Would you date a person with HIV? (Page 2)
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Hmmmm, not really though. Just the thought would honestly bother me. Cos you`d wanna be soooo careful, when you actually shouldn`t, cos only by having intercourse can you get infected. But still, just the thought.
Probably not and I've actually tried. She wasn't even grateful that anyone would consider dating her. Having HIV doesn't make the person a good guy/girl over night. They most likely got it because they ain't shit.
AIDS doesn't show up from nowhere so it gonna make me wonder some questions about this person past behavior... but obviously it is mainly a dealbreaker for me.
No... because I don't want to get it and I certainly wouldn't want to pass it down to any future children. Besides, it would be too sad dating someone that you know will probably die in a few years or so.
Dating a HIV Aladeen person would be a major torn-off for me.
Im sorry but no. I mean we can be friends that’s it.
Aw don’t show them this post! They’ll find someone I’m sure
LMFAO would you be proud enough of you view to post on this on facebook or twitter?
My view remains
what about your racial/physical hangups? do you agree with cuba in quarantining people for treatable diseases?
being narrow minded and grouping people by factors without getting to know them is fine, i'd find it very respectable if you go up to people with aids and tell them "you're nothing more than a friend because you're disease prevents me from having feelings, even if you contracted it as a baby or if you raped". I respect honestly ignorant people.
can you list what deseases are acceptable to have and at what point in the dating do you ask for the their health history?
Honestly I’m not being ignorant or narrow minded I’m being real when we’re talking about my health at risk shit gets real. I said my opinion. If a person told me about their hiv status being positive I have the right to choose not to date them after without being guilt tripped.
As if it's impossible to have safe sex with hiv. Maybe you had poor health education, I'm sorry.
Yeah I'm glad you open, but then why not opening tell all people with hiv to get the fuck out?
You told the asker "aw don't show them this post" why?
It’s not I just don’t want to have sex with someone that has HIV sorry if your having a hard time grasping my decision. And I said that because everyone was saying No and that’s not the majority of people it’s just this site honestly a lot of people don’t have the same opinion as me so it’s very possible he or she can find someone that would be open to that.
I’m not saying it to hide the fact I’m saying it because it’s not a true survey with thousands of people it’s not accurate.
I have NO issue that you hate hiv infected people, but why not show it to her so they never approach you?
Ah you’re twisting my words to fit your needs. I do not hate anyone. I have worked with people that have HIV it doesn’t phase me or make me treat them differently my sexual preference is not a negotiation I said what I said.
I can’t tell who does and doesn’t have it so at this point your trying to argue and it’s getting old you keep twisting shit you think what you want to think. I said wtf I said
Should HIV positive people stay away so they don't offend people like you who feel they have no value as lovers? Like you said, the Majority of human do not want them.
Bye lol
I'm confused
Why shouldn't every HIV person read this post so they feel unwanted and know their place
Armourdillo I feel like your offended by the people that say no they won't date someone knowing they have HIV. So I need to ask, do you or someone close to you have HIV which makes this a touchy subject matter for you? I mean I'm not here to judge people for their feeling or opinions. You just seem like you have a close connection to the matter.
No, it's just the reasoning they give is so ignorant. And then this woman wants to say "people with HIV cannt be loved, just freinds" then says "oh no don't show them this!" Like why not not at be be consistent
Like I have more respect for someone who doesn't try to play both sides to save face
It's FINE to not want to date someone with HIV. But when they go e shit reasoning like that other girls who said "condoms condoms condoms" she then doesn't believe in condoms because they thinks she'll get hiv even with a condom but shames others who may have gotten it not from unprotected sex
I understand your point but one thing nobody here knew was my friend that wrote this is one who boyfriend cheated and got ot giving it to him and 2 other not knowing he had it. The person who profile it's on boyfriend got raped by a man and caught it. We asked this to see what people would say. For us this was a social experiment to see how people react to this question. Many females apologize while saying no. The men on the other hand said no with no remorse or compassion for the person. Not everyone gets it that it is not a disease but more of a virus that attacks your immune system. It is not easy for someone to live with this when you have so many people judging you for something unexpected. Many people that have it suffer from depression cause of what society makes them think. Honestly one of my friends just tried to kill himself cause he couldn't handle the drama of being around people judging him for having friends that had it. You never know who ypur words affect.
Exactly, it wrecks me that women are the ones who love parading around that all men a shallow fucks, when they're the ones who lack compassion
Not all women, but the ones who commented
Sorry, but I wouldn't. I don't want to risk my health and possibly get HIV too.
They have meds that prevent it from being given to someone else and medications to prevent you from Catching it from someone who has it.
I know, but there's a small risk of catching it regardless of the medicines.
True but I recommend you watch a movie called 25 to Life on Netflix. Is the real life story of my pastor who has been living with HIV for the last 38 years now. He did the video a few years ago.
Not only no but hell no.. I dont want a death sentence.
I wouldn't. But they might be able to find someone in the same predicament.
If I find out after we're together... I guess I'd stay and be extra careful. However if I already know before getting in a relationship, I think no.
So they get less points for being honest. lol
@Armourdillo He could be still honest but find later on that they have the virus. If I can choose, I choose not to date an HIV positive.
So would you recommend how positive people not be straightforward?
Nope. Don't care about anything else at that point, it is an instant deal breaker.
Sorry, nothing against anyone who has it but, I have seen what others go through not worth it.
Nah. I'm not paying for their mistake same way i wouldn't expect them to pay for mine
They are the same as everybody else. Plenty of people have health problems, this one is stigmatised.
No. I'm open to most a lot of things, but something like HIV is a bit overboard for me.
Call me whatever you want, but I would not knowingly date anyone with an incurable infectious disease.
I just can't endanger myself for someone like that. If I had HIV already then sure, but I'm not getting that.
If I found out my man has Hiv , I wouldn't care. Damn. He can have any virus. I dont mind being infected by him.
HIV is nothing? ↗
You can get plenty of deseases and dont know about having them. So leaving someone because they got sick its ok? For me its not. So have your own opinion. Mine doesn't change
when did i say leave your man
if anything let him know the herbs can heal him lol
So when he nuts in u, gives u the disease and then leaves u, what r u gonna do the
@Highsxhoolstudent15
hahahaha just alkalize the body and she will be fine
so will he
HIV is nothing
HIV is nothing? ↗
Shut up old man
@Highsxhoolstudent15
she thinks im 50 lol
ohh hun im a lot younger then you think
you would probably love this dick lol
No thank you
Thats honestly sick.
Guess who dropped out of school in the 5th grade?
THIS GIRL RIGHT HERE!☝️😷
Obviously not. What the fuck kind of question is this?
Yeah cause this is the current year and not liking the prospect of dying puking and emaciated is being a genuine Schnitzelnazi