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My boyfriends ex won’t stop texting him! What should I do? (Page 4)
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Beware. My ex girlfriend's ex boyfriend kept calling her. Her excuse? They raised a family together. The kids weren't even his. I'm single now. Easier than competing with someone's ex. Another excuse? They weren't "doing anything." But I'd rather she fuck him and get it over with or go back to him rather than this side relationship. I obviously wasn't good enough.
He should block her number from everything and that should stop it. If he won't block her number then he's a piece of shit. He should have done that anyway. Just out of respect for you. If he don't, he might not be finished with her. You can't trust someone who isn't loyal and respectful to you.
He's still taking her to pound town. It's all going to end bad. You should be his world, his everything and if he's not treating you like that, he's not. He probably don't want a future with you. I'm sorry to say a thing like this, if he won't do anything to stop her, he must not give a fuck about your feelings. it's all about being loyal and being loved.
First blocking her means nothing, that can be turned on and off at anytime. Second and you may not like this part, he is either still having his hookups or has her on stand by.
I am baffled by how insecure society has become. He he steps out on him the tell him to beat feet and try again next time. At least you'll learn who he is early. I think all of you on here need to stay out of relationships till you get some confidence. Haha
Unless he’s given you reason to distrust him, You are being unreasonable and insecure. Your boyfriend probably won’t tell her to stop so this ex won’t think you are insecure. In a way, he’s protecting your honor.
If this guy is showing signs of disloyalty then it is probably best to move on. Can't say for certain but it is very possible he is still connecting with her for an under the table affair or just as a backup.
very much this. X
Well you definitely aren't being unreasonable, but the way it sounds i think he might wanna cheat on you with her or still be with her or something. Thats the best reason i can come up with as to why he wouldn't say that to her
You need to dump him. They are still messing around with each other. And she obviously doesn't know about you. Or she just doesn't care. He doesn't want to be in a relationship. He just wants you for his needs. Both of you are getting played.
Text her back and be nice and say please dont text ever again or we will be sending the police to your home and they will have a word with you and tell her she can be put in jail for all that texting and this is her last chance tell her that you both have all her texts and you will be showing them to the police and l bet she will stop texting
I think you should raise your standards. You are allowing this situation to go on. If it was my girlfriend, she would do that once. The second time, she'll be single or at least not with me. But in the end you have to decide how much that bothers you. Clearly not enough since you are still with him. I believe that once you make you stand, you'll know how much your really is into you. This is not like he didn't replace the toilet paper. He's 100% still seeing his ex.
If he ain’t taking it seriously and laughed it off after all that then he’s probably not serious with keeping you around hunny, so kick that ass to the curb cause he’s obviously got another bed to go to, and you gotta make sure he ain’t shittin in yours anymore 👏🏻👏🏻
I'm sure he has told her but she's not listening. I'm sure it is quite unsettling for you as well. Give it some time to go away. She's trying to get to you so the more you make out of it means she's winning. At some point she should stop if not he should block her as much as possible.
Hmmm! First of all you're not being unreasonable, it's just normal for you to react that way, however it is never a good thing for an ex coming back and bugging around in a new relationship. He should better man up and ask her to stop before it becomes something else, at least if he cares about you he should act like such and stop hanging out or exchanging with his ex.
Unreasonable? Yes kinda. His relationship with others isn't you're concern. That stated, you already have issues with trust here and there is no coming back from that really. Once you don't trust the person you are with. A strong relationship isn't possible really.
How is this even unreasonable. She’s an ex girlfriend... move past it. He shouldn’t even be allowing her to contact him!!!
It's unreasonable to assume you have any say in the rights or privacy of others or to have a say in their relationships with other people. As for if he should be allowing her to contact him perhaps he has a reason to care about her still. Either way as I said previously this relatonship is already in a bad position because of lack of trust. Note that I am not saying it is unwarranted. The lack of trust is completely valid but the expectation is not. You can be completely valid in your reasons for not trusting him while also being wrong in your expectation of control.
he's not respecting you. He should have no problem telling her to stop contacting him if he was serious about you guys relationship, keep your eyes out for him.
don’t worry. you aren’t being unreasonable. it is human nature to feel this way. you’re trying to make sure your boyfriend remains loyal to you. like someone else said, it’s kinda a red flag that he wasn’t telling her to stop contacting him. i may be wrong, but seems like he likes the attention. i’m getting side chick vibes. i’m sorry this is happening, so shitty girl
NO attention. The less attention she gets, the less she'll care.
Or let your boyfriend play double agent. He has more power over her than you do so he could bring her down.
Let him go out with her a few times and then cut her down.
Obviously don't let him cheat on you, whatever you do.
And be patient, don't lose your temper. You might scare him off.
I think if he really loves you and he saw you mad from this girl he would immediatly block her and never talked to her again or answer her.. He would be sad if he saw you sad or mad and would do anything to make you happy.. Thats what i would do :p
This is not about you
No perfectly stable couple would react the way he is. Im sorry, love, but he's keeping her as a backup. He thinks of he ends the calling with her, he won't have a back-up fuck buddy if/when he ends things with you or when you to him.
You need a better man.
I would want to talk to my significant other about it. It may very well be that they are still friends even if you're together. I would proceed by talking to his ex in person so you know with whom you're dealing with. If you (still) can't accept that, tell him that and hope that he respects that or shows more transparency by telling you what they have been talking about. Honesty is important in a relationship.