When she presents her self as a perpetual victim, and refuses to take responsibility for her actions.
When she let's people walk all over her.
When she chooses to live a life where she has casual sex with multiple partners.. I'm going to get some hate for this one, but I've never been into casual sex, and honestly I would never date someone that was..
If she is someone that cheats on every boyfriend she has had
If she isn't honest or plays manipulative games with guys.
If she let's her friends decide for her, when it comes to love and relationships
When you say doesn't let people walk all over her... do you mean like a bad bitch? Cuz some guys have said that I'm too soft, weak and don't like sweet lol. I guess I'm trying to find myself because I've been that person who people take advantage of me because of my kindness. I wouldn't want to be a bad bitch either to please guys... ya no what mean lol. Thanks for your reply :-)
It's not that you shouldn't be kind. It's more like, understand when you're being taken advantage of and stand up for your self.
Take my wife for instance.. she can definitely stand up to me when needed, but she's also the kindest sweetest person I have ever met... who also doesn't take shit from anyone.
I see... it sounds like it is an attractive quality to be kind, but not take people BS as well. I hear that a lot. I understand because I find that attractive in men too. Thanks again!
I feel like it depends on the situation. Some girls let others take advantage of them in certain situations, but it may be because they have an accommodative nature, and can't help but want to treat others nicely. Sometimes it's a simple matter of putting others before yourself. I feel like that makes a girl more valuable to me, because of how selfless she can be for someone she cares about. If I knew someone like that, I would do what ever I could to show them how much they're worth, especially if they think they're not worth much.
Aww that's good to know <3 I guess it goes to show that it comes down to preference. I was made to feel that I was wrong and not worth much due to my caring/nurturing nature. I was selfless and I was exploited... I should have stood up for myself. Yet again, these men were narcissist who don't value anyone but themselves. Thanks for your reply :-)
Add to these, doesn't do thr house chores, doesn't cook for her family, doesn't make her husband happy, ain't feminine and acts like she can do it all and on the top of these, if she's a FEMINIST
Idc if a woman isn't feminine or a feminist. I've never dated a feminist so how would I know what it's like to date one? I shouldn't have to take care of my husband just like my husband shouldn't have to take care of me. I hope my husband is going to be normal and not disabled.
You will cook for him, wash his clothes and make him frel happy and prepare his breakfast, lunch and supper and also if he's sick, you will what he needs to make him feel better... etc
A woman loses value if she is a cheater and an abuser, A woman who is selfish and narstistic to me, A cruel woman who drinks and does drugs is also a woman who lost value to me. I dont think a woman who doesn't speak is a bad thing only when she loses self esteem. A woman is never a doormat. A woman always has good value but when she loses her way she loses some of herself. Im sorry if men hurt you are more than that. Ill keep you in my prayer. You have value.
Valuable, eh? Interesting choice of words. I think of someone being "valuable" when I think of an employee. Regarding women of interest, I consider them either as a meaningful pursuit or a disposable luxury. As far as to what would cease my pursing them, that could be anything, even trivial. Which is interesting because I can overlook a lot of things.
I hear the term "valued" or "valuable" thrown around a lot. I specifically had people tell me I wasn't valued because I let men treat me like doormat. I was confused too lol. If you have time, can you give examples of why you have lost interest in a woman... would being too available be one of them? Thanks for your reply :-)
"Too available" was never a reason. Lack of availability has been and the chief reason for stopping seeing the last woman I was seeing.
No real way to define why I stop most pursuits other than I do not see them as fitting into my world. I figure this out through the course of seeing them.
Merely saying "value" to someone you are pursuing seems in itself, demeaning.
Immature, bad social skills, takes everything literally, doesn't put in effort; acts entitled, slut shames other girls and doesn't accept sex is a normal healthy behavior between adults as she vehemently insists she is a pure angel, despite having urges.
I think sometimes men really love their women and want to take care of them too much. I think maybe this can make the women feel useless and like she can't care or think for herself so I all ways discuss everything and ask for opinions too so it feels like a partnership. But maybe im wrong with 2 failed long term relationships lol
Being a slut. Lying. Being pro abortion.( Minus rape or incest or danger of mother ). Being a religious zealot ( not necessarily just being religious but being religious and forcing it in others). Being a non widow single mother.
Anything sleazy , crude , stupid. Cursing, smoking, drinking , acting like a THOT. Filthiness, toilet humor, crass, gross. Anything not lady like is a serious turn off.
All the qualities that I like in women are the same I like for my male friends. Except one: I totally loose interest for sex negative women. Not only they are lame but also judgmental. It's a no-no for me.
When she doesn't listen to others properly. Few days back in a hospital.. There's a 50 old man mistaken Doctor for a Nurse. She was angry at him. she has no respect for him. She would have said it politely that she is a doctor.
Even in a relationship you still have to show effort, still be your cool charismatic self if that’s your personality type don’t be lazy just because you think your other is locked in
She loses value if she doesn’t hold herself accountable to her lifestyle choices.
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At this point, a better question to ask is how would a woman gain value in my eyes. I pretty much assume that 99.999% of humanity is worthless by default.
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Due to women's special rights treatment and privileges, all women have priced themselves out of the market. With exception to vilifying men, that's why I went MGTOW Monk.
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