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Would a person with a mixed-race child keep you from dating them? (Page 2)
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No. Race is not a factor for me when considering who I will date, that holds equally true for their children’s race.
I can already imagen all the "are you sure you're the father" questions. I don't think I would date a single mother if I'm honest.
I am a child of interracial marriage and my parents and brothers get that all the time. I'm their child and sister.
Someone having a child in the first place would be a non-negotiable deal-breaker for me. No way in hell I'd raise another man's child.
No not at all. I wouldn’t really be interested in dating someone with a child/ children.
Well you have a lot of coward, closet racist on here... will say hi to your face and talk about them to their backs... also very immature. But then again preference is preference, no matter how racist the reason...
playback, I want you to reread that and judge yourself.
@StingRayxoxo no, it's good to see all the racist, immature people out here. You know half the population if not more is still in this kind of ignorant mindset. I glad you asked this. Just because it's a preference, doesn't mean it's right to be in that thought process or state of mind when it comes to race. It also shows, we are still a long way off from being decent human beings..
I don't know why I hope for things to be different. I put too much hope that there are big hearts out there and then I get so down when I'm wrong. I try not to hate but i have so much anger towards people that hate for no reason.
Well that's when you need to be the bigger person.. understand that people only are out for themselves. I will help anyone that needs help, but as soon as they show me there true colors, I do not accept that negativity around me. Keep that big heart you have, but approach everyone with caution until they prove to you that they can be decent human beings
Thanks, darlin.
I wouldn’t really want to raise another persons kid regardless of race. I’m interested in starting my own family, not picking up where someone else left off.
Yes!
The human race is destined to be homogeneous. One could argue we already ARE genetically, cuz we are ALL human & can reproduce with ANY human!
That said, I would love a mixed race child, like any of my children! by the way, IMHO, mixed race children are usually more beautiful than 'mono-race' children! LOL!
Not if it's with a black dude , not that I'm against women liking black men but a lot of them lie to white men to get into a relationship and then cheat on them with black men
If she has a mixed kid and wants to date me it's a sign that she looking for someone to take care of the kid while she and the father of the kid can have fun
Yes it's extremely racist of me but that's what it is if you have a mixed kid asked the actual father to take care of the kid
I'm assuming that you have a mixed kid too stingray?
Why are you assuming that?
It's common women who love black men just use white men either to make their racist family happy , for financial stability or to take care of the kid while the mother and the actual father have fun
Also why do you care do you have a mixed child?
Plus over my time you did once state that you have a husband and the you asked this question so I think your husband is black
I have never had a husband. I think you are thinking of the wrong person
I asked this question because of something another user said to me about a woman he wouldn't touch because she has mixed kids. I care because skin color does not assign value or determine a person's values.
Hmm ok boyfriend? I'm new in this site , look if you take offence with my comment I'm sorry but it's my opinion it doesn't mean I treat white women who date black men as outcasts ( even tho it looks like it )
But from the way white women who prefer black men treat us you know like second option or a walking ATM or some weak incel who is only good enough if he is rich or some guy she can friend zone and make him take of care things I'm not that
Also I really think that you are the one with a mixed kid and that someone is yourself
I also like add that I know it's racist but it is what it is and I think that many white men are like that so don't waste your time on us
I'm sure it doesn't but remember the woman had sex with man of another race , a race with completely different features from , I'll automatically think " oh she is has mixed kid so she likes black guys I guess I have no chance then " also " oh she has a kid , she is probably married "
Plus porn has a role to play in the racism it states that white men are completely uselss human beings who are only good enough for financial stability and taking care of the white women's kid while she and the father have fun
So that's no matter how much you say colour doesn't matter , it still matters
You're way off base. I'm not going to correct it though. I don't look at race. I look at a person's moral compass. Yours is weak.
Well no point trying to make you understand but here is the the thing the best way to survive in a cruel world is to live without a moral compass
A person with any child would keep me from dating them.
No, I'd still date them, assuming I was older though cause at my age, I'm not dating someone with a kid.
Them havinga child would affect my decision. Them having a mixed child would not.
It's not got much to do with whether i want to date a woman with a child or not. Children are a responsibility, children always come first. And kids need stability. They don't need adults coming in and out of their lives. I wouldn't get involved with a woman with children for this reason unless i really thought it was going somewhere. This is why i respect womwn that say "you won't be meeting my kids unless our relationship progresses to a point where i think there's a future between us". It tells me she's protecting her kids like a mom should. And i'm sure that isn't easy.
Someone that already had a kid would make me not date them
Nah, I wouldn't date them just because they have a child. I know that I could never love them as much as I would my own flesh and blood and that would only make it bad for everyone in the relationship.
What difference does it make? If I love the woman, I would love the child, so the child's make up would , and should be irrelevant. What possible reason would there be for not liking mother or child due to racial make up? Only bigots worry about such things.
I think mixed race is beautiful. I don't mind dating a single mom.
I wouldn't date someone with a child regardless of race.
If you mean I wouldn’t date someone because of their mixed race child, then no.
All I can say is humans are humans, we all look different but some resemble and some twin but there should be no discrimination.
Why does it matter the race of the child? My boyfriend is black and has a son and maybe in the future I'll have a mixed child with him.
Both my children are, depending on how you define race, "mixed" so I certainly wouldn't object to dating someone like me in that respect.
Personally, I love children. All children. Having them won't keep me away, it never will. I don't care if they're sick, mentally ill, mixed, different race, etc. Children deserve to be loved.
I don't date single moms. The race of the kid has nothing to do with it.
I'm in an interracial relationship, so it definitely wouldn't bother me.
Love come, s in many guises for all life. Colour is not a problem for intelligent people? Hell I, m white? Ha
The only thing that would bother me is if the S. O. prefers a different race but is settling for me because he/she couldn't find someone that fits their box of ideal partner traits.
For me the operative words are " with a child" don't care if its mixed race or not. Never going to date a single mother.
Id not date a person with a child full stop, doesn't matter if they are mixed race.
I would however date a girl of any race. I just dont want a kid that isn't mine living with us.
No, it wouldn't make any difference of who they are.
I wouldn't date somebody with a kid, but if I did that wouldn't affect me.
Well no offense to any black people I love black people I have many black friends but if a white bitch got black kids I would not touch them and they are scum of the earth.
Technically no, because I wouldn't date a woman with a kid.
That's different
@Wowgirl30q I know, right?
@MannySimms @rjroy3 @EmbraceThePain @UberGameMasters he's saying that the whole website is "confusing" his words... He has a girlfriend who's a good friend of mine with a bi-racial child the whole thing was about her and trying to hurt her. He's cruel and trying to do damage control now
He blocked me because I stood up for her yesterday and I'm sure @princessgrail too. So the whole thing was abusive for him to say
So whoever said that was fucked up was right
@Wowgirl30q
I didn't read all of your guys back and forth. I'll assume it got pretty heated, because he blocked me as well which is odd to me. Just posting my last response to him here if he chooses to read it.
@Log
"There can be an honest misunderstanding, without someone actively being a white knight seeking to "virtue signal". I paid attention to the exact examples you specified for yourself, which is why I outright said it was not racist. My point was that what was stated after the fact you used in a way that changed the your overall argument. And that specifically that addition made it come across as pretty heavily prejudiced. If I'm wrong I am wrong. But don't accuse me of malcontent. Blocking me is fine. Maybe you got heated from the back and forth with the others. But that's on you from here on out"
You accused me of doing, what you actually did in regards to my comments. Misconstrued what was said and followed up by directly insulting me. Poor form my man.
@rjroy3 thank you
Simply, you will have to overcome mixed race bias, on the child, and you never succeed, they not white or the other race. There are often throwbacks when that child has children, that child will suffer, their many racists in the USA, UK, and Europe.
A woman with a child is a no, no for me, unless I get to be a single dad. Parents should date parents. I don't have kids and I will not understand the struggle of been a parent if I dated a single mom.
Yes, but not because the child is mixed-race, but because they have a child 😅
Wtf. No it wouldn’t. But maybe I’m bias. I’m mixed race and would hate to be the reason that somebody couldn’t love/date my mother.
Definitely yes! Any child makes a woman undateable, but a mongrel means she is a Mudshark. Avoid like the plague!
This is true what you say...
Finally someone who has common sense.
Well I am young and have no children/am not married. So doesn't matter the race i don't want a man with a kid. And... as for me i only want full white children myself. No east Asian/black/latina guy for me
If I was single no but I've never really been attracted to mix raced guys.
No.. I had Married a Muslim Once, Didn't Stop Me from even Dropping God in my Life. xx
In general, I would not date single-mums, for the only reason, that her ex always will be present in some way, because it is still his child.
At this point in my life, a woman having a child at all would be a reason for me to not date them.
The word "date" is a little too strong for a single mother relationship
lol women mad as fuck that men are straight up saying they'd prefer less obvious complications.
It doesn't help that many of you are starchy as fuck and clearly racist. You're poisoning the good well of reason with your "mudshark" bullshit. Ugh, I cringed at myself for having to say that shit. Uuuuughhhhh. Noneofyoududescantalktowomenforreals
y'all are still the ugly unfucked friends we had in jr. high that were too weak to just ask a girl to dance. Fuck. Stop pretending you want to date a single mother, period. Most of you aren't even 30, this is some adult level dating. Kids aren't real until you're 28 or you get caught early.
Tough one... Human and what?
I wouldn't date someone with a child anyways, but i were to then mixed race/ethnicity would never be an issue for me. On a side note that child is so adorable
No to kids in general for me, but a mixed race kid would not change my opinion one way or another.
If I was the type to have kids, I would have no problem having one with a black woman.
Of course not
@PrincessGrail
A person with a child is enough to prevent me from dating.
The child race doesn't matter... having to date someone who has a child requires responsibility that some people have and some don't... I personally don't. so I wouldn't.
No, thats not a deal breaker...
I ain't raising no white dude's kid. -I'd be hard pressed to raise another BROTHER'S child, let alone some demon seed a sister allowed to be placed into her womb.
-That dirty non-woke bitch is on her own.
A bit racist but ok
I would want her kids to look like me if I was to be involved with her. I want my kids to look like me. Otherwise you're kind of a cuck
How could you be a cuck if she had kids before she ever met you?
@zagor the concept of spending your time, energy and money to raise someone else kids
Some people don't want to deal with infants. I had a friend marry a girl with two boys, about 7 and 9 at the time. He is quite content to not deal with babies, and he was devastated when the younger was killed in a tragic accident.
Someone with any child would stop me from dating them..
A mixed race child is not the problem. I don’t want to date a man with child. Just not for me.
At your age that makes sense, but for older folks, that's NOT usually an option!
a person with a child will keep me from daiting then lmaob
Date? yes. Move in? not till the child matures and leaves the house, no matter what the race.
Definitely not I dont see race we are all humans
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Good to know that my existence would be a turn off
Your existence is lovely, darling.
Any single women with a child would keep me from dating her.
I always dated guys with out kids. It's less stressful. I'm a single mom and the man I'm with now is a single dad. It turns me on seeing him take care of business with his child. It also reassures me he would be a good father to our future children.
@mommatoldl Well good for you. A woman that was not capable, willing and determined to make sure that she reproduces with a guy that would take care of his children turns me off completely.
The race or color of a woman’s child/children has no bearing on my dating her.
i stay away from single mothers to begin with, red flag number 1.