My boyfriends ex won’t stop texting him! What should I do? (Page 3)

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So in short, my boyfriends ex keeps trying to call and text him, she’s previously invited him out. My problem is that my boyfriend won’t tell her to stop, yesterday she called and I asked him to call her back, see what she wants and tell her that he’s in a relationship now so stop contacting him, but he refused. He was so against it. They didn’t even properly date, more of just had hook ups and sex. In the end my boyfriend blocked her but I’m so annoyed that he’s refusing to tell her to stop, I feel like she won’t stop unless he tells her too. Am I being unreasonable? My boyfriend just laughed it off yesterday when she called and said that I was being out of order for having the hump.  Am I being unreasonable? I don’t see why he can’t just tell her to stop, and why he can’t do it in front of me.

zuluowl1234 · Answer

Put a stop to this as I went though the same thing and it led to her cheating on me as she said they was just friends but ended up sleeping with them as they haven't got anythink to lose so stop it now before you lose your boyfriend.

Ravan1997 · Answer

She is doing whatever she wants to do. You can't stop her but you can carry your efforts to win his heart by taking care of small things which are important to him and always try to be Happy.
In this way you can win his heart.

11dog22 · Answer

Tell her to block him. Or ask why the heck you still talking to the guy who beats you!

loveslongnails · Answer

All of your social media angst and bullshit is just that... bullshit. Learn how to talk face to face. This is bullshit.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like he wants to keep the contact. If he did respect your opinion, he would have cut it off before he even started pursuing you, if he was serious about the relationship. You are not being unreasonable. Leave him and find someone who will respect your wishes

realperson02 · Answer

Can you just call off the relationship. I don't think either of you two are ready for a relationship. Sorry to tell you this.

master_shaggswell · Answer

I would talk to her directly and depending on your attitude and inhibition. Either make him choose or ask him to join the both of you. Call his bluff in other words

boomboomtown01 · Answer

well you need to make up your mind if this is a deal breaker or not. then put it down in clear terms and ask him to come clean.  if not and he is wishy washy i would start thinking of moving on..

OfDeath · Answer

I think you know what must be done...

Snakeyes7 · Answer

His ex is ruining the relationship, force him to block her or end the relationship with him. If she strikes the right nerves, he might end up going back to her. Get here outta there.

jane3224 · Answer

the only reason he is doing this in front of you is that he wants to loose you. Because if he knows that doing this hurts you well it either means that he doesn't care about your feelings or he is just trying to find a way of getting rid of you.

danielmeegan · Answer

Inconsiderate childish selfish littel dick momma boy Correct or not?

AdoredUK · Answer

Perhaps your boyfriend is loving the attention he is getting but he is playing a dangerous game.

Nina12346 · Answer

He's probably cheating on you, if he can't respect you then you should probably leave him.

Marinepilot · Answer

Demand that he block her or dump his ass. He's disrespecting you and you deserve so much better.

nightmarejn · Answer

Sounds like he still has some kind of feeling for her. He still loved u. But he still have some attachment to her. I was in his shoes and finally I realized I had something better.. they are exs for a reason.

lillz10 · Answer

Dump him, move on and find someone that deserves you

MeauxJoMan · Answer

You're right and he's wrong. If he truly loves you it is a simple request you've made.

Gottabsavagee · Answer

You can’t force him. If he will want to he will block her himself.

HHunk33 · Answer

If you show frustration and anger it will be detrimental for u. All u should do is ignore that scene. And create more time for you and your boyfriend.

Sujin95 · Answer

he is keeping her, don’t you see? they didn’t have proper relationship and he is still down for hook up

wagz89 · Answer

Nope. You're not being unreasonable. He's clearly still hitting that 🤷🏽‍♂️

garth89 · Answer

Not at all unreasonable... In fact that sounds like some shady stuff and wouldn't trust that dude at all

Gedaria · Answer

For me I would be thinking if he want to be with her ,, if he does drop him life too short for a guy that cannot make up his mind !!!

Mothon77 · Answer

Honestly I never been in a relationship, but I think you’re not unreasonable. If I was in your position I would do the same thing.

arun934 · Answer

He don't want to hurt her. Say how you are feeling about his ex.

Therisinghero12 · Answer

Call me gullible but I let my partner have friends and expect them to let me do the same, as long as they stay only friends and there is total honesty and transparency with anything that goes down.

Mitchbitten · Answer

Get her number invite her out and do things with her, humour me here how many people's ex's really stick around when they get befriended by the ex's new other half? just saying

AnkKumar · Answer

Tell your boy friend clearly to leave her ex girlfriend as it is ruining your love life and creating problems. Ask him to choose between ex girlfriend or you. And still after he doesn't listen you then you should better leave him.

icemann · Answer

there a reason she is text because he texts back otherwise she just crazy and mostly like a potential stalker in either case what does your boyfriend claim because if he's not texting and he is faithful to you maybe suggest a restraining order

opurba · Answer

Nothing, from text nothing happened unless he meets her.

xjxssica · Answer

he’s not telling her to stop bc there’s still something there, remove yourself from the situation

emiliac1233 · Answer

Ur not being unreasonable.. I would sit down with him and have a talk.. Tell him that it makes u feel uncomfortable and that u wish for him to tell her to move past their relationship.. If he truly cares for you he will do that

MouthfulofDiamonds · Answer

Well maybe u ought to pass this exs' # out to a few of your closest friends & have them make a few suggestions to this girl wink wink

YoGuyLogan2003 · Answer

Find another guy and have him text you and don't tell him to stop to see how your boyfriend likes it.

LuWe22 · Answer

His Ex should have no contact to him. Why does she still thinks it is okay? Seems like your boyfriend don't give her the right signals

culinaryqueen · Answer

Maybe he still has feelings for her and doesn't want to hurt her. He may love you but chances are he still doesn't want to hurt her feelings

evo9tech · Answer

If you have to struggle that hard to get him to stop then it's not worth it. Sounds like he's still into her

KhoryESM · Answer

Take his phone and destroy it or delete her number from his phone or both of you could go talk to her in person

Historylover18 · Answer

Dump him he clearly isn't into committment, but you are wanting committment from him. You deserve better

4cparkin · Answer

in my opinion i dont see how your being unreasonable. its not right that he should be in contact with his EX GIRLFRIEND so much. you deserve better. a lot better.

Andrew2128 · Answer

Change your phone number and if you want to go to extremes you could get him for stocking

SGL69 · Answer

You're not being unreasonable. He should tell her it's over.

kishan09 · Answer

Best thing you can do is sit down all 3 of you and talk. What exactly you, he and she wants

Hiram · Answer

Tell your boyfriend to block his ex on the phone if he does not block her then you block him.

Anonymous · Answer

I think you should ask him about it, they're just friends... then leave it alone. She's his ex, she might have been a big part of his life at some point

femalepretzelmaker · Answer

Wow he refused that right there was so disrespectful

NotATherapistButITry · Answer

I think that blocking her is fine, as long as that blocks all of the communication

Dionigi · Answer

Maybe He doesn't even want to speak to her about anything. Maybe he doesn't even want to think about her

hazyhazy · Answer

He wants both the booties. Typical of men Trust me Lol

robroy76 · Answer

Have him change his number, or he needs to decide who's he in a "serious relationship" with an he needs to convince you.

immortaldolphin · Answer

Well, why should he stop contacting his ex? Maybe they are friends? As long as he doesn't lie and cheat on you it's fine.

Patricku12 · Answer

My thought is tell him to block her# and if he continues this correspondence then you go find an honest guy to love, you are worth it and tell him he's no good in bed! Patrick

Anonymous · Answer

No what should he do? He should tell her to stop, focus on you and block her. Tell him how you feel about it.

rickytim · Answer

That's great he done that before it got bad situation

SketchForger · Answer

As long as nothing happens then it's only his problem.

minded62 · Answer

Its either he wants more or he just doesn't want to make a bid deal over it

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Give that bitch a cunt punt... or just scare her away by asking if she's down with a 3 way

TonyWilliams · Answer

I would be straight forward with my boy friend and ask him to talk to her about stopping that

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

He's still hanging out with her and if he can't respect your wishes then you need to move on

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