Is it a Deal breaker if someone isn’t active/doesn’t exercise?

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itsJay · Accepted Answer

Well, it's okay if they aren't into exercising or bring active. I feel like that's most people.

But it's a bit of a dealbreaker for me if they're lazy. Like if they don't want to put in the effort to come see me, or if I have to pick them up all the time simply because they don't feel like driving or commuting, then I'd be pretty turned off.

hellacray · Accepted Answer

You mean like at all?  Well if she's that lazy her appearance will definitely reflect that.  And it might not be a deal breaker, but that's very unattractive.

Iwant2kno · Accepted Answer

Personally it doesn’t bother me, but if that is their routine I’d try my best to bring some change into their routine... perhaps invite them for a walk in the park or play any sport. Is just healthier to keep ourselves active even if it’s hard at time.

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

Unless they have a health issue, yes. You don't want a lazy person. They don't need to be an athlete, but everybody needs exercise. Get out the door, do indoor pilates. Something instead of your ass on the couch all day.

Chikky · Answer

You gotta take care of yourself men, hit the gym

Logorithim · Answer

No, but it is better if she does

Desconhecida · Answer

It depends.. on so many factors

AynonOMouse · Answer

I'd want her to exercise at least some just to stay healthy and in good enough shape to still do physical stuff as we get older. I don't want to be one of those couples that thinks they can't do anything anymore because they are too old and out of shape.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

To a long lasting relationship? Yes!
I don't want to have to wait in the middle of a flight of stairs because my partner is tired of walking 2 floors worth of stairs at 35.
With kids even worse. She would lose stamina to paly with them so early. I don't want that

RussianNestingDoll · Answer

I would leave it alone, let people be. I like to be in shape and exercise and they may try to keep me home and “feed” me until I become repulsive. Some traits which don’t matter as a single person could turn bad as a committed person.

Somegirl80936 · Answer

I would prefer if they did at least sometimes because I like to exercise but not a deal breaker

linaashxx · Answer

Health should be prioritised before anyone or anything.  Health and fitness is two different things...

Clo917 · Answer

I wouldn't say it's a dealbreaker, though it would be a turn-off.

TripleAce · Answer

Sometimes Its ok  If thats her defining trait? No thanks  Lol

Dankster96 · Answer

Yes, a sedentary partner will do everything they can to take an active partner down to their level out of insecurity, it's inevitable.

JSmuve · Answer

Not necessarily. I'd take a naturally toned girl who doesn't exercise over a fat girl who does exercise every day.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I won’t discount someone for not going to the gym. But being a couch potato all the time isn't great. Getting out and doing things is nice

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

Huge deal breaker, unless it’s because of medical reasons that they can’t be active

Thatsamazing · Answer

Um... yes. Duh. I don't want to date a chick who's lazy and going to get fat.

sasukeuchiha7 · Answer

If they're absolutely lazy and spends all day holed up inside the house then that's a turn off.

Lance1965 · Answer

They have to be at least active to keep up with me. Exercising is not important.

ChocolateMarie2001 · Answer

Yes cause I am plus maybe a little selfies but not being active means she a lousy lover.

Triple7s · Answer

No because most people are lazy and do not exercise or have exercised a lot in the past but stopped

Anonymous · Answer

Deal breaker is someone who doesn’t bathe regularly

cavmanier · Answer

Yes that's quite unattractive.

NEOTUNIA2U · Answer

funny pic :D no it isn't a deal breaker.

NoGamePlan · Answer

God I hope not because I'll be alone forever.

Nik1hil · Answer

Yes its a deal breaker for me

Mia_pearl · Answer

Yes. I’m not attracted to lazy men.

A-man-22 · Answer

Yes, keeping a basic level of health is vital

moonpie89 · Answer

No but it would get on my nerves at some point.

crazy8000 · Answer

As more than a friend. most likely.

Krishna_94 · Answer

Nope. Everyone has flaws..

Repa33 · Answer

Nope. I dont.

rgb008 · Answer

Yes.

Tyffen · Answer

Yes...

Cristian97 · Answer

Yes it is

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