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Nope not really. So far I’ve only dated 3 guys. The first was extremely sensitive. His name was Ryan. I am all for guys expressing their emotions and allowing themselves to be vulnerable, but Ryan took it to the extreme. He had asked me to be his girlfriend about 2 weeks after we met. I wasn’t really interested because we were barely even friends yet. When I started to turn him down I could see tears forming in his eyes, which made me feel guilty and so instead I said yes. We dated for a very short time until I could work up the guts to break up with him. When I did he cried and then called and texted me later while crying begging me to take him back. I felt guilty once again and took him back. A week later his best friend tried to “seduce” me and wanted me to cheat on Ryan. I rejected him, but I told Ryan that the whole situation made me uncomfortable and that I didn’t want to be in the relationship anymore because of that. Instead of crying that time, he blamed his friend. My second boyfriend was the complete opposite. It was like the guy had no emotions at all. His name was Jaylen. To this day I believe that he is a psychopath. He and I were friends until one day he kissed me and asked me out on a dare (I didn’t know it was a dare). We dated for a little while. He took my virginity (It was a very painful experience because he was very aggressive), but when he discovered that I (A VIRGIN) wasn’t very good, at sex he dumped me. Then he started dating someone new, but then cheated on her with ME (HE TOOK OFF THE CONDOM WITHOUT ME KNOWING). After he discovered that I had told his girlfriend about what he had done he had threatened to kill me and to assault me, and told everyone he knew that I was a whore. Then literally the day before I moved away, he saw me on the street and invited me to spend the night with him at his house. I said no. I ran into him a few other times after that and he threatened me some more. Now he beats his current girlfriend and cheats on her even though they have a baby now. My 3rd boyfriend was named Joshua. At first Josh seemed like the perfect guy. He was sweet and kind and gentle. Shortly after we started dating he revealed to me that his family was pretty wealthy. He began showering me with gifts and we moved in together pretty quickly. We had our ups and downs like any other couple but things started going down hill after a year. Joshua has depression and it had started to show itself. He became incredibly needy and clingy. His self esteem plummeted and he became very jealous and over protective. He would get upset if I wore a pretty dress because he didn’t want other guys looking at me. When we argue he would try to settle everything with money or gifts rather than solve the actual issue. So I think I have terrible taste.
Your story is like perfect case study for Red Pill community. Lmao hahah
@Mamamialetmego What is that? And why is that?
It's a long story. But shortly you have been with all kinds of men. A simp, incel type of guy who couldn’t even go sexual with you (i don't even call him a man) then a bad boy type of guy who kept fucking you and others who even you don't like his persona he was still attractive as sexually and last a nice guy type who you end up disgust with him.
@Mamamialetmego I’m not disgusted by Joshua. I just couldn’t handle him. I’m sure he loved me, and he had a good heart, but he wasn’t emotionally stable. He was a nice guy, but he has issues and I’m not a therapist. He had depression, low self esteem, mild autism, anxiety disorder, and possibly bi-polar disorder (it runs in his family). I always asked him to see a therapist or a counselor and he only did once. He had really self destructive habits. He would stay in his room for days straight sometimes. He would get jealous whenever he saw me speak to another guy or get dressed up pretty. He would have mood swings and one minute we’d be happy and the next he be upset or annoyed with me. He had no other friends besides me, which meant he turned to me for everything. I tried my best. Whenever I was upset or needed help he would leave and either come back with food or a gift, but he would never ask me what’s wrong or talk to me. Sometimes when he saw that I was upset he would just leave the house for hours and I’d be there alone. I don’t hate him or have any hard feelings toward him. I just don’t think he was ready for a relationship, especially with someone like myself who also has depression.
Where do you meet all these crazies?
I see i see but let me ask you one question. Did you desire him sexually after seeing all these?
@iFarted the first two were friends of friends. The third I met at college.
@Mamamialetmego Yes. Physically he is a very handsome guy. Just because I don’t vibe with someone emotionally doesn’t mean I just stop being physically attracted to them. Sex doesn’t equal love to me. I’ve had fwbs that I didn’t connect with emotionally. But typically I know where to draw the line. I usually don’t continue to have sex with people that I’ve dated and broken up with. Jaylen was the exception, but that was because I wanted “revenge”. He and his girlfriend basically had a vendetta against with me so I slept with him and told her all about it to make them both feel like trash. I was younger and stupid then. But I’ve learned my lesson.
Women don't desire man just based on physically if it were like that then every guy who go to gym would become chick magnet. Women also wanna see a man's attitude, masculinity. Why do you think a lot of relationships end after man became weak and vulnerable or lose his status or something. Even you don't realize, subconsciously you lose respect and attracion.
@Mamamialetmego Sometimes I do desire a man purely based on physicality. You may not believe that, but it is true. I think that most guys who are very physically attractive also have a very confident and powerful attitude because they know they are attractive. But there have been guys that I’ve been attracted to physically, but not mentally. I’m not gonna marry or date a guy that I’m not compatible with mentally. But I have had sexual encounters with them purely because I found them attractive.
Omg this Joshua guy sounds like the one I'm dating now lol. We been together 4 months and already he asking me to move in, I'm like No soz. I think also though you need to take responsibility in this because you could have said No to many of these experiences and relationships go both ways. Take it as a learning curve to discovering more about yourself.
@SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ I definitely take responsibility for. Ryan was my first boyfriend and I was just a stupid kid. I put his feelings above my own and got into an insincere relationship. Jaylen was my crush and my friend, which was why I dated him, but I should’ve left him alone completely after I realized he was no good. Josh was the guy who was basically too good to be true. He seemed so perfect at first which was why I was willing to move the relationship along so quickly and move in. I’ve learned my lessons.
No. I only go on chemistry and connection but always end up with jerks. I am starting to feel that instant attraction is a joke at least in my life. The best men I know are my guy friends, I am planning now on dating one of them. We have talked about trying to give it a chance a few times so why not. If that succeeds and I fall in love with him then I can say yes I have good taste in men lol.
I agree. In my experience whenever I have had an instant spark with someone from the first time I sae them I always end up disappointed in their attitude. It's because we formed the connection based on physical attraction alone and zero knowledge on their personality. But yeah I've always had long term relationships with guys I got to know first and then when I realise how compatible we are together the sexual attraction slowly kicks in. Obviously though they would still have to be some what attractive. I dont think you can just fall for someone personality alone without finding them physically appealing to some extent
Not even a little bit. I have terrible taste in women. Every time. I always go for the crazy ones. Bipolar, specifically. It's like I've got some program running in my brain which actively seeks out manic bipolar chicks. I mean, they're pretty fun in the manic stage.Like. There's this chick I'm into at the moment. She struck me as very well put together initially, responsible, mature, stable, while also having that youthful hyper fun spirit and ridiculously high social intelligence. Even if she's a cavedweller. Almost the whole package. Nope. Wrong again. Bipolar. I found out yesterday. It's just that type. Gets me every time. And I don't think I can stop.Regular women are boring. I like the roller coaster. I like the chaos. I miss the misery. I know I need a stable woman. Someone who can help me swim faster rather than pull me down. But there is also some kind of weird-ass draw to all the splashing behind me.
Yes, because I’m only interested in sophisticated, elegant, stylish women who are either members of the upper-class or are intent on becoming so...
Agree whole heartedly bro
@AJC997 We gentlemen are people of pure taste 👌🏻🎩
@StephenCFWhen I become a man of wealth and opulence, I will have finer sensibilities in which madam I choose to spend my days with
@AJC997 My life goals exactly! And the cherry on top will always be that elegant, refined lady by my side 👗👠👒
@StephenCFThe question is how will you become rich enough?
@AJC997 I hope to have a high job in the fashion industry after college. But on the side, I play lottery games daily. I know some say it sounds far-fetched to think I could win the jackpot... but I nearly did once (I only missed one number) 😓 But I’ve always maintained optimism since then 💶💶💶
I play the lottery too, it's good to dream. Brings some hope into drab life and gives you something to look forward to
@JesseTheMan The key is to play responsibly and in accordance with your income (maybe just 10% or so of your weekly wages), and see what happens, if ever... oh and to always reinvest your small or medium winnings into the next game, especially when it hasn’t paid you back for all the times you’ve played lotteries before. For example, if you’ve spent 500 since playing lotteries, and in one game you won 250... spend that 250 asap on the next game to boost your chances of winning bigger. If you’ve spent 500 since playing the lottery, and in one game you won 1000, save yourself 500 to compensate for all the gambling beforehand, but take a chance at spending the other 500 asap on the next game, so you have almost countless chances & it would feel like you’ve never spent a penny on lotteries before 😅😅😅 And so on...
@StephenCFSounds kind of irresponsible tbh
@AJC997 Each to their own 😌
Apparently not as every guy I've dated in the past was a fiasco... but I blame that on being young and stupid, desperate to want a boyfriend/relationship, and not setting high enough standards for myself.
Knowing what you want is vitally important isn't it. You end up in disasters of you chase desires.
I can't always tell if somebody is good or evil but God gives me guidance about who to accept and who to reject and God also protects me from bad choices.
I try, I really do, but it just seems like every relationship I get into doesn't last for more than a few weeks, and usually for things that I couldn't control or affect. Maybe fate's pushing me back? I don't know, maybe there's something wrong with me.
I've definitely made my fair share of mistakes but generally I'd say I have better taste than others my age. In saying that, everyone has their own tastes. To them my type of women might seem odd and vice-versa so its like comparing apples and oranges and the only one you can compare to is your younger self and see if you have grown or still keep making the same mistakes
I'd say yes, but I'm beginning to think I'm meant to be a lone wolf. I mean, I'm kind of a social outcast, I'm extremely different in an 'I can't relate to you at all whatsoever' kind of way, etc. All I have going for me are my good looks/good hair and friendly personality. But as we all know, in the grand scheme of things, none of that matters, haha. Although I'd like a partner, my life would be just as fulfilled without. :)
You sound like me back in the day, don't worry the women start to want us as we get older. Just don't them to seriously.
@Legacy3018 I appreciate that, man. With that said, all I know is that I already have a really hard time making friends for those reasons, let alone a romantic partner. I just decided that enough is enough. I'm tired of worry about it, and I'm tired of my heart hurting from general loneliness. So, I just accepted that I'm likely meant to be alone and it helped become generally ok with both the idea of that as well as my current circumstances.
Sounds good, I've been single for 6 years now. Haven't touched a soul, but I might actually start to make the effort now.
@Gavyn make sure you don't chose the wrong lady, and always go by what your guy says three months into any relationship, if it's not OK, just turn away, regardless of any loneliness feeling.
@Legacy3018 Yeah. I tend to pull away from people when things aren't right. I even do it when I feel lonely. I guess that means I self-sabotage?
Ah that's pants, maybe you will end up with that one lucky lady who understands that and persists with you regardless. 👌
Ohhh, terrible. Never works out with me. This one chick I do like is soon gonna go to college. The previous girls I've dated were just crazy. It's getting scary like is every woman like that.I went on to this date and this chick yells out that she don't wanna live and she wished she died early. I said okay😂🤷🏻♀️
I don't understand what you mean. If you mean the guy I could choose based on his appearance and nothing but his appearance then yes. I believe everyone would have good taste if they were choosing someone only based on their looks. However there is much more to a person than their appearance. The important thing is to find the right balance between looks and personality.
I think I do. By looking at the way someone acts or talks, I can have a broad idea about what kind of person they are. Saves me from crushing on crazy people.
Yes i do have good taste. Thats how I've been able to avoid unecessary pain and disaster. I've made a couple mistakes with some guys but only because i wanted to ignore my intuition and just give them a chance and find out. Turns out you should stick to your intuition in the end.
If a girl of your race likes black guys so you think she has bad taste?
@jonesjessica812 wtf... no.
Why don't you cover your cleavage?
Intuition is a powerful tool if you can get in tune with it.Also, a lot of people would disagree but I belive intuition comes directly from the heart.
I mean, I like what I like so I think it's good lol. Even if others didn't like the girls I like I'm not about to turn down Adriana Lima, because other people say that's bad taste. 😂. I've had other guys compliment me on having hot gf's so that's a nice little ego boost, but I wouldn't care either way.
Fantastic eye for the ladies I'm very. Appealed by women I'm bit of a man hater lol but I'm not. Very. Appalling I've lost my accretive looking days
I like to think it's got way better since I was younger. But yeah, I'd say my taste is pretty great.
I don't know. Probably women. It is a 70% chance that I might end up with one.
Yes but my taste is at champagne levels and that causes issues for guy like me who is a decent merlot at best. I'm just not attracted to other merlots.
I thought I did at one point but I'm not sure anymore.
Fuck no! I have terrible taste all of them are either crazy or I drive them crazy, in which case they have the bad taste
I have great taste. Most of my exes have gone on to get married and have families. But i typically date traditional feminine women who respect men and are virgins or no more than 2 or 3 guys.
If I didn’t think my taste was good, it wouldn’t be my taste lol
Yes I do. The question is just if the girl that I chose with my good taste likes me back as well :).
My view: there is no 'good' or 'bad' taste. It's individual; and what I personally prefer is neither 'the rule' nor exposed to anyone's opinion.
I would like to think so, but honestly, I'm attracted to party-girls and sluts who happen to have a little more going on upstairs.
As far as looks goes yes but the person behind the smile you never know what kind of a shark you'll meet
I don't have a particular taste, as they all taste different anyway.But I seem to have a thing for Scorpios, but the sting always kills off the relationship.
Scorpios🙌🏻👍I love them because i am one
Leo, do you get on with Leo's?
Lol my last boyfriend was a leo...But unless youve checked out your whole chart then you probably wouldn't know.Your moon and venus sign in your chart show usually your love intersts. My moons aquarius and venus in scorp. So im like a super detached scorpio,
To be fair, I don't have all the Leo traits either. I used to do a website that included horoscopes.
Go to google and type in natal chart.Go to the first one cafe astrology and fill out what it asks.you'll be amazed.And yeah i didn't know until i looked into it, makes sense whom u date. All of my exes shared the same moon sign or one in air, and our venus’s were compatible. Pretty cool
Cool, that is one long report. I'll read it now and let you know what I find 👍
Im gonna assume your moon or venus is in water or earth.And okay cool! :)
I can't seem any reference to water or Earth. My moon is in Picese which is a fish?And my Venus is in Virgo.
Look them up.Water and earth signs usually go well together. What was rising sign,? I really thought u were a gemini by looks
My risisng sign is Gemini, well it says Ascendant is Gemini if it's the same thing.My looks are massively deceiving, they are a burden to my personality 😂
Also the main one is the Sun in Leo. Its actually scary how accurately it describes my personality, when I said I don't fit the normal Leo description, this one describes me to a T.I'm going to start nt website back up now I've looked into this.
No way,?😂 I've been studying into it a while and found certain features make up your rising, yeah i could tell you are a gemini. Im actually weirded out how good im getting at this😄 basically to sum it up you will like anyone in earth signs and water. Sagitarius is opposite of gemini so you may like them too.
Glad u found it interesting, i agree
Maybe it's your calling!! 👏Get into it, I know a lady who runs a very happy life doing numourology, it's a passion she enjoys and makes loads of money from it to enjoy life with. 👌 Passion projects that create an audience seem to be the new entrepreneurs of today.
I've thought about incorporating it. I have my degree in nutrition, liscenscing in personal training and aeshteics.I just last year got into this stuff because i figured like the whole mind body soul thing we be cool to fully understand, and i already know body fully, so its been interesting.And oh soo cool! We will see:)
Oh wow, at your age its usually not even considered. If you are interested, to gain control of the mind and keep it free from usuless clutter, that just causes worry and stress, try the book, A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. If you want to go deep with it, try the power of now.You clearly already know all about the body, and the soul, I can't really find anything that address this but the Eckhart Tolle books and talks may help with that too.The should I think is related to the Hart and intuition but I'm still learning about the soul.
Now and the past few years before that horrible taste
I believe I do. I haven’t dated a guy who cheats or bullshits so I’m all good.
Yes Ofcourse , i only bet on the best ones and never lost it !!
Definitely, I'm in a successful relationship, he's kind-hearted, sweet, we were friends first, we're still buddies despite being in a relationship, he can talk to almost anyone and never gets into fights with people, even my strict parents like him as a person, we're both studying in University towards good career goals, he's clean & healthy, we have mutual friends, etc. I can go on~
No, I have been called a "wacko magnet" by all of my friends. I tend to go for attractive women who are crazy AF!!! I have suffered very much because of it. I need help!
Nah, I tend to choose women who are more harmful than a drug addiction.
Yeah, but what if you don't have any taste to begin with?
I have very high standards and I'm very slow to proceed. By the time I've gauged someone properly and decided I want to be with them, they are already taken. Forever alone.
Hell no! The only people I have “feelings” for are a$$hats
Don't like anyone and never have really. So I guess I havnt got a taste
I meaaan to me my taste in men is good I don't know what others think xd
The type of woman I like, I think doesn't even exist.Here hoping I prove that wrong.
I think my taste in women resembles my taste with wine.
No, I'm single so it's a sign that I don't know shit about women
Yes obviously. I have mad a quite good catch and he is my very first relationship. I got lucky
I had the same for my first relationship and I'm convinced it's part of the reason why I've never had a bad boyfriend ever since. That is what becomes normal to you. Like I know some girls who have been with men who beat them, and when the next one doesn't but he still treats her like shit, they have actually thought he was a good man since he doesn't hit her. Their first relationships were so bad that they have such a low bar now and think anything is a step up.
Yes that could be. 😊
I try to, but still seem to attract a lots of chameleons.
Definitely. I've been attracted to 100% of the women I've liked
Not at all. I'm attracted to a kind of men that I shouldn't be attracted to.
No, they usually have shit taste in men, but at least they DO taste good!
I've been with so many women i don't know what to tell
By the way girls answers are hillarious. It's like "all men are pigs" 😂
I don't know. What matters to me is the good personality of a person.
I always think I have, but every time I choose wrong so...
Yep. Nerd girls are my taste. Good taste in girls in my opinion.
Hmmm I’m not exactly sure😂 I think I do for the most part lol
No. I always end up with a nice person later I descover their anything but nice.
I have no judgement at all where girls are concerned. I love them all.
1000 percentI am the most critical person in the world, i will pick apart all small minute details about them, so when i date someone, thats HUGE.
I don't know why someone would want to put up with you. You sound insufferably critical, and honestly a bit entitled.
I am both and i deserve to be with the amount of time and effort i put into my own appearance. I dont care if its bothersome to you, and trust me, people jump through hoops for me., i dont have a problem with people putting up with me✌️
I don't it's entitlement to want someone excellent, if you put in the work to be excellent yourself. Besides, for the right person, it won't even feel like you are jumping through anything.
@winterfox10 thank you!. I agree
@winterfox10 Neither do I, but pick apart what she said. She picks apart a person as if they need to be perfect. That's just a bit too much for me, dawg. If I wanted someone perfect, I'd date a calculator.
@winterfox10 and for the record, she seems a tad bit judgmental. But then again, I am too. However, I only judge the people that piss me off.
@gavyn then get off of my comment socially awkward loser.
I haven't found my taste in anyone. I don't like anyone tbh
Fuck no, I seem to like cunts although the guy I'm seeing right now may be my first good one.
No, I just so happened to find a good one.
Hahaha. I’d say so far NOPE XD.
Yes I think I have good taste.
I think I have amazing taste ♥️🥰
Nope... I clearly haven't so far
No I seem to attract horrible people
No lmao. My standards are kinda low and I’ve been attracted to some lame guys.
I dont even know what my taste is anymore haha
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