I wouldn't trust him. If it wasn't a proper relationship, he probably didn't even end it before starting something with you. That's why he was delaying telling her to leave him alone. I wouldve abandoned ship.
Texting your Ex while your in a relationship with somekne else for whatever reason is really idiotic unless the breakup was mutual and they remained friends.
If you keep trying to control him it'll only lead him into her arms and possibly between her legs. If he leaves you, he leaves you. It just means he was never really right for you in the first place
As you describe it no it does not found unreasonable It seems like he may be trying to keep his options open perhaps he is not happy with or confident in your relationship?
Your approach is absolutely correct. You should be a bit more strong and make your guy tell his ex that he's in a relationship and so don't try to call him hoping things will patch up just like that. by the way, this act will also reflect how much your boyfriend is committed in the relationship with you.
Christmas is coming up. Get him a new sim card and £20 top up voucher. If she is still texting him after that, you know there is more to the story!!! That is, he gave her the new number.
Dont give him an ultimatum because it never works out well for those that do but it make be time to give him a little taste of his own medicine if he's unwilling to put himself in your shoes. Have some guy you know start calling, texting, posting on your social media and when he notices it just brush it off like you haven't even noticed it. Continue til he offers to get rid of her if you stop talking to him.
Ask him to just go no contact. If it worsens ask him to change his phone number. If he won't do either. Then you both need to talk it over calmly to set boundaries. Exes are exes for a reason. If the both of you are really into each other, the boundaries talk will help the both of you strengthen your relationship.
I had a similar situation with my boyfriend and his ex but fortunately he told her to stop contacting him. Tell him how you feel about and make it completely clear
Uhm I think the best thing you can do in this situation is talking to him about how you feel about it and try to get an answer out of it that the both of you agree with. It'll make the both of you stronger. Good luck♡
I feel ya boyfriend is also interested in her. That's the reason he is not willing to tell her. Spy on him if he is having an affair with her. If so screw him and Chuck dat ass or else deal smart by not fighting but using physically. Like how other girls do.
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Sounds like you have a boyfriend who is afraid to 'cut ties' with them even if it could meaning hurting ties with you. If the roles were reversed im sure he'd be the same way.
If I'm uncomfortable with it my boyfriend would need to respect that. It's either me or her and if he continued to speak to someone I wasn't comfortable with him speaking with then I would tell him its obvious your friend or ex is more important than your GIRLFRIENDS feelings. He should respect you if he doesn't then thats sketchy and shady.
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I wouldn't trust him. If it wasn't a proper relationship, he probably didn't even end it before starting something with you. That's why he was delaying telling her to leave him alone. I wouldve abandoned ship.
I want talk with u
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Texting your Ex while your in a relationship with somekne else for whatever reason is really idiotic unless the breakup was mutual and they remained friends.
It destroyed my relationship. Her ex boyfriend (and his wife) can have her.
If you keep trying to control him it'll only lead him into her arms and possibly between her legs. If he leaves you, he leaves you. It just means he was never really right for you in the first place
As you describe it no it does not found unreasonable
It seems like he may be trying to keep his options open perhaps he is not happy with or confident in your relationship?
Your approach is absolutely correct. You should be a bit more strong and make your guy tell his ex that he's in a relationship and so don't try to call him hoping things will patch up just like that. by the way, this act will also reflect how much your boyfriend is committed in the relationship with you.
Best Of Luck!
He is being unreasonable. Your relationships are incompatible with each other and he should cut her out..., you should cut him out.
I can’t believe someone would even thumbs this down
That's what I thought!
I would introduce yourself to her and tag along. You might learn something about your man. if you show up, she will likely back off.
Christmas is coming up. Get him a new sim card and £20 top up voucher.
If she is still texting him after that, you know there is more to the story!!!
That is, he gave her the new number.
Dont give him an ultimatum because it never works out well for those that do but it make be time to give him a little taste of his own medicine if he's unwilling to put himself in your shoes. Have some guy you know start calling, texting, posting on your social media and when he notices it just brush it off like you haven't even noticed it. Continue til he offers to get rid of her if you stop talking to him.
Ask him to just go no contact. If it worsens ask him to change his phone number. If he won't do either. Then you both need to talk it over calmly to set boundaries. Exes are exes for a reason. If the both of you are really into each other, the boundaries talk will help the both of you strengthen your relationship.
I had a similar situation with my boyfriend and his ex but fortunately he told her to stop contacting him. Tell him how you feel about and make it completely clear
Uhm I think the best thing you can do in this situation is talking to him about how you feel about it and try to get an answer out of it that the both of you agree with. It'll make the both of you stronger. Good luck♡
I feel ya boyfriend is also interested in her. That's the reason he is not willing to tell her. Spy on him if he is having an affair with her. If so screw him and Chuck dat ass or else deal smart by not fighting but using physically. Like how other girls do.
Thank God for you using Dr. Lawrence to bring back my husband who left as a result of unable to give him a baby for marriage of 15 years and now he is back saying that children come from God that he will be patient with me and all this happen since i contacted the powerful spell caster and he is very nice and also genuine in his work contact him on: drlawrencespelltemple@gmail. com or his Whatsaap number +19142088349
Sounds like you have a boyfriend who is afraid to 'cut ties' with them even if it could meaning hurting ties with you. If the roles were reversed im sure he'd be the same way.
If I'm uncomfortable with it my boyfriend would need to respect that. It's either me or her and if he continued to speak to someone I wasn't comfortable with him speaking with then I would tell him its obvious your friend or ex is more important than your GIRLFRIENDS feelings. He should respect you if he doesn't then thats sketchy and shady.
This sounds like a red flag. He don't seem to mind it upsetting you, that's bad news.
If he doesn’t tell her to fuck off you tell him to fuck off. Clearly he wants her around for something
Have you asked him how he would feel if it was the other way around and one of your ex's were contacting you?
Lol did this with a little brother worked good his girlfriend wouldn’t stop talking to guys so i said how would u feel if he did the same thing
does he let you see her texts? the reason i ask this is he may genuinely have no interest in her anymore but is just getting payback.
He does let me see his phone texts but I think he deletes his text messages with his ex.
Oh hell nah girl either he gotta block her on everything or he gotta go !!