Most Helpful Girls
Yes. Looks matter to me. I find attraction being the line between friendship and a romantic interest. If I see someone as a friend, it's because I'm not attracted to them, but I like their personality. If I see someone as a potential romantic interest, it's because I find them attractive and want to know if I like their personality.
"But there is also the option of meeting a friend that is physically unattractive but falling in love with their personality and their unnattractive features fading away (thats happened to me)."
^ This is everything that people who say "lools matter, don't lie" won't ever understand. Attractiveness is actually a mental stimulation. Sure you'd visually cpuld be appealing, but if you open your mouth and say the grossest or dumbest thing ever, your mind has the ability to mentally make you think that person even LOOKS bad after a second thought. Since some may still not get this, let me use an extremely harsh example: (don't get triggered people, im purposely using something extreme). Lets say a guy (or girl even) rapes a girl (or guy) after she thought he was physically cute. After the experience, the next time she sees him (or her), 10/10 her mind would of made her find him visually unappealing too. Because mental stimulation trumps any form of physical attraction. This applies to small daily scenarios where if a girl is hot but opens her mouth and says the dumbest bitchiest shit ever, she'll also bece unattractive to a guy's mind too. Or any similar case.
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Most Helpful Guy
Looks are a plus. If she is interesting and seems to have a good personality, I'd be willing to meet up with her even if I had no idea what she looks like.