Do you think men should always pay on the first date?

[nomadme]

Gentleman-ship? But where is equality?

[Pinay_ako]

No depends on who asked who out. Or we can simply pay separately … I don’t mind

[nomadme]

So, the asker pays?

[Pinay_ako]

🤔 nah I’d rather pay for myself 😂 regardless who asked. That makes it awkward if the other person expects you to pay for theirs too and they asked you out…

[nomadme]

Why would you have a problem to pay if they asked you out?

[Pinay_ako]

I don’t have a problem at all. Just don’t expect me to pay for your food too. I’d rather just eat in peace and enjoy the date than think about that. That complicates the situation when it’s really nothing

[Blackcosmo]

I would pay but it's really sweet if he offers to pay. I won't accept because I don't like pushing my responsibilities on to people.

[nomadme]

That is indeed nice to hear.

[LazerBean]

I'm traditional, so I will pay for myself if he wants, I just won't go on a date with him again if that happens.

[Blackcupcake]

I don’t really care, I can pay my share that’s not really a big deal… but a stingy dude is low-key a turnoff lol

[nomadme]

Why is it a stingy dude and not a stingy woman?

[Blackcupcake]

still speaking for me personally, I wouldn’t go on a date with someone I know I won’t like… so if we go on a date, and he pays once, then ofc I would pay other times as well. for me, if we’re dating, it doesn’t really matter who pays as long as we both do our part. however, if he wants to split… sure we could do that, but it’s odd to me… lol and I don’t like it

[LimitedBenefits101]

We don't live in 1950s...

50-50

women are independent remember

[nomadme]

Yes, they are.

[AssholeNumberOne]

It's up to the couple. 🙂

[nomadme]

What about you?

[AssholeNumberOne]

Me?
Hell nah. It's always a split bill on the first date. I don't want no favors

[nomadme]

Are you actually 15?

[NathanDavis]

I don't care either way it goes

[leighbee]

No equal split

[Anonymous]

No I don’t

[nomadme]

Have you ever had a man pay for you then?

[Opinion Owner]

I haven’t been on a date

[nomadme]

You don't like dating?

[Opinion Owner]

No I just haven’t been asked on a date

[nomadme]

Is there someone you like?

[Opinion Owner]

Not at the moment

[nomadme]

Enjoying the solitude?

[Opinion Owner]

I enjoy my own company. But sometimes I see my friends with their boyfriends and it makes me feel lonely.

[nomadme]

Perhaps, you may give texting me a try.

[Opinion Owner]

I appreciate the offer but I tend to steer away from online friendships 🙂

[nomadme]

We all have our quirks.