No one replied to this? Hmm.This reply is well stated. It's pithy, so I learned something from every sentence I read. I really liked the comment, ".. them loving you feels like a privilege..." And doesn't it though? And little does one know that the love you hold in such high esteem; their love for you which is at once tenuous and fragile, yet also a source of great psychic power, is cheap to them--yes, that love, which has brought about nothing less than the complete perfection of your soul, is cheap and in great abundance! Indeed, once this fact becomes learned, the union of both personas is spiritually complete.
@Anoynomous I feel like almost every word is describing my bestie/crush and I. I know what we have is crazy and special, but I just couldn't ever really put it accurately into words before.
Some of us had non social childhoods and learned from extremely disfunctional parental relationships and behaviors. We've repressed our emotions down so far in order to not be hurt that we feel numb to good things happening to us as well. It's helpful to talk about it. FFS we want to be happy but opening up and connecting takes practice.
It SHOULD be simple but as @Spahija wrote it is not always. There is a reason that "signs a girl/boy is interested in you" floods the social media.
@Spahija believe me when I say that I know a thing or two about growing up in dysfunctional environments.
according to this, i would be in a relationship with my best female friend...
You probably could! At the end of the day, what is a friend but someone who you love but you couldn't or wouldn't bang? My best friend is a guy, great guy, love that dude, but I would definitely pass on a night with him.
we did have a conversqtion about it and she said no.
Mmh, I feel your pain. See, she feels chimstry with you, but for whatever reason you don't turn her on
well duh i have no intention of tuning her on. she said no, i accepted it and didn't bring it up again
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sex has nothing to do with hit. sex is just like lust
@kitty71 incorrect. Valuing sex to list is why we have so many problems. They aren't the same, but are sadly being treated like they are
That is not to have a romantic chemistry with someone that is just LUST, anything romantic about that at all
What she said 👆😂