Would you date an asexual person? (Page 2)
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Probably not. If im looking forward to a future relationship with this person, I plan on having sex eventually! Lol I'm not going to be with a Nun... sex is not the most important, but it is very important
I wouldn't date a weirdo. Most asexuals are faking it too and they're liars.
What makes you think they're faking it?
@Just_a_human because they're liars.
Why do you think that though?
@Just_a_human I just wish they weren't liars
But, how are we liars?
I just wish you weren't a liar
Well, I'm telling the truth so... It's not lying
I just wish you weren't a liar.
What are we lying about
No offense to asexual people but for me sex is way to important in a relationship. It also causes major issues when one person wants sex and the other could care less.
To be honest you should respect each other choices but I feel like if you're really in love being asexual isn't really possible.. İ mean everything has it's reason but if you're really in love and comfortable with each other you'll definitely make love... I'm not only talking about sex (Making love is not only having sex).
It would be too difficult. If I wanted that with the man I love but he had no drive to do that it would feel a lonely for me.
no because id feel im not sexy enough thats why she doesn't wanna do it with me,
it would constently make me sad and ruin my self esteem, i want sexual approval
why a dislike?
please explain what u dislike about what i said and why
It’s my personal opinion that romance can exist without sex, so yes I would
Romance without sex is a platonic friendship.
And some friendships transcend other friendships, meaning more, giving more emotional support. That sounds like a good relationship to me
Its still a platonic friendship.
Romance is a relationship with physical intimacy coupled with emotional intimacy.
A relationship with only emotional intimacy is just a platonic friendship. I mean if that's what you're into, then that's what you're into. But its not romance.
I think it is romance... as I’ve said, romance does not NEED to include physical intimacy, even if that’s preferable.
Asexual people should date other asexual people... never could i ever... i practically need a nympho now..
I would think an asexual person would want to date themselves!
Thumbs up for the science reference.
Well, no I am never going to date anyone in my life. I have always been single and I wish to remains single for life.
If they still wanted genuine emotional and physical romantic intimacy - just not sex, I’d TRY it. But if they had no romantic desire at all... that’d be far too sterilized for me.
no such thing as an asexual person ! Male and female created he them ! You either have a penis or a vagina and can not be having sex with out the opposite sex with you ! Thanks
As an asexual myself, I would. I don't desire sex in relationships, but love. Romance is not the same and we all should know that?
What exactly is romance?
@Just_a_human I thought you would know... I prefer going out to a fancy restaurant and bonding with someone. That's my outlook on it. My romance is not everyone romance. I just want to be in a loving and caring relationship.
The concept of romance is something I've never been able to wrap my mind around. I don't know why, maybe it's because when people describe what they do, that just sounds like two friends hanging out to me.
@Just_a_human oh i agree with you on that one. I never dated anyone but I do understand what many people consider as romantic. Not everyone thinks the same though!
I particularly like to ask other asexuals what their view on romance is since many argue that a relationship without sex is just a friendship.
@Just_a_human well they can think what they wanna think. I firmly believe anyone can be in a relationship and be connected without encouraging sex.
That is just a friendship at that point. The very concept of romance would not exist without sex.
yeas
a retarded prude disliked this cos she doesn't understand ur point,
she thinks ur jus another horny guy is only thinking about sex, probably,
but she doesn't understand that wasn't ur point, u were not saying a male can be in a relationship without sex, cos we can,
but part of being loved is being sexually accepted, if a girl doesn't let us do it with her, it makes us feel worthless and like we;re not good enough for her... we need a approval
No romance is still there but again it's more of a best friend situation
@spesh Well the thing is, evolutionary speaking, romance and those intense feelings arose because of sex and how it increased the chances of the father sticking around to help raise the offspring. It's basically an intense friendship that is regularly solidified through physical contact related to sex.
Friends can be very close and hug, cuddle and some even give chaste kisses in European countries. The emotional highs from romance comes from the anticipation in the act of bonding through the ultimate act of physical intimacy, sex.
But a lot of people raised in puritanical cultures just don't get it.
*and the act of
Only if she was a hologram:
I would definitely date, and if i can feel love in the air, i would go all in and commit to a relationship😌
Yes, if we really connect on an emotional level. I'm sure there would be some way to make the sexual aspect work at least for me.
Honestly no, couples sex drives need to be some what on the same level, so as someone who wants sex with their partner on a regular basis it would be difficult to be with someone who is doesn't want that.
Yes but I would need to be castrated to make it work long term
Probably not because it wouldn't lead to what I eventually want accomplished and having a family. So it will be a waste of time.