Should I return the car my ex boyfriend bought me after we broke up? (Page 3)
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Cause i think he even love her so he didn't ask her to return
and even she has a good opinion on him so she wants to return him back
And if there is any chance for a conservation may be they both can again get closer as before.
I think asking his opinion and having a conservation is good
I think it's best since it was never yours in the first place and he needs it back so can sell or give it to another girlfriend but odds are he will let you keep it and I have a question for you would you rather have him back and have the car too? If so I suggest to talk through you're issue and fight back to have your relationship to get back on track because why are you willing to compromise your relationship and your car for a stupid mistake? Answer me back if you are interested.
I could care less if I don't get a response from this shit!
Who's name the car registered under? If it's your name, there you have it and enjoy. If it's his name, give it back or he will bring you some serious headaches.
You should definitely talk to him and ask him if he wants it back and also, ask yourself, given the circumstances and causes of the breakup, if you were the one who. gave him a car then would you want it back or would you want him to keep it...
a gift is yours to keep while I see where you are comming from I dont think you should give it back just because its something expensive. He gave it to you as a gift
Thats a talk you need to have with him. If he paid for it outright and then gave it to you, it is technically yours, but if his name is on the title there could be legal matters brought in
If it was truly a gift and in your name then no need to return an actual gift but if his name is on it then you will need him to transfer things over but if that’s the case then I would probably just give it back unless the break up was amicable and he still wants you to have it
Maybe you should just check the glove compartment and see who it’s registered and insured under also when it expires, something people should know while using a car regardless
Transfer everything over into your name before things expire if he is letting you have it
I took nothing from my ex. husband (mine or his stuff or our stuff).
He gave me the rings, I still have now.
If its not yours, you tell him and give back. If he insisted that you keep it. then its up to you want you want to do with it.
Can we talk privately?
@richmondali1 sure I just followed u
although if it was a gift and already paid for I dont see why you can't keep it... after all did he return ALL the gifts he gave you?
Chat to him. At least then you have given him the option & he knows you aren’t presuming you get to keep it!
He was stupid enough to gift his girlfriend a car? LOL WUT? what in the hell. If I was ever stupid enough to do something like that, I can't help thinking that maybe a part of me needs to learn a harsh lesson.
Personally if he bought it for me then it's my property, not to be rude but I've bought guys things before and never got it back in similar situations.
Are u talking about u brought guys something small or big like a car
is the car in his name? do you pay on the car or is it paid?
if the car is paid off fine. if the car is in his name, then you're driving a stolen vehicle.
after your update i chose : I’d talk to him and ask for his opinion on whether he wants it back
I think a gift is a gift, you have no obligation to return it. HOWEVER if the car is legally titled with his name, return it. If you feel uneasy about this I guess you should talk to him about this and ask what he thinks about this.
I certainly would have asked about it if someone just up and bought me a car of all things, but good for you.
If it’s an ex best hand it back, why keep something to remind you of a failed relationship
I don’t consider it a failed relationship
I think that would be the decent thing to do in this situation, even if he insists on you keeping it. That's what I'd do.
Is the car title in his name? If it is return the car and have a face to face talk with him. Only he can say what he wants to do with the car.
Good deal. I know you feel better now but make sure the car is in your name not his otherwise he can legally take it back at any time.
If it was a gift, there’s no reason why you should return it. However if you feel guilty, bathe you could pay him back 25-50% for it. I’m sure he would appreciate that. But I don’t really see that it’s necessary as it was a gift
It was a gift and I think you should keep. If you ended in good terms there is no reason to give it back unless he asks for it