My boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram, should I be worried? (Page 2)

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My boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram, should I be worried? My boyfriend for just over a year recently has been following random girls on Instagram and it’s making me feel so uneasy and at times insecure about myself, I trust him but before he wasn’t doing this. Does this mean anything?  Like should I be worried? I feel like if I call him out on it il sound annoying and nagging which I’m not like that with him. Could I get some advice pls?

TroyDT · Answer

I think you already know that you should be. Guys will notice a pretty girl walking by. That should not concern you. Going out of his way to scope out other girls? Yes, it is reasonable to be concerned.

Malita55 · Answer

Thats disrespectful in my opinion and i would talk to my boyfriend about it

aialex · Answer

Let him taste his own medicine. Go follow a bunch of random, hot guys on Instagram. See if he likes it.

QueenofCups · Answer

As long as he doesn't talk to them, it's probly harmless.

Salmon4056 · Answer

If the girls he follow have or show nude pics, bikini pic, sexual pics and etc, then I would yeah be concerned.

MrChinaski · Answer

If you trust him then you have nothing to worry about. If you do not trust him then th relationship is over regardless of anything he is or is not doing on instagram

At3mis24 · Answer

Yes, it's quite worrying; these days, relationships are so grounded that it's safer to stay single.

Somoneelse · Answer

I would advise you to just ask him about it. Not accuse him but just a calm/casual way. Also explain how it makes you feel and let him explain his side. Communication = key.

Bliss-taylor · Answer

What kind of girls? Ig models or just regular girls with a few hundred followers or less? The ig models I wouldn't care about.

letssee89 · Answer

You probably don't have anything to worry about. You should, however, discuss it with him if it is making you feel insecure. Communication is the key to making any relationship work.

daisy56 · Answer

Depends, one thing I’ve learnt is always trust your gut feeling, just talk to him about it and ask who they are so you have a bit of closure on it all

BJP21 · Answer

I fallow women latin pop singers, and random models that set good examples for other women. I understand the people I fallow are married or in a relationship, and in my mind completely off limits. Hope this helps. From a guys prospective.

bubble_tea · Answer

If he's only just started that behaviour now, after a year with you, I'd be worried.

Loveherbut · Answer

Thats why i hate relationships because of selfish inconsiderate human beings.

HighValue · Answer

Question, do you have social media too? Do you have conversations on there with guys that you don't share with your boyfriend?

Prankster13 · Answer

That is the whole point of Instagram: follow random people. I think you may be overthinking this. No offense.

Arionne · Answer

Nooo I follow many random celeb guys or guys that are mutual friends; its social media; take it lightly.

Texaskid1 · Answer

At least he is not following random guys.

pookybear123 · Answer

I saw you responded to another questions that it was random local girls. That’s not ok to me. Insta models are nice to look at but in reality it’s not different to a celebrity in movies so passable.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

It's not really different if you're a fan of any male celebrities and romanticize guys from rom coms. You can also do the same thing like follow random guys. That's what social medias like instagram is for.

DermalPunch · Answer

Well, you probably aren't dealing with a very mature guy.

WhitneySnow · Answer

That would worry me especially if the girls were super sexy

BeautyLove · Answer

Girl... get yourself some eye candies too... 👀  Go crazy and follow hot guyzzzz...

mikeygolfs · Answer

Talk to him about it. Ask. You shouldn't sacrifice peace of mind just to avoid a talk.

Blue_Green_1985 · Answer

I'd keep an eye on it as not all men are faithful, however most of the time it is harmless and he's just following people to hopefully increase the chances of gaining followers... (From my experience anyway)

strateguy632 · Answer

Don't worry, he is just looking at pictures, like riding a bus.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know if actually following them is a bad sign but if him and the girl he is following are both liking each others pictures, Id be worried because something is up between them.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Who keeps reanimating all these year plus questions?

rabbitzzz · Answer

Yes, create your own instagram and and watch the simps pouring in. Would make your boyfriend double nervousl.

Guccigabbana18 · Answer

Are these girls IG models or real-life people he could potentially meet?

Anonymous · Answer

My ex’s flatmate has this very plain looking girlfriend and on instagram he pretty much exclusively follows soft porn Instagram models. I would be extremely bothered if I was her, she doesn’t look anything like those girls and never will.

johnmichaei · Answer

I'm sure he wouldn't like you following guys random guys there I mean if you don't have your foot out wear the shoe

DevikaButts95 · Answer

No. Everyone rubbernecks, ain't a big deal they always come home.

NilsB · Answer

As long as he doesn't is chatting with them and spent them a good amount of time it is ok. Insta is a platform for models and so i think it is not a bad sing

Anonymous · Answer

had that happen to me. it means he's not that interested in you. no amount of talk will change that, he'll just think you're being nosey.

pooper89 · Answer

I wouldn't worry unless you see that he's having conversations with some of them or even one of them

Hanzyxw · Answer

If the girls super expose themselves almost naked then yes

Darcey · Answer

I've seen too many shows and real life men where they're following other girls while in a relationship. I'd be cautious if I were you

LiamJHayden · Answer

Guys who are attached will  notice  pretty girls, but when they go out of their way to follow them that is another thing.

Derrick_hovic · Answer

Instagram is like a virtual relationship, nothing to worry about until it turns into reality. Then my dear, be worried.

Twalli · Answer

It's not that weird to follow or pay attention to attractive girls. There's no problem with it, as long as he doesn't actually interact with them.

007kingifrit · Answer

not worried per say but he shouldn't be on there and neither should you. social media is bad for you and causes emotional problems for women and lust issues for men

surrealmoss · Answer

Unless he's cheating on you following random girls on Instagram isn't a crime and you shouldn't be worried unless the accounts he's following are sexual

Anonymous · Answer

So he likes looking at fake girls. Big deal. Are you fake? No. So you have nothing to worry about.

fonduegirl · Answer

Depends on the kind of content the said girls post

red324 · Answer

He's secretly banging the maid every Tuesday, don't worry about the Instagram girls.

Giggletr0n · Answer

Only if your life revolves around social media and you are MASSIVELY insecure...

DextroShade · Answer

That depends, do you have ANY scantily clad pics on IG and are you able to be DM'ed by dudes on there?

hostboy__fastestlaps · Answer

your boyfriend is a massive cuck if he follows ANY girl that isn't following him back on social media

HelloMyNameizChris · Answer

I think you need to address your feelings about it and try to work with him for a solution. Dont be afraid to mention it

JenniferAllen · Answer

I think it's wrong. are you following the ugly girls? or just beautiful girls. that's the important thing :)

Anonymous · Answer

Why the hell are you stalking your boyfriend that much?

Thanatos777 · Answer

Put up a hot selfie... Make your self up... And be plain Jane around him for like a month... He, ll think your the one searching and find someone else... Problem solved

Jani86 · Answer

I think you should be worried. Sorry. 😅🤔 You should rephrase your thoughts until it is not annoying and nagging but still honest. Also watch your style/ tone.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't have Instagram but I can understand your fears especially with hook up culture these days.

Baseballgem4for4 · Answer

ask him why... why does he want to follow them

walt0462 · Answer

Absolutely nothing to worry about your boyfriend simply just likes what she is posting

Anonymous · Answer

if he’s loyal, don’t do anything. just one thing... follow a bunch of cute guys on instagram 😉 if he knows and doesn’t mind, then there’s nothing to worry about!

Ali55sven · Answer

Look how deluded our societey has come no wonder im still single. lmao

Browneye57 · Answer

They're his backup plan in case you don't work out. What's yours? :)

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