Am I being unreasonable? I don’t see why he can’t just tell her to stop, and why he can’t do it in front of me.
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I think you need to tell the guy to sack up, tell his ex they are over, and stop calling. If your guy still has another woman on the hook then he isn't all that interested in you. When men really love a woman there is no other, no side chick is worth ruining a good thing because he is invested, wants you and only you, and will go out of his way to demonstrate that to you.
Bottom line - he is not invested in you and does not care enough to end it with the other girl.
Leave the bastard and preserve your dignity.
Lmao you're getting bamboozled 😂
I suggest just ending the whole thing before you get cheated on
If he actually cared about you and saw you as his one and only, he wouldn't hesitate a second to call her in front of you and tell her to fuck off because he has you now, and that's even without you telling him to do it, he should do it by himself if he truly loves you
But if you're stubborn and wanna try sticking to such a bad boyfriend
Then ask him to give you his phone and look through it
If he refuses, dump him
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Yeah , I'd be pissed too. He needs to respect your feelings and boundaries. He also needs to set boundaries with her too. He hasn't, so she thinks it okay to pester him the way she has been.
He's blocked her now, so that's as good as telling her to piss off. I'd just let it go now he's blocked her.
He probably did not actually block her. My guess is that they are still hanging out or possibly sleeping together. I also doubt she even knows you exist. Most women your age are not friends with benefits when another woman is involved. I'd leave him. He's totally leading you on.