Is it a Deal breaker if someone isn’t active/doesn’t exercise?
Well, it's okay if they aren't into exercising or bring active. I feel like that's most people.
But it's a bit of a dealbreaker for me if they're lazy. Like if they don't want to put in the effort to come see me, or if I have to pick them up all the time simply because they don't feel like driving or commuting, then I'd be pretty turned off.
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You mean like at all?
Well if she's that lazy her appearance will definitely reflect that.
And it might not be a deal breaker, but that's very unattractive.
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Personally it doesn’t bother me, but if that is their routine I’d try my best to bring some change into their routine... perhaps invite them for a walk in the park or play any sport. Is just healthier to keep ourselves active even if it’s hard at time.
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Unless they have a health issue, yes. You don't want a lazy person. They don't need to be an athlete, but everybody needs exercise. Get out the door, do indoor pilates. Something instead of your ass on the couch all day.
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You gotta take care of yourself men, hit the gym
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No, but it is better if she does
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It depends.. on so many factors
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I'd want her to exercise at least some just to stay healthy and in good enough shape to still do physical stuff as we get older. I don't want to be one of those couples that thinks they can't do anything anymore because they are too old and out of shape.
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To a long lasting relationship? Yes!
I don't want to have to wait in the middle of a flight of stairs because my partner is tired of walking 2 floors worth of stairs at 35.
With kids even worse. She would lose stamina to paly with them so early. I don't want that -
I would leave it alone, let people be. I like to be in shape and exercise and they may try to keep me home and “feed” me until I become repulsive. Some traits which don’t matter as a single person could turn bad as a committed person.
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I would prefer if they did at least sometimes because I like to exercise but not a deal breaker
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Health should be prioritised before anyone or anything.
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I wouldn't say it's a dealbreaker, though it would be a turn-off.
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Sometimes Its ok
If thats her defining trait? No thanks
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Yes, a sedentary partner will do everything they can to take an active partner down to their level out of insecurity, it's inevitable.
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Not necessarily. I'd take a naturally toned girl who doesn't exercise over a fat girl who does exercise every day.
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No, I won’t discount someone for not going to the gym. But being a couch potato all the time isn't great. Getting out and doing things is nice
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Huge deal breaker, unless it’s because of medical reasons that they can’t be active
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Um... yes. Duh. I don't want to date a chick who's lazy and going to get fat.
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If they're absolutely lazy and spends all day holed up inside the house then that's a turn off.
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They have to be at least active to keep up with me. Exercising is not important.
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Yes cause I am plus maybe a little selfies but not being active means she a lousy lover.
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No because most people are lazy and do not exercise or have exercised a lot in the past but stopped
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Deal breaker is someone who doesn’t bathe regularly
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