Is it odd that my boyfriend laughs at me when Im upset or crying?

[m0rgan27]

My boyfriend and I are pretty serious but he’s always done this thing when Im upset or crying, he’ll laugh right at me. Like yesterday I was scared on a ride we went on and he laughed at me the whole time (granted he kept telling me “its okay baby”) and I asked him why he always laughs at me and he said Im adorable when Im in distress. I think really just thinks Im cute when Im upset? The one time he laughed at me while I was truly crying he told me he was breaking up with me while I was being super annoying and childish (I dont do that anymore cause I’ve grown mentally). We love and take care of each other, I just wanna know if its weird.

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+1 y

he's 18, we’re both emotionally mature we just think its fun to piss eachother off because well to be frank, making up is fun... He’ll be in the military this coming September and we plan on getting married after I finish college. I really dont think its as deep as everyones making it I was just asking to see if anyone related.

[Anonymous]

My ex did this to me... plenty of times. One of the reasons why i am happy and i feel better without him in my life anymore.

We had a fight. So later (not too long) i called him i was crying because of the reason we fought and i feel seriously bad. I was about to tell him something that made me feel worse too. I had a different problem which made me cry more. When he heard me crying on the phone he just said ure crying? Why? And laughed. I didn't even bother telling him anymore. I was hoping he could make me feel better. And feel sad because of my sadness.
In my mind i was like fuck u I’m trying to open up bye.

They say “how a person reacts to your sadness says a lot on how long they’re going to be in ur life”.

Anyway i did end the call cos i just felt stupid. And became numb i immediately stopped crying that night lol like ok I’m done.

[estoydorado1]

My parents did this a lot when I was a kid. They actually used to upset me to entertain themselves. There's something sadistic about him finding humor in your distress and I'd be watchful of whether he's actually enjoying you and other people's fear or pain.

[Moonchild714]

He's uncomfortable when you're upset so get laughs because he doesn't know what else to do. It's common for teenage boys they are still very Emotionally Immature!!!

[dantetheexplorer]

From the outside looking in, I would think he was immature and doesn't know how to deal with the situation. Which is normal, given your age and assuming he's around your age. If he was in his late 20s or early 30s and beyond, I would find his behavior extremely childish.

[slatyb]

Yes, that's weird and not very nice. He needs to stop thinking of himself and think about comforting you. If he can't do that, then bye-bye.

[winterfox10]

That's not normal... He's insensitive to you, but I don't know if something like that would be worth breaking up over.

[m0rgan27]

We’re both kind of insensitive to eachother, but I think thats just how we work... If we were with anyone else we’d probably hurt their feelings too much.

[winterfox10]

That's not a healthy dynamic at all though... your relationship shouldn't be based on the fact that no one else puts up with your insensitivity towards other people. What you're experiencing now is indicative of that.