Your story is like perfect case study for Red Pill community. Lmao hahah
@Mamamialetmego What is that? And why is that?
It's a long story. But shortly you have been with all kinds of men. A simp, incel type of guy who couldn’t even go sexual with you (i don't even call him a man) then a bad boy type of guy who kept fucking you and others who even you don't like his persona he was still attractive as sexually and last a nice guy type who you end up disgust with him.
@Mamamialetmego I’m not disgusted by Joshua. I just couldn’t handle him. I’m sure he loved me, and he had a good heart, but he wasn’t emotionally stable. He was a nice guy, but he has issues and I’m not a therapist. He had depression, low self esteem, mild autism, anxiety disorder, and possibly bi-polar disorder (it runs in his family). I always asked him to see a therapist or a counselor and he only did once. He had really self destructive habits. He would stay in his room for days straight sometimes. He would get jealous whenever he saw me speak to another guy or get dressed up pretty. He would have mood swings and one minute we’d be happy and the next he be upset or annoyed with me. He had no other friends besides me, which meant he turned to me for everything. I tried my best. Whenever I was upset or needed help he would leave and either come back with food or a gift, but he would never ask me what’s wrong or talk to me. Sometimes when he saw that I was upset he would just leave the house for hours and I’d be there alone. I don’t hate him or have any hard feelings toward him. I just don’t think he was ready for a relationship, especially with someone like myself who also has depression.
Where do you meet all these crazies?
I see i see but let me ask you one question. Did you desire him sexually after seeing all these?
@iFarted the first two were friends of friends. The third I met at college.
@Mamamialetmego Yes. Physically he is a very handsome guy. Just because I don’t vibe with someone emotionally doesn’t mean I just stop being physically attracted to them. Sex doesn’t equal love to me. I’ve had fwbs that I didn’t connect with emotionally. But typically I know where to draw the line. I usually don’t continue to have sex with people that I’ve dated and broken up with. Jaylen was the exception, but that was because I wanted “revenge”. He and his girlfriend basically had a vendetta against with me so I slept with him and told her all about it to make them both feel like trash. I was younger and stupid then. But I’ve learned my lesson.
Women don't desire man just based on physically if it were like that then every guy who go to gym would become chick magnet. Women also wanna see a man's attitude, masculinity. Why do you think a lot of relationships end after man became weak and vulnerable or lose his status or something. Even you don't realize, subconsciously you lose respect and attracion.
@Mamamialetmego Sometimes I do desire a man purely based on physicality. You may not believe that, but it is true. I think that most guys who are very physically attractive also have a very confident and powerful attitude because they know they are attractive. But there have been guys that I’ve been attracted to physically, but not mentally. I’m not gonna marry or date a guy that I’m not compatible with mentally. But I have had sexual encounters with them purely because I found them attractive.
Omg this Joshua guy sounds like the one I'm dating now lol. We been together 4 months and already he asking me to move in, I'm like No soz. I think also though you need to take responsibility in this because you could have said No to many of these experiences and relationships go both ways. Take it as a learning curve to discovering more about yourself.
@SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ I definitely take responsibility for. Ryan was my first boyfriend and I was just a stupid kid. I put his feelings above my own and got into an insincere relationship. Jaylen was my crush and my friend, which was why I dated him, but I should’ve left him alone completely after I realized he was no good. Josh was the guy who was basically too good to be true. He seemed so perfect at first which was why I was willing to move the relationship along so quickly and move in. I’ve learned my lessons.
I agree. In my experience whenever I have had an instant spark with someone from the first time I sae them I always end up disappointed in their attitude. It's because we formed the connection based on physical attraction alone and zero knowledge on their personality. But yeah I've always had long term relationships with guys I got to know first and then when I realise how compatible we are together the sexual attraction slowly kicks in. Obviously though they would still have to be some what attractive. I dont think you can just fall for someone personality alone without finding them physically appealing to some extent
Agree whole heartedly bro
@AJC997 We gentlemen are people of pure taste 👌🏻🎩
@StephenCFWhen I become a man of wealth and opulence, I will have finer sensibilities in which madam I choose to spend my days with
@AJC997 My life goals exactly! And the cherry on top will always be that elegant, refined lady by my side 👗👠👒
@StephenCFThe question is how will you become rich enough?
@AJC997 I hope to have a high job in the fashion industry after college. But on the side, I play lottery games daily. I know some say it sounds far-fetched to think I could win the jackpot... but I nearly did once (I only missed one number) 😓 But I’ve always maintained optimism since then 💶💶💶
I play the lottery too, it's good to dream. Brings some hope into drab life and gives you something to look forward to
@JesseTheMan The key is to play responsibly and in accordance with your income (maybe just 10% or so of your weekly wages), and see what happens, if ever... oh and to always reinvest your small or medium winnings into the next game, especially when it hasn’t paid you back for all the times you’ve played lotteries before. For example, if you’ve spent 500 since playing lotteries, and in one game you won 250... spend that 250 asap on the next game to boost your chances of winning bigger. If you’ve spent 500 since playing the lottery, and in one game you won 1000, save yourself 500 to compensate for all the gambling beforehand, but take a chance at spending the other 500 asap on the next game, so you have almost countless chances & it would feel like you’ve never spent a penny on lotteries before 😅😅😅 And so on...
@StephenCFSounds kind of irresponsible tbh
@AJC997 Each to their own 😌
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Knowing what you want is vitally important isn't it. You end up in disasters of you chase desires.
You sound like me back in the day, don't worry the women start to want us as we get older. Just don't them to seriously.
@Legacy3018 I appreciate that, man. With that said, all I know is that I already have a really hard time making friends for those reasons, let alone a romantic partner. I just decided that enough is enough. I'm tired of worry about it, and I'm tired of my heart hurting from general loneliness. So, I just accepted that I'm likely meant to be alone and it helped become generally ok with both the idea of that as well as my current circumstances.
Sounds good, I've been single for 6 years now. Haven't touched a soul, but I might actually start to make the effort now.
@Gavyn make sure you don't chose the wrong lady, and always go by what your guy says three months into any relationship, if it's not OK, just turn away, regardless of any loneliness feeling.
@Legacy3018 Yeah. I tend to pull away from people when things aren't right. I even do it when I feel lonely. I guess that means I self-sabotage?
Ah that's pants, maybe you will end up with that one lucky lady who understands that and persists with you regardless. 👌
If a girl of your race likes black guys so you think she has bad taste?
@jonesjessica812 wtf... no.
Why don't you cover your cleavage?
Intuition is a powerful tool if you can get in tune with it.Also, a lot of people would disagree but I belive intuition comes directly from the heart.
Scorpios🙌🏻👍I love them because i am one
Leo, do you get on with Leo's?
Lol my last boyfriend was a leo...But unless youve checked out your whole chart then you probably wouldn't know.Your moon and venus sign in your chart show usually your love intersts. My moons aquarius and venus in scorp. So im like a super detached scorpio,
To be fair, I don't have all the Leo traits either. I used to do a website that included horoscopes.
Go to google and type in natal chart.Go to the first one cafe astrology and fill out what it asks.you'll be amazed.And yeah i didn't know until i looked into it, makes sense whom u date. All of my exes shared the same moon sign or one in air, and our venus’s were compatible. Pretty cool
Cool, that is one long report. I'll read it now and let you know what I find 👍
Im gonna assume your moon or venus is in water or earth.And okay cool! :)
I can't seem any reference to water or Earth. My moon is in Picese which is a fish?And my Venus is in Virgo.
Look them up.Water and earth signs usually go well together. What was rising sign,? I really thought u were a gemini by looks
My risisng sign is Gemini, well it says Ascendant is Gemini if it's the same thing.My looks are massively deceiving, they are a burden to my personality 😂
Also the main one is the Sun in Leo. Its actually scary how accurately it describes my personality, when I said I don't fit the normal Leo description, this one describes me to a T.I'm going to start nt website back up now I've looked into this.
No way,?😂 I've been studying into it a while and found certain features make up your rising, yeah i could tell you are a gemini. Im actually weirded out how good im getting at this😄 basically to sum it up you will like anyone in earth signs and water. Sagitarius is opposite of gemini so you may like them too.
Glad u found it interesting, i agree
Maybe it's your calling!! 👏Get into it, I know a lady who runs a very happy life doing numourology, it's a passion she enjoys and makes loads of money from it to enjoy life with. 👌 Passion projects that create an audience seem to be the new entrepreneurs of today.
I've thought about incorporating it. I have my degree in nutrition, liscenscing in personal training and aeshteics.I just last year got into this stuff because i figured like the whole mind body soul thing we be cool to fully understand, and i already know body fully, so its been interesting.And oh soo cool! We will see:)
Oh wow, at your age its usually not even considered. If you are interested, to gain control of the mind and keep it free from usuless clutter, that just causes worry and stress, try the book, A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. If you want to go deep with it, try the power of now.You clearly already know all about the body, and the soul, I can't really find anything that address this but the Eckhart Tolle books and talks may help with that too.The should I think is related to the Hart and intuition but I'm still learning about the soul.
By the way girls answers are hillarious. It's like "all men are pigs" 😂
I had the same for my first relationship and I'm convinced it's part of the reason why I've never had a bad boyfriend ever since. That is what becomes normal to you. Like I know some girls who have been with men who beat them, and when the next one doesn't but he still treats her like shit, they have actually thought he was a good man since he doesn't hit her. Their first relationships were so bad that they have such a low bar now and think anything is a step up.
Yes that could be. 😊
@ApacheGazella hey question for you. why did they delete that post you made asking people to rate you? also can you rate me as well? im curious. just follow me back
They didn’t delete it, I deleted all of my posts, I just didn’t want them online anymore lol.
I don't know why someone would want to put up with you. You sound insufferably critical, and honestly a bit entitled.
I am both and i deserve to be with the amount of time and effort i put into my own appearance. I dont care if its bothersome to you, and trust me, people jump through hoops for me., i dont have a problem with people putting up with me✌️
I don't it's entitlement to want someone excellent, if you put in the work to be excellent yourself. Besides, for the right person, it won't even feel like you are jumping through anything.
@winterfox10 thank you!. I agree
@winterfox10 Neither do I, but pick apart what she said. She picks apart a person as if they need to be perfect. That's just a bit too much for me, dawg. If I wanted someone perfect, I'd date a calculator.
@winterfox10 and for the record, she seems a tad bit judgmental. But then again, I am too. However, I only judge the people that piss me off.
@Gavyn then get off of my comment socially awkward loser.