What if the girl gets attention from men offline?
then she probably is. No need to take tinder into account right?
i Mean, guys are often afraid of approaching women offline, so I would think that it would mean something if a woman receives a lot of attention online.
yeah that factor is also important. But still, you may receive 100 matches, and your friend who is looking for hookup might get 200. That doesn't mean she is prettier though.
Yeah, that’s very true. I posted on my bio “not looking for hookups”. I still gets lots of messages, but I imagine I’d get much more if I posted “looking to have fun tonight.”
Agreed. An ugly girl open to hooking up is going to have more matches than a pretty girl not looking to hook up.
Why would they swipe right on girls they’re not into for the sake of getting matched?
they get as many matches as they can so they can weed out who they actually like and who they don't.it's a game.
That defeats the whole purpose though. Why not just match with who you like if you’re going to end up umatcging the ones you don’t like anyways?
Doesn’t make sense though. You’re just wasting your own time.
It gives you a better idea of who in your league. If you swipe right on only women you find very attractive you run the risk of getting few to zero matches, the risk is greater if you are overestimating your own attractiveness. Swiping right on everyone allows you to view all of you're possible options then choosing the best of the lot.
@Dudeman1234 If you swipe right on women you’re not attracted to just to get some swipes, you’re just lying to yourself and wasting your swipes and the time you’re swiping. I still don’t see the logic behind it nor do I see its benefit.If anything, they’re swiping right on everyone to get an ego boost after seeing “who likes me”.
The logic is that quite often the girls you attracted to aren't the girls you can get. Realistically, you're going to have to settle for someone less attractive. So it's better to swipe right with everyone them choose the most attractive of those you matched.
To use the rubbish girls as practice for flirting so when a good one comes along a guy won't a few it up by being boring or weird.
*screw it up
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To answer your question, NO.
If anyone uses Tiner for a real relationship, your mistaken.
What if they message you telling you how beautiful you are? I think intent plays a role too. A guy might swipe right cause he thinks you’re hot, but may not message you after reading your bio saying “not looking for sex or whatever”
Sure, if a guy goes out of his way to tell you you’re beautiful that’s a pretty good indicator
Maybe you need to take better pics , have a friend that's good at taking pics take one for you. Also it could be your bio , girls read that all the time
Hey thanks for the comment. My Tinder pics are pretty well shot I guess. And the bio is not very bad as well. Maybe you're right too. Will give it a thought. ✌
Maybe the blonde girl looks better as a blonde than a brunette? I don’t buy the whole “blondes look easier” notion. I think the clothes you wear along with the make up can reveal the easiness aspect. But, I don’t see how hair color plays a role in that.
They don’t look easier, but men perceive them as such.
There’s a experiment on YouTube showing how attractivess plays a role in the number of matches you get. Chicks do get messages even if they’re average, but attractive women get even more than that since tinder is a superficial app.
Why not just message the ones they like if they’re going to end up weeding out the girls they don’t like anyways? I don’t see the point of messaging everyone for the sake of receiving messages. It doesn’t make much sense to me.
Because filtering through the small list of responses for one you like is less work than filtering through everyone and picking ones you like from that to message.
I think it’s more work for you to match with and message girls you know you don’t like when you can just match with the ones you like and then take it from there.
It takes much less time to click match than to look through and read profiles.