Wow. For the most part just about every one got the answer right. I seem thought a lot of people have some kind of ( but, well, um,) My children were and still are the most amazing thing that has ever happend to me. They gave my life meaning !!! I think every child in the world deceives to be raised by someone who loves them and understands how important it is that there tool box be filled with a good set of tools so they can start a life of there own. Some thing they can build on. Unconditional love, Acceptance, Compassion, Empathy, Confidence, Independence, Fortitude and so on. Life is not all peaches and cream. My children maid me a better man. Weather I liked it or not. My son is a better man than I ever will be. Let me end with this. A child didn't get to pick there parents and it doesn't matter what color, shape, capacity or lack of capacity. The answer is no. A child would only be a plus in any relationship with a woman !
Asking that here is just bait for the insecure bigots..
I always love it when white manbabies say that a white woman who had previously been with a black man is ruined. Translation: "I really want that woman but she's been with men who frighten me and that makes me worry about being compared to him as a man and I realize that I'm just a cowardly bigot so I'll try to make her look like trash in an obvious sour grapes way."
Basic truth: Nobody hates somebody that they actually feel superior to.
I guess fear and sour grapes feels best to you as an explanation but it is you just projecting what you want it to be on others who have formed an opinion that you obviously cannot understand.
Ding ding ding ding ding! Boy you sure on the money today! No I would not! Or any child not my own, especially if the child isn't even white. I mean, you have got to be kidding me. Aryan sweat and tears on a Cuckoo bird like that? I have a responsibility to my own and raising white children if any at all. We must secure the existence of our people and a future for white children. Nothing in there about raising non white kids.
I'm more likely to help build a solid civilization for my people and their descendants by being racially aware and responsible to my tribe. You on the other hand are rotting already with that nihilistic take on things.
Glad you're not being a pathetic piece of existence. You could be excused for being a presumptuous one given the screwed up Black Mirror 21st century world we live in. The Nazis and KKK are so last century. White nationalists today are an accidental by product of the far left. We're a mix of a lot of things, sometimes supremacists who think that is necessary to success , the Vikings of old etc etc ad nausium. And of course the ones who are not much different than a Navajo or Piaute or Australian Aboriginal. I guarantee you they all love their tribes and their culture too and do not want to go extinct either. So, if you condemn me, you must also condemn them.
@Wowgirl30q Maybe and maybe not but I am telling you facts that go far beyond myself. Lots of people feel as I do and more and more every day. You can not change that.
I don't you want to and everyone has a view I respect that.. I'm not one of those people who cares if anyone argees with me I have friends of all views. But that was just mean I feel you went about it cruel and you know the difference in point of view and just wrong
@Wowgirl30q I won't say I delivered my message wrong, you just don't understand what I'm talking bout. Every day whites are pushed to interbreed so we go extinct. So no, not having any of that.
@Wowgirl30q You mean I was kind of trollish in my delivery? If that's what you mean , I'll admit that, I used the word aryan and cuckoo bird. Granted there's a little Louis Farrakhan mentality in that. But there are people out to literally kill my race off and bragging about it all over the internet. Worse than that, they want to kill all the other races off as well and lock us up in "smart cities" (gulags). So, I haven't much patience left when it comes to the subject of raising mixed race children. They are being used as a weapon of global genocide.
Not at all. The race of the parent or child is of no relevance. You're obviously attracted to parent if you're looking at dating them and people with children come as a package deal. Take them or leave them. Simple as that.
I would. still. date her, if she treats me. great thats all that matters i wouldn't care what race the child was that has nothing to do with anything the kid. is still a human being. It's hot the kids fault that the parents didn't work out
I would date a Woman/ Girl with a mixed race child race has no issue with me. I have Biracial / Mixed race cousins. I was born to love people of all races i would also date/ marry a Woman of another race or religion , culture.
I personally don’t want to date single parents period, but I also believe that if someone doesn’t want to date you solely because of your kid’s racial background they’re not someone you want to be dating
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Its funny how when black men comment that they don't want to date white women they get upvoted and they get no downvotes, but when white men say they don't want to date any non white women, they get downvoted , its also funny that some of these white guys on here say they would date a woman with a mixed child but only if she wasn't white lol sounds like there's a segment of white men who want access to all races of women, but frown on the very thought of a white woman with a non white guy, especially a black one so hypocritical of them
@Tiptoeing No its not shocking , I know the media and society WANTS you to believe that all black men desperately want white women, but you are mistaken if every black man wanted white women, there would be no black children born which happens everyday.
Not at it.. I would still date her.. I mean if she was wasn't "Black" and the child looked like that, she would have been wit a "Black" dude before anyways.. Possibly 😂.. As long as the little twerp ain't over the age of five..
Aside from me most likely not dating a single mom to begin with. Yes, it would make it "worse" in certain circumstances. Women who tend to date certain demographics often times do so for certain stereotypes I consider negative ("bad boys" and whatnot)
A man having a kid would never ever be the reason I wouldn't date them. Depending on the situation not the kid themselves. Race should never be in the question either I wouldn't care what race, I wouldn't care what problems if I was gonna date their daddy that kid is gonna be treated like my own would. Period. Lol
Why should that matter? At least not anymore than them having a child to begin with. I’m not a particularly big fan of kids, I lack the patience for them. I don’t really intend to have any of my own, but if it was important to my SO I’d consider it. As for getting into a relationship with someone who has a kid, maybe but it would require some real interest on my part.
Would not register an issue and would be way down the list starting with the fact she has a child with all the considerations that come with that - Not in a negative way but there are extra things that you have to think about that I am sure have been well covered on GaG
Nope. I suspect I’ll have mixed kids. I’ve always been drawn to women outside of my ethnicity. Mostly white women. But I’ve always had a thing for Asian women. Just have never had the nerve to approach someone from Asia. I have this irrational fear that Asians don’t like black people.
Anyway my kids will most likely be mixed. So no. It wouldn’t keep me from dating them
So that everyone can see you are taking care of the woman's mistake? It's obviously a big negative factor.
That being said, I would never date someone with a child in general, because I have no interest in taking care of other people's mistakes, regardless of their race.
I wouldn't date anyone with a child anyway because of then they would demand me taking the responsibility for the child and I've to deal with it. I'm not ready for children yet and perhaps I don't want them at all. Children may scream, poop, demand things and so on which is exhausting.
I am mixed race. But not half black, half white like the question implies. It would keep me from dating them, because I dont want a woman who already has her own kids.
No way it would make me want to date them more. Chocolate vanilla kids are terrible cute. I would probably forget the boyfriend and just play with the kid.
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Wow. For the most part just about every one got the answer right. I seem thought a lot of people have some kind of ( but, well, um,)
My children were and still are the most amazing thing that has ever happend to me.
They gave my life meaning !!!
I think every child in the world deceives to be raised by someone who loves them and understands how important it is that there tool box be filled with a good set of tools so they can start a life of there own. Some thing they can build on. Unconditional love, Acceptance, Compassion, Empathy, Confidence, Independence, Fortitude and so on.
Life is not all peaches and cream.
My children maid me a better man. Weather I liked it or not.
My son is a better man than I ever will be.
Let me end with this.
A child didn't get to pick there parents and it doesn't matter what color, shape, capacity or lack of capacity.
The answer is no. A child would only be a plus in any relationship with a woman !
Asking that here is just bait for the insecure bigots..
I always love it when white manbabies say that a white woman who had previously been with a black man is ruined.
Translation: "I really want that woman but she's been with men who frighten me and that makes me worry about being compared to him as a man and I realize that I'm just a cowardly bigot so I'll try to make her look like trash in an obvious sour grapes way."
Basic truth: Nobody hates somebody that they actually feel superior to.
I guess fear and sour grapes feels best to you as an explanation but it is you just projecting what you want it to be on others who have formed an opinion that you obviously cannot understand.
Ding ding ding ding ding! Boy you sure on the money today! No I would not! Or any child not my own, especially if the child isn't even white. I mean, you have got to be kidding me. Aryan sweat and tears on a Cuckoo bird like that? I have a responsibility to my own and raising white children if any at all.
We must secure the existence of our people and a future for white children. Nothing in there about raising non white kids.
You can rot in a corner.
I'm more likely to help build a solid civilization for my people and their descendants by being racially aware and responsible to my tribe. You on the other hand are rotting already with that nihilistic take on things.
Racially aware of your false superiority from skin color? I'm okay with not being a pathetic piece of existence.
Glad you're not being a pathetic piece of existence. You could be excused for being a presumptuous one given the screwed up Black Mirror 21st century world we live in. The Nazis and KKK are so last century. White nationalists today are an accidental by product of the far left. We're a mix of a lot of things, sometimes supremacists who think that is necessary to success , the Vikings of old etc etc ad nausium. And of course the ones who are not much different than a Navajo or Piaute or Australian Aboriginal. I guarantee you they all love their tribes and their culture too and do not want to go extinct either. So, if you condemn me, you must also condemn them.
Prick like comment however long you ramble
@Wowgirl30q Maybe and maybe not but I am telling you facts that go far beyond myself. Lots of people feel as I do and more and more every day. You can not change that.
I don't you want to and everyone has a view I respect that.. I'm not one of those people who cares if anyone argees with me I have friends of all views. But that was just mean I feel you went about it cruel and you know the difference in point of view and just wrong
I'd respect you saying you delivered it wrong. I think you see what I mean
@Wowgirl30q I won't say I delivered my message wrong, you just don't understand what I'm talking bout. Every day whites are pushed to interbreed so we go extinct. So no, not having any of that.
You don't have to be cruel with whatever you think. You did delivery it wrong. So we can agree to disagree
I understand I live in the Midwest I'm surrounded by that opinion.
@Wowgirl30q You mean I was kind of trollish in my delivery? If that's what you mean , I'll admit that, I used the word aryan and cuckoo bird. Granted there's a little Louis Farrakhan mentality in that. But there are people out to literally kill my race off and bragging about it all over the internet. Worse than that, they want to kill all the other races off as well and lock us up in "smart cities" (gulags). So, I haven't much patience left when it comes to the subject of raising mixed race children. They are being used as a weapon of global genocide.
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Not at all. The race of the parent or child is of no relevance. You're obviously attracted to parent if you're looking at dating them and people with children come as a package deal. Take them or leave them. Simple as that.
Nope. It's actually preferred. I am mixed too so I cannot judge anyone like that. ♥️🥰
I would. still. date her, if she treats me. great thats all that matters i wouldn't care what race the child was that has nothing to do with anything the kid. is still a human being. It's hot the kids fault that the parents didn't work out
I wouldn’t date someone that already had a child to begin with. If I did, the race of the child would mean nothing to me.
I would date a Woman/ Girl with a mixed race child
race has no issue with me. I have Biracial / Mixed
race cousins. I was born to love people of all races
i would also date/ marry a Woman of another race
or religion , culture.
I personally don’t want to date single parents period, but I also believe that if someone doesn’t want to date you solely because of your kid’s racial background they’re not someone you want to be dating
Its funny how when black men comment that they don't want to date white women they get upvoted and they get no downvotes, but when white men say they don't want to date any non white women, they get downvoted , its also funny that some of these white guys on here say they would date a woman with a mixed child but only if she wasn't white lol sounds like there's a segment of white men who want access to all races of women, but frown on the very thought of a white woman with a non white guy, especially a black one so hypocritical of them
Because it's shocking for a black man to not like white women, that's why they get upvoted.
@Tiptoeing No its not shocking , I know the media and society WANTS you to believe that all black men desperately want white women, but you are mistaken if every black man wanted white women, there would be no black children born which happens everyday.
Not at it.. I would still date her.. I mean if she was wasn't "Black" and the child looked like that, she would have been wit a "Black" dude before anyways.. Possibly 😂.. As long as the little twerp ain't over the age of five..
Why do you want to call kids name
@single68 It's just light banter towards them.. Not mean spirited at all.. Lol..
Aside from me most likely not dating a single mom to begin with. Yes, it would make it "worse" in certain circumstances. Women who tend to date certain demographics often times do so for certain stereotypes I consider negative ("bad boys" and whatnot)
A man having a kid would never ever be the reason I wouldn't date them. Depending on the situation not the kid themselves. Race should never be in the question either I wouldn't care what race, I wouldn't care what problems if I was gonna date their daddy that kid is gonna be treated like my own would. Period. Lol
Why should that matter? At least not anymore than them having a child to begin with. I’m not a particularly big fan of kids, I lack the patience for them. I don’t really intend to have any of my own, but if it was important to my SO I’d consider it. As for getting into a relationship with someone who has a kid, maybe but it would require some real interest on my part.
Would not register an issue and would be way down the list starting with the fact she has a child with all the considerations that come with that - Not in a negative way but there are extra things that you have to think about that I am sure have been well covered on GaG
Nope. I suspect I’ll have mixed kids. I’ve always been drawn to women outside of my ethnicity. Mostly white women. But I’ve always had a thing for Asian women. Just have never had the nerve to approach someone from Asia. I have this irrational fear that Asians don’t like black people.
Anyway my kids will most likely be mixed. So no. It wouldn’t keep me from dating them
So that everyone can see you are taking care of the woman's mistake?
It's obviously a big negative factor.
That being said, I would never date someone with a child in general, because I have no interest in taking care of other people's mistakes, regardless of their race.
I wouldn't date anyone with a child anyway because of then they would demand me taking the responsibility for the child and I've to deal with it. I'm not ready for children yet and perhaps I don't want them at all. Children may scream, poop, demand things and so on which is exhausting.
I am mixed race. But not half black, half white like the question implies.
It would keep me from dating them, because I dont want a woman who already has her own kids.
No way it would make me want to date them more. Chocolate vanilla kids are terrible cute. I would probably forget the boyfriend and just play with the kid.