think she is attractive then yeah I do. The only time I would have the balls to ask her out would be if I dressed nicely that day and did my hair. For some reason clothes give me more confidence.

LegateLanius · Answer

I got rejected so much that I don't fear it, I expect it and thus don't try anymore. Would you keep pressing a button that shocks you for a miniscule chance at getting a piece of fruit?

findingdreamland-1 · Answer

I am not afraid of rejection. It is not like someone is dying. So they reject me so what.

zoe2187 · Answer

Haven’t tried in years. I don’t know that I’m to afraid.

cristal_ · Answer

For me its very tough not to tell a person what feel. I know I may loose that person maybe but I always go ahead n tell the person

Titanic1912 · Answer

I sometimes get afraid of rejection. I love that picture. It's from my favorite trilogy (soon to be quadrilogy).

Sarcastro · Answer

I think I have a good track record because I only ask out girls if I'm pretty sure they already like me

james_mark · Answer

People are so insecure 🤔 When you apply for a job you apply for many jobs not only one and stand still like punk waiting them to accept you. Same thing goes in dating 😏

alimusharfx111 · Answer

But I guess in reality it's very difficult to move on , getting rejection is worst thing. Sometimes u feel that u have lost ur honur and pride in hands… [+]

shubhamchachapara · Answer

i like your second pic.

belarus · Answer

Now, not so much but as I get older and lose my "cute" I'll probably be more sensitive to rejection.

DakotaNorth · Answer

I was rejected very recently. I rarely ask. It has now become even rarer.

officialgigaloo · Answer

At first its bad but when you are as experienced as me its ok😂

Jackson590 · Answer

Yeh because after being rejected a lot I guess it would be kinda easy to accept rejection

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I usually fear rejection but in the long run i take it like a man.

Savy03XO · Answer

I am really afraid of rejection so i let them know i like them and i flirt with them and hope they get the message that I like them..

arnoldsmith · Answer

I do not ask girls out  they ask me out I do not waste my time  I work on myself  and they approach on their own

Lance1965 · Answer

I don't fear it as I just kind of expect it. When you know what is coming it is not so bad. It is more frustrating than anything else.

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah I just try to pick up all the girls when I go out, you got to increase your probability of getting a girlfriend.

CarpetDenim · Answer

I just don't ask anyone out so i don't have to deal with rejection

KiaTate · Answer

I don't fear rejection, but I never feel the need to actually ask someone out.

Landshrk0068 · Answer

People say no all the time, just deal with it and move on.

larswisner · Answer

i'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of what she'll do after the rejection

Edanurus · Answer

I don't fear rejection, I fear that the fear if making myself out an arse will be a self fulfilling prophecy.

psyz2 · Answer

Becase it takes more than a sit up in am to look this good 24/7 job been getting pretty for eid for at least week.

villageidiot · Answer

No, no fear. I'm a shy guy and I've known for a while that women don't like shy guys, so I just don't bother. So no fear of rejection.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

the reason im not adraid of rejection is cuz i ask out girls who like my personality

Introvert94 · Answer

It really depends. It's easier online asking someone out than in person.

lernulo · Answer

I think its a matter of how much does that person matters to you

sp33d · Answer

Not afraid at all. It is what it is. If she says no, then it's no. Time's money.

IndyChris · Answer

Just afraid of wasting my time. Rejection is actually a relief because then at least I asked.

clampfan101 · Answer

I’m too shy to start conversations with new people of either gender.

Likes2drive · Answer

I don’t like that type of rejection but nice George Mcfly meme 😊

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I hate it, and I've never experienced the contrary of rejection.

DiegoO · Answer

For 1 girl that rejects me there will be millions waiting for me :D

Ljd213 · Answer

Personally, I am at the point where I don't care to ask someone out and get rejected.

CT_CD · Answer

I just don't ask anyone out so i don't have to deal with rejection

llorando · Answer

I just don't ask anyone out so i don't have to deal with rejection.

That2kKid21 · Answer

I've only been rejected once and it hurt like hell. But I'm not super afraid, only if I'm going after a really attractive girl (like 8.5 or above).

bossbillah11 · Answer

When you get rejected it means she's not the right one for you  Drop it and look for your match

Maazin · Answer

nope, they'll always be open if you take em for a nice meal.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

That's not how I ask out hehe. I don't fear it that much. Be prepared.

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