Why is it so hard to find a good woman these days?

[BraveHeart97]

I can’t seem to find one woman who wants a serious relationship and it seems like most women these days just want to play games and cheat. I don’t think I want to struggle looking for love anymore. Why is it so hard to find a good woman?

[seveninchmeat]

It's not like girls are the only ones who cheat, but those who just wanna fuck should fuck, and people who wanna go to brunch in public, meet other peoples parents and tell each other how to dress can do that. The only way we can achieve this is by talking about it so it won't be such a taboo, so the fact that mostly what I want in a partner is waifu with a nice thigh gap who doesn't make me try veganfood, scented candles or watch "how to lose a guy in 10 day". But even I dream of having a real conversation with a smart giving and funny girl who brings the best sides out of myself. And I don't think any age or culture could ever change that.

[jsdfreedom]

Because modern people suck... both men and women. People have become so selfish and lazy and no one puts forth any real effort at anything because everything, including people, are "replaceable".

Now I'll ask... why bother anymore? If you can truly accept in your heart that you do not need a woman in your life to be happy, and can learn to love yourself in your own skin and freedom... then you have found the true secret to happiness.

And if "she" comes along out of the blue, and you weren't stressing about finding her and can be a better partner. Or, not... but you'd be happy either way.

[KaylaW1]

I strongly disagree with your opinion - maybe you have only found this type of girl in your life, but this does not mean that good women exist. You need to communicate more and ask direct questions like: what are you looking right now : a serious relationship or not. And if she said yes - then continue to meet/talk with her. At the other side - you also need to be honest that you are only looking for a serious relationship.

[BraveHeart97]

I shouldn’t have to ask. If she agreed to be in a relationship with me, then she has to be committed. But women don’t want to commit. They just want to play games and cheat.

[Kacik]

I could ask the same about men - when they´re with someone who cares about them, doesn't make scenes, makes them happy/satisfied, have a lot of incommon, can have a sensible conversation with, great sex, isn't clingy, doesn't cheat and they dont appreciate it, preferring a bitch?

[Anonymous]

In my opinion, these days women loves guys with money in his pocket. They don't looking for your love but your money.

[taleswapper]

Because you are looking in the wrong places, or for the wrong things, or using the wrong bait. To be blunt, why would a "good" woman choose you? What do you bring to the relationship, and how do you overcome your shortcomings? What makes you a desirable partner?

Let's look at how you define "good." IT's pretty subjective, actually. You may very well know any number of "good" single women right now...

[Ulyss]

Honestly if you want some advice, try to find someone with hobbies that isn’t instagram or netflix. I am starting to hate dating because everyone is a carbon copy of themselves. Hiking/Disney/Netflix/Instagram etc.

[Deuteros]

Wait until you turn 40, you will get lots of attention from women who hit the wall. Unfortunately misthave been through the bad boy phase and are carrying STDs. Now they are looking for a man with money to pay for the three kids baby daddies left.

[jessture]

Women are drunk with the options they have in their 20s

[Dchrls78104]

“Wickedness is popular, So evil people are everywhere. "-Read Psalm 12:8.

[dwiller943]

Because good people are rare.

[Anonymous]

It's hard to find good PEOPLE these days.