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He is immature and selfish. Simple. Little boys like him don’t give a shit about anyone or anything outside of his own personal gratification. You should give him an ultimatum. Either he stops your you step. He can either get with the program or change the channel. You shouldn’t have to tolerate blatant disrespect when you’ve already made your feelings clear. Grow a spine and make yourself be heard.
What is It About this SNAP That... I am Hearing This all of the Time Here, dear?
He is not Worth your Time if he Doesn't listen to how Upset you are. It shows me he is "Randomly" Looking at other Girls, Maybe Chatting too. Maybe More in Store in his Future. xx
You haven't required him to stop adding girls. If you required him to stop and he didn't stop, then there would be a consequence. Without you doing something in response to him, he will keep adding girls. So step up and react to him.
I do. I tell him it makes me feel badly and unloved. And we fight a lot because of it.
Those are words, not actions. Obviously if he keeps adding girls and you said you feel badly then he doesn't care about your feelings. So instead of words do something.. like stopping doing something he likes and make it clear it is in direct response to his actions. For example if you make him lunch or dinner, tell him he is on his own until he stops adding girls. Or if you agree to go out with him on a Friday night on a date tell him you are not going until he stops. Only when you react will he decide if it's still worth adding girls or not.
Well. Doesn’t matter. He was cheating.
Because he doesn’t give a fuck about your feelings or respect you
Unfortunately most honest answer right here ^
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Sounds like my ex. I think he's stepping all over you. I wouldn't let him. He's not respecting you.
If you want to be a little bold, you could follow guys and talk to them, and when he says something, you could say that you're just reciprocating, and have an open conversation about it, but if he's avoiding communication, then he's not worth your tears, time and energy.
Or just straight forward talk about this without letting him taste his own medicine, by using "I" and open-ended communication: "I have noticed that you've been following a lot of girls and talking to them. What is going on?" "I need you to respect me and stop talking to another 20 girls while being with me, because how would you react if I've been talking to other guys right now? How would you trust me and my fidelity?"
Honestly, his loyalty is questionable. I wouldn't waste my time and energy on him if communication doesn't work.
I think that you will do fine without him. It's better to wait for a good one than to be with one who flirts with so many girls. Just say that "I don't want to be with you anymore, because I am not comfortable with you talking to so many girls behind my back, even though I've asked you not to."
He doesn't give a damn about you. I had a boyfriend like this before. Turns out he was on multiple dating apps & that's mostly how he would find "random local girls"
He is most likely already cheating. Mine was. My advice is to stop talking to him and end the "relationship"
What you need to do is make it clear that you’re not gonna put up with this and that you’re very angry.. by not talking to him for a very long time, literally cut off all your communication with him for about a week or two. maybe longer. If he really likes you he’ll stay with you and he’ll feel bad later. If he doesn’t like you and he just wants to talk to a bunch of girls, he won’t give a shit and he’ll move on from you in which case you’ll know what guy he was and you guys will be done
If he keeps ignoring what you say and how you feel he doesn’t really care about you. You have to have a healthy balance of trust, honesty, and respect. Is he flirting with these girls or just having conversations? And you also have to ask yourself if you’re overreacting. Are you showing him enough attention or is he just lashing out to get your attention? Has he given you any reason to not want to trust him before? There’s a lot to take into consideration. By by the looks of it, he’s not being considerate of your feelings towards these random girls and these messages. If you’re tired of talking start walking. It’s harder than it sounds but you should value your self worth. Know it and know you deserve better.
It's probably not a good sign. Normally boyfriends don't do these things. If he can't own up to such simple things I'd say let him go, find someone who is at least willing to show some sign of commitment.
My ex did this same thing to me hun, turned out he cheated on me while I went on vacation to see family.. I had a gut instinct and didn’t listen to it. Don’t ignore your instincts
I don't think it's right that you have total control over who he interacts with. He should be able to interact with girls on a basic level ad long as he's not being inappropriate. If he's always flirting with other girls and that makes you uncomfortable then you should leave.
Its his social media. If he doesn't feel inclined listen to u might not be true love. All in all can't make him do what he doesn't want. Controling him might hurt the both of you. Its up to you to ask" Do u trust he is faithful."
He was cheating.
Because he doesn't want to. And he doesn't care that you don't want him to. Its' that simple. There isn't much of a question here.
Why does person X do something I don't want them to do. Because they want to do X more than they want to please you.
Because he is cheating on you and doesn't care for your feelings and he is using you... He will continue to do that... advice for u break up
He's playing the field. Not to be rude, but it sounds like he's trying to trade up (keeping you while trying to see if he can find someone "better").
Also, he's not respecting your feelings.
You can definitely do better. Good luck!
Perhaps he likes the attention he is recieving from these other girls. He might need a boost to his self esteem, which the attention is providing.
Respecting the other person's feelings should be at the forefront of any relationship. If he doesn't respect your emotions towards a subject that's very important to you, then he doesn't respect you as a person. If you explain it to him clearly how you feel and why and he still does it, then you have to decide if you want to be with someone who has no respect for you.
Tell him it makes you uncomfortable. Don't do what parents do and say "because I said so" then he won't listen. If he respects you enough to stop when you ask, he's a keeper. If not, show him the door.
Because he doesn't care about relationships, he just cares about having the hottest girls give him attention so he can boost his ego
Very inappropriate, wouldn't even take my time going over the breakup talk.
Leave him
He definitely ain't worth you, cause that ain't a friendly gesture adding girls like you're on the market.. I'd say bye to him and find closure before he does the same to you girl
Maybe he's looking to meet a girl who doesn't go through his phone haha. But seriously yeah, he's a dog. You should get tested for STD's
Since he didn't stop leave him, in my opinion for what he his doing is trying to get close to them so that way if you dont work out he has a backup.
If he has convos with other girls that are not showing any signs of flirting, then you should have no problem, but if you really dont feel comfortable that he does this, then its better to just break up cause he's not gonna change that habit overnight. Just rember that you are young and you dont have to be tied down to a relationship unless its one you want to work with. Don't rush
Basically you think that because he's with you, he's automatically your property and isn't allowed to have contact with other girls.
He goes out with you because he likes you, so stop being jealous and insecure, it does you no good.
As a guy who went through this phase with my ex, I can honestly say it doesn't mean anything. He's just bored and when he scrolls through instagram, attractive girls will inevitably show up. It's kinda hard not to ignore them. However I will say this boredom comes partly from not having a sexually fulfilling relationship. Try doing sexy things for him if you want him to focus more on you.
No. Turns out he was cheating.
Turns out he was cheating. One of the girls messaged me about it :/
Sorry. Didn’t mean to comment that on this one.
@Asker I guess when someone even is like that, you shouldn't want to hang out with someone like him in the first place.
I'm sorry he cheated, the cunt.
@DashboardLight Oh yeah because liking photos of girls on instagram is a rwd flag and basically proves the guy is a cheater. Lmao your logic.
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Random girls from *THEIR* area and liking *ALL* their photos and *ALSO* adding them on Snapchat, plus getting tons of *DM's* from those girls is definitely a big red flag.
Wait wait wait now. That's doesn't necessarily put up a red flag in the event that he was cheating. (I'm sorry that it was the case) but that doesn't mean to generalize the male population. I scroll up an down Instagram all day and just like random pics. I don't reply to any of my Dms on insta. But that doesn't necessarily mean I'm cheating. My girlfriend doesn't particularly care but none the less.
Now let's say what would you say 'If' he didn't cheat?
He would send the DMS himself.
I think you know why.
He is shopping for someone else or he is thinking about cheating.
Because he has no respect for you. no matter how many times he insists he does..
I think you should just leave him alone and let him build his social life. Being friends with a bunch of girls dosent mean he is gonna cheat on you. I think you might be overprotecrive and jealous, which is definitely a nono in relationships
It turns out he was Actually cheating.
Bad move. Been there, broke up soon afterward. If he knows what your worth hell delete
He is not your boyfriend then :). If you tell them what you dont like and they keep doing it. It means you are nothing to the. Find a man , not a boy :)
I wife also does that.. but I don't find it an issue... the reaction would change in person to person
He's rebelling he thinks you don't trust him so he's gonna see how far he can push you the best thing to do is act as if you don't care to show him you trust him and all of this will stop I assure you
Because he is willing to cheat on you if the opprotunity came along
He wants to cheat or likes the rush he gets from the chase!
Trust him until he proves you wrong. If you let him do whatever and he's faithful and doesn't do anything bad then great but when he screws up don't be hurt cause he's gone after that.
Turns out he was cheating.
Don't let that hurt you. My ex cheated on my and I was a wreck until I came to the conclusion that I didn't do anything wrong and the bad is over. Now don't let this hinder your ability to trust in the future. If you trust until proven wrong eventually you'll have a guy that never proves you wrong.
Thank you. I am so sorry you were cheated on. Turns out you were right. I found a good guy. I hope you find a good partner in the future !
You may be his best fuck right now, but he’s shopping for a better model.
You might have special feelings for him but u might be one of those tons of random girls for him... don't waste your feelings if u think same as me... wait for someone who will make u feel special and beautiful... good luck
He’s not ready to settle down and call it taken but as long as he’s not cheater and he’s trust worthy I guess it’s fine?
Apparently you are more serious about your relationship than he is
Because he lose interest in you.. reason for that is you gave him to much attention... so giving him attention... that much.
If he is dating you and you both have discussed being committed to one another, i wouldn't worry. If he gives them more attention than you, id look for another man.
I don't know how to make me feel good or not if I was in your position
That's not a good sign... It can mean he is still "searching" for what he thought he already found
He's a player. Not ready to settle down. Be sure to not hold strong feelings for him
Keeping his options open not a big deal do it back to him
Yeah that really normally isn't right in my opinion especially if its making you uncomfortable
Leave him, he'll soon notice/pay attention Then.
He's a person not a servant. You don't own him. No ring on his finger lol.
Apparently, he is looking for another girlfriend (girlfriends)
He's cheating, likes looking at other females, is gay and is appreciating their style or he just has a lot of legitimate friends that are girls... But probably not the last one
Cuz when you two break up he has to have options.. duh!
He has zero respect for you. Leave him.
Cuz he doesn't respect you and you should dump him
Umm may be you are not providing him something that he thinks that other girl will provide
He's cheating.
While it's very possible that he is, it's also not a good idea to jump to that conclusion.
Turns out he was.
I'm very sorry to hear that. You deserve someone much better than that.
He doesn't care about how you feel.
Ditch him, you're being played.
he's not worth loving.
he's playing you boo.
Sounds like a player.
Dump him
Dump him girl! He is cheating on you
Girl he is cheating on u!!!
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