Why doesn’t my boyfriend stop adding random girls when I asked him to? (Page 2)
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Since he didn't stop leave him, in my opinion for what he his doing is trying to get close to them so that way if you dont work out he has a backup.
As a guy who went through this phase with my ex, I can honestly say it doesn't mean anything. He's just bored and when he scrolls through instagram, attractive girls will inevitably show up. It's kinda hard not to ignore them. However I will say this boredom comes partly from not having a sexually fulfilling relationship. Try doing sexy things for him if you want him to focus more on you.
Love this answer lol
At least someone does aha. Already 2 dislikes because I'm blunt.
to ignore them***
No. Turns out he was cheating.
Lol depends on the guy. I definitely wouldn't cheat aha. Gotta filter better. Better luck next time 😂
Turns out he was cheating. One of the girls messaged me about it :/
Sorry. Didn’t mean to comment that on this one.
@Asker I guess when someone even is like that, you shouldn't want to hang out with someone like him in the first place.
I'm sorry he cheated, the cunt.
@DashboardLight Oh yeah because liking photos of girls on instagram is a rwd flag and basically proves the guy is a cheater. Lmao your logic.
@Ayer93
Random girls from *THEIR* area and liking *ALL* their photos and *ALSO* adding them on Snapchat, plus getting tons of *DM's* from those girls is definitely a big red flag.
Point taken 😂
Wait wait wait now. That's doesn't necessarily put up a red flag in the event that he was cheating. (I'm sorry that it was the case) but that doesn't mean to generalize the male population. I scroll up an down Instagram all day and just like random pics. I don't reply to any of my Dms on insta. But that doesn't necessarily mean I'm cheating. My girlfriend doesn't particularly care but none the less.
Now let's say what would you say 'If' he didn't cheat?
I get plenty of Dms. Did he reply to them thought?
He would send the DMS himself.
Well there's my logic down the drain. Guys really are pieces of shit. 💀 sorry that you had your go through that experience.
I think you know why.
He is shopping for someone else or he is thinking about cheating.
Because he has no respect for you. no matter how many times he insists he does..
I think you should just leave him alone and let him build his social life. Being friends with a bunch of girls dosent mean he is gonna cheat on you. I think you might be overprotecrive and jealous, which is definitely a nono in relationships
It turns out he was Actually cheating.
Bad move. Been there, broke up soon afterward. If he knows what your worth hell delete
He is not your boyfriend then :). If you tell them what you dont like and they keep doing it. It means you are nothing to the. Find a man , not a boy :)
I wife also does that.. but I don't find it an issue... the reaction would change in person to person
He's rebelling he thinks you don't trust him so he's gonna see how far he can push you the best thing to do is act as if you don't care to show him you trust him and all of this will stop I assure you
Because he is willing to cheat on you if the opprotunity came along
He wants to cheat or likes the rush he gets from the chase!
Trust him until he proves you wrong. If you let him do whatever and he's faithful and doesn't do anything bad then great but when he screws up don't be hurt cause he's gone after that.
Turns out he was cheating.
Don't let that hurt you. My ex cheated on my and I was a wreck until I came to the conclusion that I didn't do anything wrong and the bad is over. Now don't let this hinder your ability to trust in the future. If you trust until proven wrong eventually you'll have a guy that never proves you wrong.
Thank you. I am so sorry you were cheated on. Turns out you were right. I found a good guy. I hope you find a good partner in the future !
You may be his best fuck right now, but he’s shopping for a better model.
You might have special feelings for him but u might be one of those tons of random girls for him... don't waste your feelings if u think same as me... wait for someone who will make u feel special and beautiful... good luck
He’s not ready to settle down and call it taken but as long as he’s not cheater and he’s trust worthy I guess it’s fine?
Apparently you are more serious about your relationship than he is
Because he lose interest in you.. reason for that is you gave him to much attention... so giving him attention... that much.
If he is dating you and you both have discussed being committed to one another, i wouldn't worry. If he gives them more attention than you, id look for another man.
I don't know how to make me feel good or not if I was in your position
That's not a good sign... It can mean he is still "searching" for what he thought he already found