He stopped watching all my instagram Stories?

[Anonymous]

I know this is a stupid question. But I had a crush on this older guy. I think he liked me too. He was always flirtying with me saying we were meant to be. He always asked me out but never had the balls to go out with me. Im not sure if its because he had gotten out of a relationship of 7yrs. Maybe but I really did like. He claims that I was such a nice person etc. Then one day he kinda disappeared. It broke my heart I cried for days & was worried. I tried to reach out to him. Turns out he had a family emergency & besides he was going through a rough time. He said all kinds of things like thank you for caring about me & i attempted to call him he never answered me. This completely broke me. Before he would watch my insta storied all the time & he would recall everything even from months prior. Then after we lost touch he never saw my insta stories again. I apsp commented on a friends post & he fucking liked it. Yet he never watches my post or anything. He is active. Does he hate me or what?

[erinmarsbar]

No, perhaps he just doesn't feel it would work out or he found someone who suits him better. I also think he liked you a lot, but did exaggerate. With very few exceptions, people exaggerate when in the courting phase. I mean, wouldn't you try to say all the right things for a school or job interview? You put your best foot forward. Welcome to the real world.

[Jan_Classic]

He does have another woman. Well he had no balls or intention to go out with you, not much can be done. Maybe if you completely change your look and style he can notice that, but if the spark doesn't burn = don't rub it. Especially for girls, it's a guys job to conquer females, not vice versa.