Should I text girl the morning after the 1st date or wait 1 week?

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MostPaloney23 · Accepted Answer

Any idea of waiting a set time to respond after a date is bullshit. If you don't do it at the end of the night, do it in the morning. Anyone that I had actual success with didn't keep me waiting around to know it went well too.

If I don't hear back within a day or maybe 2 if something serious happened, I'll have moved on. Momentum is key

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Mid morning is a good time to text after the first date. Stick with that rule and you should be fine.  If you wait a week then Rick or Jimmy will already be sliding in when you waited.

morimeme1 · Accepted Answer

If you are interested make it clear, text her the next day if you feel like it. If she decides to pass just because you don't play some silly games then she is immature and you don't need that. If a guy made me wait more than one day to contact me after a day in a week I would already forget he exists, I don't have time for that shit.

PinkChampagne · Accepted Answer

Why would you wait one week? To make her sure you're not interested in her? These rules like message 3-5-55 days later are idiotic... Don't spoil your chances with waiting for some crazy period of time which you heard somewhere... Just message

jennifer_bloom · Answer

A week is way too long - she will probably completely ignore you if you wait that long to get in touch with her. I say 1 day if you really like her - 2 or 3 days if you don't want to seem to eager or aren't sure how you feel about her.

btbc92 · Answer

Who CARES! You want to talk go her, talk to her. There is no rule saying you can't. Except the rules you and her make. Text whenever your ready, but always communicate what you want before they assume you ghosted them or they dump you for another person.

Miss_Savanna_Dry · Answer

If a guy took one week then I would have assumed he is not interested and then I would lose interest. I'd prefer a message straight after the date to say thank you it was nice or I didn't enjoy the date and I'm not interested. This way ill know where I stand

AuroraRoseat · Answer

Don't play games. If you're interested, text her the next morning. If a guy waited a week to text me, I'm not interested in him anymore because of his immaturity.

Bellarina6 · Answer

Why would you wait a week? I like when a date has texted me that same night. It's usually letting me know he got home or asking if I got home okay. They'll also usually say they enjoyed their time with me. Never wait a week and don't even bother with that three day rule.

MusicMayhem · Answer

In a week she could have gone out with and potentially banged 5 other dudes.

If you're concern is she'll think you're needy then you haven't provided enough value and shown her you're a cool guy. If she likes you enough from a good first date she won't care if you text her the next day.

JustJen · Answer

If you are interested in her, be sure to text her the next day, or she will move on.

Emmdk · Answer

Do it whenever you feel like it! Life's too short for mind games and if she's a good person she won't judge you for texting "too soon"  Personally I love it when they text sooner rather than later.

DizzyDesii · Answer

If i was her, i’d want him to text em. I don't know where people get that dumb waiting rule. I would feel rejected as if he didn't enjoy the date if he waited over a day to text me and talk about it

Anonymous · Answer

If a guy I go out with doesn't text me the same day I take for granted that he's not very into me, pretty much. I think it's only cute and respectful to text after the date to ask if I got home alright, if he waits a couple hours though I take it he's playing a little hard to get but if he doesn't text me at all for the rest of the day or even the next day I would feel pretty disappointed.

THenny · Answer

Bro just have fun. You went on the date not us. If you feel like she's the type of girl that would appreciate a morning text then go for it. Everyone is unique. Asking some random people on the internet for dating advice isn't going to pave a golden path to success for you. In fact, I'd argue that it'll hurt your relationship.

SarahVanRensburg · Answer

If the date went well then message her the next morning. If the date didn't go well then message her the next morning.

Raybert · Answer

Depends on how the date went and if you fooled around a little or a lot. If it didn't go great, wait 1-2 full days. If you did it doggy style, then def the next day, If it was great and you didn't fool around, wait 1 day, and be ready to ask her to do something cool but not expensive or elaborate. Always be prepared for her to say no or she's busy, and dont get butt-hurt. Dont be needy and dont be "Mr."I wanna be your boyfriend." That shit scares women off more than anything.

selfesteemguy · Answer

Dude. Just text whenever you want. There is no right time to do it. And don't believe in some so-called gurus' advice.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

if you wait a week, im going to assume you are not interested and totally ghosted me.

pleasestopthis · Answer

A week is too long if you want her to know you're interested. The next day is fine.

luvstoned4him · Answer

you can text her after, to let her know how much you enjoyed

The_researcher · Answer

The morning after or later that night. Not a week after! That’s very bad

Wishfire17 · Answer

Morning after if you actually want to keep her around. If you wait, she will think you are not really interested and are keeping her around as a side option.

maya89 · Answer

Don’t wait. Life’s too short to play games - just go for it

phoenixhelix · Answer

Do you want to manipulate her into a relationship? She'll either go out with you again or not. If so, you don't need to wait. Just relax and enjoy the ride if you're lucky.

Alice2398 · Answer

Dont play games because no one ever wins that way, if i had to wait a week after a date, I'd been really disappointed and think he wasn't too interested. The next day is a lot better

spartan55 · Answer

Dude, a week? Where did you ever hear that was a good idea?

TheFlak38 · Answer

You will wait for three days and then text her with the intention to set another date. If she contacts you first don't waste your time texting back and forth or talking for more than 10 minutes.

M-ikaela · Answer

Dont follow any stupid rules when it comes to relationships. Just text her when you feel like it. Be it few hours after the date or next morning

LuWe22 · Answer

The morning after the 1st date. Don't make her wait if the date went well.

SexyAshh · Answer

You text her when u get back  Wait a week,🤦‍♀️ TF

Anonymous · Answer

If you had a nice time with her, why would you want to wait a week? She might think you didn't enjoy yourself and she might go out with someone else.

slatyb · Answer

Don't wait a week. If you had a nice time, tell her that and say that you would like to see her again. If it wasn't that great, then thank her but say that you don't think it would work out.

Alwaysthinking14 · Answer

Immediately. Why wait?

Anonymous · Answer

If you wait one week, she'll think you're not interested, at least this what I'll think... just my opinion

TexasBorn217 · Answer

I'd text her. If you want things to blossom and progress, you have to keep the communication going without gaps; a week is too long.

DukeVimes · Answer

After the date send a "was fun, have a nice day" kinda text, and don't be afraid to contact her when you want to talk or anything. If she reacts badly it might be an indication of you relationship

genericname85 · Answer

don't act like she's the number one priority in your life. but waiting 1 week is extreme. it shows that you're not intereted.

Lorla · Answer

If you feel like texting her, just text her. Don’t wait for a week, it’s way too long, she might think you’re not that into her.

zagor · Answer

Depends. Do you want to go out with her again? If so, don't wait a week. One or two days, max. But don't do it as soon as you get home - too needy.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Depends. What's communication usually like between you? How frequent?

1828avaava1828 · Answer

wait 4 months.. then see how things go :)

mikeboy06 · Answer

text her that same night and say hey i had a great time hope you did too. good night

Anonymous · Answer

Nothings wrong with texting her after y’alls first date lol she’d be happy

Gottabsavagee · Answer

Why’d you play games.  Just text her when you like.

Manolitor · Answer

Wait till afternoon and tell her how much fun you had on the date

Lauren2019 · Answer

Text her the next morning

Anonymous · Answer

wait at least a day-halfway through the second day after text her but something short

Anonymous · Answer

Dude just watch Mr. Locario, I know AMS makes thing entertaining but Locarno actually tries to help with your problem just listen and take notes.

secretuser_ · Answer

The afternoon would be nice.

Kinogo · Answer

Text when u want to text but 1 week is kinda long.

DakotaNorth · Answer

Fuck you. Call me. If you don't want to hear my voice then there will never be a second date.

Isabella46 · Answer

The morning after

weirdoweirdo · Answer

Text whenever you feel like you should.

lsjr16 · Answer

Text /call when you get back

JulieRoze7 · Answer

Text her!!!

themomo84 · Answer

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