He is immature and selfish. Simple. Little boys like him don’t give a shit about anyone or anything outside of his own personal gratification. You should give him an ultimatum. Either he stops your you step. He can either get with the program or change the channel. You shouldn’t have to tolerate blatant disrespect when you’ve already made your feelings clear. Grow a spine and make yourself be heard.
What is It About this SNAP That... I am Hearing This all of the Time Here, dear?
He is not Worth your Time if he Doesn't listen to how Upset you are. It shows me he is "Randomly" Looking at other Girls, Maybe Chatting too. Maybe More in Store in his Future. xx
You haven't required him to stop adding girls. If you required him to stop and he didn't stop, then there would be a consequence. Without you doing something in response to him, he will keep adding girls. So step up and react to him.
Because he doesn’t give a fuck about your feelings or respect you
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Sounds like my ex. I think he's stepping all over you. I wouldn't let him. He's not respecting you.
If you want to be a little bold, you could follow guys and talk to them, and when he says something, you could say that you're just reciprocating, and have an open conversation about it, but if he's avoiding communication, then he's not worth your tears, time and energy.
Or just straight forward talk about this without letting him taste his own medicine, by using "I" and open-ended communication: "I have noticed that you've been following a lot of girls and talking to them. What is going on?" "I need you to respect me and stop talking to another 20 girls while being with me, because how would you react if I've been talking to other guys right now? How would you trust me and my fidelity?"
He doesn't give a damn about you. I had a boyfriend like this before. Turns out he was on multiple dating apps & that's mostly how he would find "random local girls"
He is most likely already cheating. Mine was. My advice is to stop talking to him and end the "relationship"
What you need to do is make it clear that you’re not gonna put up with this and that you’re very angry.. by not talking to him for a very long time, literally cut off all your communication with him for about a week or two. maybe longer. If he really likes you he’ll stay with you and he’ll feel bad later. If he doesn’t like you and he just wants to talk to a bunch of girls, he won’t give a shit and he’ll move on from you in which case you’ll know what guy he was and you guys will be done
If he keeps ignoring what you say and how you feel he doesn’t really care about you. You have to have a healthy balance of trust, honesty, and respect. Is he flirting with these girls or just having conversations? And you also have to ask yourself if you’re overreacting. Are you showing him enough attention or is he just lashing out to get your attention? Has he given you any reason to not want to trust him before? There’s a lot to take into consideration. By by the looks of it, he’s not being considerate of your feelings towards these random girls and these messages. If you’re tired of talking start walking. It’s harder than it sounds but you should value your self worth. Know it and know you deserve better.
It's probably not a good sign. Normally boyfriends don't do these things. If he can't own up to such simple things I'd say let him go, find someone who is at least willing to show some sign of commitment.
My ex did this same thing to me hun, turned out he cheated on me while I went on vacation to see family.. I had a gut instinct and didn’t listen to it. Don’t ignore your instincts
I don't think it's right that you have total control over who he interacts with. He should be able to interact with girls on a basic level ad long as he's not being inappropriate. If he's always flirting with other girls and that makes you uncomfortable then you should leave.
Its his social media. If he doesn't feel inclined listen to u might not be true love. All in all can't make him do what he doesn't want. Controling him might hurt the both of you. Its up to you to ask" Do u trust he is faithful."
Because he doesn't want to. And he doesn't care that you don't want him to. Its' that simple. There isn't much of a question here.
Why does person X do something I don't want them to do. Because they want to do X more than they want to please you.
He's playing the field. Not to be rude, but it sounds like he's trying to trade up (keeping you while trying to see if he can find someone "better").
Also, he's not respecting your feelings.
You can definitely do better. Good luck!
Perhaps he likes the attention he is recieving from these other girls. He might need a boost to his self esteem, which the attention is providing.
Respecting the other person's feelings should be at the forefront of any relationship. If he doesn't respect your emotions towards a subject that's very important to you, then he doesn't respect you as a person. If you explain it to him clearly how you feel and why and he still does it, then you have to decide if you want to be with someone who has no respect for you.
Because he is cheating on you and doesn't care for your feelings and he is using you... He will continue to do that... advice for u break up
Tell him it makes you uncomfortable. Don't do what parents do and say "because I said so" then he won't listen. If he respects you enough to stop when you ask, he's a keeper. If not, show him the door.
Because he doesn't care about relationships, he just cares about having the hottest girls give him attention so he can boost his ego
Very inappropriate, wouldn't even take my time going over the breakup talk.
Leave him
He definitely ain't worth you, cause that ain't a friendly gesture adding girls like you're on the market.. I'd say bye to him and find closure before he does the same to you girl
Maybe he's looking to meet a girl who doesn't go through his phone haha. But seriously yeah, he's a dog. You should get tested for STD's
If he has convos with other girls that are not showing any signs of flirting, then you should have no problem, but if you really dont feel comfortable that he does this, then its better to just break up cause he's not gonna change that habit overnight. Just rember that you are young and you dont have to be tied down to a relationship unless its one you want to work with. Don't rush
Basically you think that because he's with you, he's automatically your property and isn't allowed to have contact with other girls.
He goes out with you because he likes you, so stop being jealous and insecure, it does you no good.
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