Women should pay for half of the bill on the date to be polite and respectful to the date, unless the other party insists on paying for the whole bill.
I think both should pay their own stuff in the first date. That way, not only it's equal, but also no one would feel used to, if there isn't a second date. Once things are a bit more serious, then you can start offering to pay.
I don’t think it’s a bad thing to split the bill. It makes both people feel comfortable and not have to stress about making the expense up to the other person.
If he asked her out, he pays. If she asked him out, she pays. If they got to know each other and decided to go out finally, split it, it might ease some of the nerves.
There’s nothing wrong with that idea if both are mutual about it. Everyones different though. It’s thoughtful when i see a guy pay for my meal first. I’d like to take him out for a treat myself the same day/night or the next and enjoy the time together. Cx
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Women should pay for half of the bill on the date to be polite and respectful to the date, unless the other party insists on paying for the whole bill.
Yeah, Women who ask a guy out should pay for the date.
I believe it should work like this.
If you ask someone out you should pay the bill.
I think both should pay their own stuff in the first date.
That way, not only it's equal, but also no one would feel used to, if there isn't a second date.
Once things are a bit more serious, then you can start offering to pay.
I always pay. I think it's one of those social conventions that shouldn't exist but I support it.
Yeah, the whole 'equals' thing is a joke. If the guy can't pony up for a cocktail or a coffee, then he's not worth your time. NEXT!!
Either the bill is split or whoever asked the other person out pays
I see no problem with each adult paying for themselves
I think it's normal or should be that the bill is split in half
It should be split 50/50 it's a serious mood killer if the guy has to ask her to pay her half.
I don’t think it’s a bad thing to split the bill. It makes both people feel comfortable and not have to stress about making the expense up to the other person.
Whoever asked the other person to go on the date should be the one paying
The person who suggested the date should pay for it. Otherwise it's just "Hey, you should buy me a meal".
I've done it in the past nothing wrong with us paying :)
Well... I wouldn't mind him paying for us both but you never know what someone is going through financially. I don't have a problem paying for my half
I am still old school and believe a man should ask her out and pay for the first date.
They should definitely offer it. But if they are interested in the guy, they should either let him pay or offer that he can pay next time.
If he asked her out, he pays. If she asked him out, she pays. If they got to know each other and decided to go out finally, split it, it might ease some of the nerves.
I think it’s nice when both could pay the bill/ split it together if thats okie with both of them.
There’s nothing wrong with that idea if both are mutual about it. Everyones different though. It’s thoughtful when i see a guy pay for my meal first. I’d like to take him out for a treat myself the same day/night or the next and enjoy the time together. Cx
Nahh, chivalry kind of made a three date rule (men pay for the first three dates).
No lol, Im a little traditional but Id say the woman can pay on other dates, just not the first