Is a virgin guy a loser?

[Lonewolf1994]

I think it makes me a loser considering, Im 25, plus don't women hate virgin men?

[XRabbitHeartX]

If you date a woman who thinks your virginity makes you a loser, I question why you would want to date a woman who judges you purely based off the fact that you do not ho around. Since when is morals and values a bad thing for a decent woman..

[Lonewolf1994]

thank you

[Lonewolf1994]

and true but I'm ugly, weird and awkward

[Lonewolf1994]

a beautiful woman like you is out of my league

[Desi01]

When it comes to finding a mate. You got to switch it up a bit. You got to do Something with your hair. Make it look nice. Instead of wearing Bullet for My Valentine (rock band) T shirt. Go to the thrift store, buy you a few plaid shirts or polo shirts and some khakis. You dont have to buy expensive things to look nice. And when you approach the woman don't be weird with it. Staring at her titties or cleavage. You can start a conversation with different things. I'm a VERY DIRECT woman. So if you see me at a distance and think im looking good and want my number. Thats what I want to know. "Hey, my name is (XYZ) I saw you from the corner of my eye and you are very beautiful. I just thought maybe I can get to know you and take you out someday.-----" and I'll look him up and down probably smirk or something. Lol and give him a Real hard time. If he cute I might give him my number though. If he not cute but I'm give him a chance I might friend him on Facebook or IG... But every woman is different and your not always going to get them digits on the first try. Also another thing. Your dress and grooming. I LOVE the AXE, and Old Spice spray deoderant. Or even dove or spring valley mens soap. Oooooo it just make me juicy. Make sure you smell good. A decent simple outfit and a good fragrance will ALWAYS increase likelihood of getting the number.

[Lonewolf1994]

@Desi01 I do dress simple, I have plaid button up shirts a pair of chinos and Jeans. I also shower and use oldspice

[Lonewolf1994]

the only thing, I don't do which, I should is shave regularly I'm kind of lazy

[Lonewolf1994]

@Desi01 thanks for the advice

[Lonewolf1994]

@Desi01 Its not my hygiene that, I'm worried about, I'm worried about not being physically attractive or tall enough

[Anonymous]

You're not a loser because you're a virgin. At any age.
All the women I know, think virgin guys are cool. At least you're (hopefully) not a player, a womanizer, etc.

[Lonewolf1994]

thanks but I'm weird and ugly

[Desi01]

No, you are not a loser. Being a virgin is SO PRECIOUS. Sex will come naturally at the time. Whoever you are with. She can tell you what she likes. Or you can ask her. But you don't need to think your ugly. If you say your weird That depends. Prolly are. If you ever DO have your first kiss session DO NOT SMASH your face on her. Tilt your head slightly and GENTLY set your lips on hers. Lord its not difficult. Also kiss her cheeks and lick them as you make your way to her neck. Oh. Man. Every SINGLE WOMAN Has a sweet spot somewhere on that neck. What would turn her on Flick your tongue quickly on the neck. DO NOT LICK HER WITH YOUR TONGUE UP AND AND DOWN. Pick one spot and flick your tongue. Flick lick if you were turning a light switch on and on. She going to be making noises and ish. You'll know if thats her sweet spot with the moan. Then after you got her hot. THEN in a slow motion you lick in a circle around that spot you flicked and then up and down the neck... Got it? I hope you do. Also foreplay her for like 30mins if you can last an hour - great. She would be like the waters of the red sea at that point. No lube necessary. I guess all woman different. And by the way did I say I've never been penetrated before. Hahaha well I haven't I've made out before so I know what turns me on. But all woman were sort of the same when it comes to foreplay. Some woman are rough though she mighr like if you gently bite her neck 😂😂

[AbsoluteCutie]

No, being a virgin does not make you a loser. I know that guys feel a lot of pressure to “perform” in that area, but any woman with her head on straight is going to be more concerned with how strong your relationship is with her and not how strong your sexual resume is.
Best thing you can do is build your confidence and character as a person. Also, practice talking to girls, build relationships etc. but never make it about “losing it”. Guys like that are usually creeps and since guys already have a bad rep traditionally about having only one thing on their minds... well don’t be a statistic please.

[PinkMichae]

Of course not. Everybody has their time. My brother was about your age when he lost his and he's definitely not or wasn't a loser because of it.

If you start thinking you're a loser it's gonna mess with your confidence. That will make it harder for women to be drawn to you. So don't go there.

[Shellyworld]

Bigger percentage of men remain virgin than women. So that would mean those men would be losers, WHICH is NOT TRUE! In western Europe there are too many man whores. So virgin men are diamonds. Don’t call yourself ugly. I’m sure you aren’t. Virginity doesn’t change your character or looks. According to the bible you are a good person - if you’re religious. Maybe it may mean something for you.

[AlienParasite]

I don't care if a guy is a virgin or not. For me a guy who is a virgin is not a loser. I prefer a guy who has been with no one than a guy who has been with more girls than he can count on the finger of his hands.

[EyeAmNiceGirl]

No, being a virgin doesn't make you a loser. You might be a loser, but if you are, it has nothing to do with whether or not your penis has been inserted into a vagina.

[AnnaJV59]

Short answer, no it would not matter to me at all. More than anything, it could show a great level of respect from that person either for themselves or others. For example, my friend was a virgin until 30 (yes, 30 years). Not because of any external factors - he is fucking hot and girls always threw themselves in front of him but he just refused into having mindless sex because of respect.

[Anonymous]

listen, im not gonna lie. In my opinion, yes. We don't hate you, we just think you are losers. No offense but the girls who were being nice are the few who truly wouldn't care. I'd get that taken care of fast dude.

[Lonewolf1994]

well I'm really ugly so, I doubt any woman would do anything like that.

[Opinion Owner]

lucky for you, there's plenty girls out there who don't care. Find yourself a nice virgin girl even if you wish. Truth is: make the effort and the world is your oyster.

[Lonewolf1994]

I don't care if a woman is a virgin, I'm concerned that women will think of me as a loser for being one.

[99lynn99]

Actually no... depends on the woman of course... My ex was 21 and a virgin and that was actually amazing , i got all the firsts :)

[VPS13]

My boyfriend was a virgin till 27 doesn’t bother me at all.