Are Alpha males/females attractive to you?

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SuperTroll · Accepted Answer

The term is confusing to me but I like women who are on the assertive side and will speak their minds, including their disagreements with me, and ones who tend to attract a lot of social attention and have some leadership ability including the ability to stay calm in tough situations. I don't like an obedient housewife type.

I like a woman who is assertive enough to speak her mind but mature enough to compromise so that we can always find some middle ground that makes us both happy. At the same time, I don't like some dominant, sassy type that will take over situations and not let me step up to the plate and have my share of responsibilities.

My wife does tend to form a natural sort of leadership position among her female friends in particular. They tend to look up to her, and she is also a leader in her workplace. But she isn't dominant exactly. She's more like the patient, mature, empathetic type who isn't judgmental and tends to naturally be treated as a leader among women for those qualities. She's cooperative but assertive, submissive in contexts but no pushover, that sort of thing.

I'd compare her to Deanna Troi somewhat if people are familiar with a geeky Star Trek reference. She has that type of "counselor" vibe to her.

Are Alpha males/females attractive to you?

JoseJr · Accepted Answer

To me personally No, I like to think Im very dominant. In my mind Im always correct or know the best answer. I like being followed and I hate following. With that being said other people I'd consider alpha's find me annoying which I can understand. People who are very passive really like me tho. They ask for advice and help and Im always willing to help. So yes I think people are attracted to dominant people. Feelings that possibly are one, or thinking that you are one, like someone else like someone else below said. Two dominant people usually wouldn't get too well along im my opinion.

Imcmullan · Accepted Answer

I love an alpha male.. its sexy seeing a man control things.. keeping me in my place. An alpha male desires to keep his family in order.. he's responsible... ambitious n doesn't settle.. I like to treat my man like he's my king.. support him.. be his number one cheerleader.. in turn he should know , I'm the princess n I like to be treated with sugar n spice n everything nice🤗🤗 .. I'm a brat... ... lol...

fonduegirl · Accepted Answer

I'm the dominant one in all the social contexts mostly so no thanks. however alphas are really possessive, I'd hate to become someone's possession just because I'm dating them. I've heard less than a few of them being so in charge that they turn into bloody control freaks. alphas, I've concluded, are a novel idea well suited in those YA fiction where stalking a girl is considered cute (twilight romance)

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"Alpha/beta" is a concept invented for those who have inadequacies and who need to have their egos boosted and humored.

Riggers · Answer

Lets be realistic, All ''alpha'' means is attractive, This question literally is 'Are attractive people attractive'...

I find people who tend to look better than a 6/10 are so disgustingly far up their own asshole they live in a delusional reality where every single thing in life is just handed to them on a plate and they can thank their DNA luck for it. Because of that i don't really find anyone ''alpha'' attractive because their personalities are so disgusting

thatguyfromtoronto · Answer

alpha males are completely dickish in life but if that's what a girl wants that's her choice. As for girls, I never heard the phrase 'alpha female' but if it's a dominant type of female who is basically bitchy then no thanks. You can be a good person and assertive it's not that hard.

Kayla45 · Answer

To be honest, no. I think it's a bit show-offy? If that makes sense.. I would just want my partner to be genuine, I mean if he's an alpha by nature, sure whatever. But if he tries to be someone he's not then I don't feel like he's being honest with himself or his natural personality.

Evil_Chuck · Answer

If by "alpha" you mean women who possess inner strength, take responsibility for their actions, and have their shit together... then yes, that's attractive to me. If it means girls who have a loud and aggressive personality with nothing behind it, then no.

morimeme1 · Answer

I enjoy the company of truly intelligent, confident powerful women (what I would consider an alpha female). For some reason I have trouble imagining an alpha male, haven't seen one that I would consider worthy of such a title.

GraveDoll · Answer

I find them attractive. And all I date.

Being an alpha female myself they balance me out contrary to others belief. Alpha males have more patience with me and I feel like I don't have to hold their hand to get them to understand.

Anonymous · Answer

I always wondered. Hypothetically, If I snapped the neck of a "alpha male" would that make me the new alpha male? Or is the whole Alpha thing a personality thing for emotionally insecure people. In truth iv seen self proclaimed "alphas" where in nature my dominance would be secure through me beating the ever loving daylights out of a 130 pound twig person.

Wishfire17 · Answer

I love alpha males, but because of their bad personality traits, I tend to go for less alpha guys. I like a guy that can hold his own though and can actually be a man. To me thats hot.

almondcake · Answer

I dont think women are meant to be Alpha so in a woman I find it annoying and controlling and wonder why her friends still go on nights out with her. But she does make herself center of attraction so it is hard not to notice her.

Haelaeix123 · Answer

Not really no, i find them to have arrogant and overbearing attitudes which are not at all attractive.

buttcrackjoe · Answer

Negative. I enjoy an innocent conservative nerd who has untapped genitals. The thicker framed glasses the better. If she has braces I jizz right there in my pants.

Factshurt90 · Answer

No, I appreciate what they do. I spoke to a few I know personally and they were great big ol bitches.

jl25sc · Answer

I'm not into alphas at all. I like a balance in my life. Most alphas will not take the opinions of others. Its my way or the highway mentality for most alphas. I like someone who is down to earth and empathetic.

Secret6620 · Answer

I am alpha female and I don't find alpha guys all that attractive. 💜🖤💙

up_64 · Answer

No. Because alpha women want men who are even more alpha and I don't wanna spend my fucking day having to prove how macho I am. They are way too high maintenance.

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

Alpha women? no thanks I need a woman who sees my will as greater than hers.

purplepoppy · Answer

The second a guy says he's alpha I yawn my head off.

AlienParasite · Answer

Are we talking about Aldoux Huxley's Brave New World? :/

taleswapper · Answer

Sometimers, but not often. Alphas don't always have the wisdom needed to lead; those I don't care for.

aa180 · Answer

No such thing. But if you mean guys like Christian Grey, then I wouldn't even use his face to clean my toilet cause then my toilet will get dirty.

YHL6965 · Answer

No because idiots who used these terms don't even know the proper definition of alphas. In all cases, they think highly of themselves, which is something I despise.

Zorax · Answer

Alpha females are my favorite, I prefer assertive and dominant type of girls.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like the term "alpha". I prefer dominant. That said, two dominant people will generally not get along well in a romantic relationship. Dominant men do not find dominant women attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

" tried to fuck 50 for a powerful hour All the n** wanna do is talk power for hours"  I guess that sums it all up for the alpha dude situation

kitty71 · Answer

i dont like alpha male they are arrogant and cocky they believe they are moe important than other people

SexyAshh · Answer

Im an alpha female and always attract alfa males, we butt heads so much but i love it!

crazy8000 · Answer

Not really. it's a annoying low status individual behavior. Prefer High status individual and omega personality.

AD240pCharlie · Answer

I don't care about that. As long as she's kind, humble and gentle, she can be as assertive or passive as she wants.

boogiediablo · Answer

when I was younger I was an alpha male now that I'm older and I just want to break from life I think an alpha female is more attractive

MedicalAdventure · Answer

I think alfa women are not very sexually attractive to dominant men.  But I think they can make great friendships and be extremely good at work

Anonymous · Answer

Who is an alpha female? : / And is that guy in the pic a alpha male? He looks like he is blind and that girl is trying to help him cross the road.

StingRayxoxo · Answer

I like more reserved men.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Can someone explain to me what an alpha female is? What does that mean?

HereIbe · Answer

Define "alpha". Do you mean blowhard, pushy, happen to have muscular bodies?

mycatsanoyingaf · Answer

I don't see how an alpha male or female can exist, what are they? Successful? Attractive? I don't get it what it is.

anametouse · Answer

I don't think alphas are a thing. I think people who call themselves that have ego issues.

Hawky_ · Answer

Hmmm no I don't think so, I'd probably clash. I like to be in control.

Preston69 · Answer

I have young and old attacking to me but would like someone younger don’t ever want to get caught in change of life again what s nightmare

Anonymous · Answer

If you mean extremely assertive women, then no. Extreme assertiveness is not attractive, but intimidating.

BeMuse · Answer

What do you consider an alpha female?

MlleCake · Answer

There is no such thing as "alpha" among humans.

Cammy137 · Answer

You don't get alphas and betas in human societies

ChiTown33 · Answer

I don't even like the term.

Rica_ChicaUSA · Answer

Yes. Isn’t that biologically normal? 🤔

JosyJosy · Answer

What do you see an an alpha male

YvanKarma · Answer

Alpha Females are always a win win so yes

HomoFuge · Answer

Lol no one is attracted to me, 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Alpha females? Sure.

blythely · Answer

I am other alpha tolerant sometimes

Sha84 · Answer

if rich, handsome and good personality

themomo84 · Answer

Nope i like the control. U?

Hikamika · Answer

Alpha males used to be until I gained weight

Natalieeeee · Answer

I can't even recognise alpha males. Please...

scooogy · Answer

depends on the context

Miss_Savanna_Dry · Answer

Some men yes.

Silent_Bob · Answer

Yes.

Sweatyotterr · Answer

Nope

Deep_Mind · Answer

Yes.

GayHowellMeme · Answer

Only alpha males

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